I think we really need a forum for survivors of rape but it would have to be very heavily moderated

What about a forum for the other halfs of the rape survivors as well? My gf was raped a little over two weeks ago and is now two weeks late with her period. We need support to. I can't eat without bad stomach pain etc. I want to kill him and I know where he lives. I don't want any kids, especially a child of rape because that is all I will think about when I see the litle one "if" she is pregnant. I know that I would never look at the child as my own.....just a memory of that rape.....and she is contemplating keeping it!!!! It's her decision but if she keeps the child, if she is pregnant, it will tear me apart! I don't think I'd be able to handle it and I'd feel bad because it's not her fault, but I think I'd lose it. I need advice or a forum where I can get some advice because I'm going insane. She's got a dr appt this Thurs. I'm praying that she is not pregnant.

i remember once we had the war a married women was raped by a soldier she cracked and when she discovered that she was pregnant she was extremely depressed but her husband was a great man he supported her all the way. telling her give the baby a chance maybe it is mine. its not his fault but after delivery the baby had green eyes exactly looked like the rapist wile the husband and wife had black eyes. she cracked when she saw the baby she refused to feed him or take care of him. the husband was disappointed but they had to take care of him he is only a baby who knows nothing. and never choose to come or hurt anyone he is only a human. when he grew up the mom couldn’t stop neglecting him or treating him bad .when he to cries the husband feels so sad for this poor baby who did nothing wrong. its un fair for him to be treated like that while he did nothing wrong. Who knows maybe this baby who came from that bad dad become a good son who will cover his family with love and respect. I knew a guy who use to abuse his mom and dad while he is their own son. I personally prefer to get rid of the baby before his first week in his mom tummy only for the fact that we don’t want any criminal gene. I hope god will help all who suffers. And make it up to them by giving them a better life. Try to forget the bad memories if you forget you won’t remember and if you didn’t remember you will live in peace.

Rape can certainly be MF, MM, FM, or FF. It is simply the unwanted sexual assault of one individual against another. It is an act of violence. It affects not only the recipient of the attack but their entire family, the family of the attacker, and any offspring that results from the attack as noted in the disturbing post above.

When my sister and I were young, she molested me on two occasions that I can remember (I was old enough to remember what happened).