These posts are simply getting out of hand.

Learn to agree to disagree but the name calling has to stop.

As an example sarah is doing what she has been recommended to do - fair enough.
Allie is commenting on what we here in the uk are recommended to do which is very different.
Given that both countries have high birth rates and a very high survival rate i'd deduce that both are probably quite successful ways of raising children.

Posts started with the intention of causing drama (nope, don't need to be psychic - you can tell by the topic) are uncalled for.
If you use them nicely they will get left alone, if you start b*tching and name calling, they will get locked or deleted depending on how nasty they have got.

Restarting a post once it has been locked or deleted purely to continue the debate will get it deleted.

Just accept there are more than 2 ways to skin a cat!