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Q: I Don't Know What to Do...
asked by: Drake2006 on June 19th, 2006
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Hello. I am 4 weeks pregnant, I just found out that I was pregnant on june 15, 2006. 4 weeks ago from this past saturday, I had sex with someone that I met through work. I was really interested in him, and I thought he felt the same way. Now I am carrying his baby and he does not want me to go through with the pregnancy, but does know that I do have a choice in the matter. I have been fighting with myself since I found out that day, on whether to go through with pregnancy or to have an abortion. Inside my heart, I know that I want to keep this baby. Yet, the father and I are only friends, and there is no relationship. I do have strong feelings for him but nothing in return. This makes my decision so much harder because I would hate to bring a baby into this world under these circumstances. That being said, I still do not want to kill the baby that is inside of me, it is a part, a half of me and I just can't destroy him/her. I am so scared and distraught, I have never had to make a decision like this before. I would just like to have some advice on what many people think I should do. I'm pretty sure I want to keep this baby, but is that the right thing to do? Please help.
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Carifairy
replied on June 19th, 2006
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If you want the baby, than yes it is the right thing to do.

Adopotion is always an option if you cannot afford a baby, because children are not cheap, and if you cannot give a baby the life it deserves, than someone else can.
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jaime_elms
replied on June 21st, 2006
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I dont know, I mean is there people in this that can be hurt> does he have a wife or gf, and do u have a partner, if not then keep the baby. I mean its half ur baby too. If u do want to abort, do it asap. As the procedure will be alot easier. Choice is urs hun, only u can decide
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toja
replied on June 21st, 2006
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Drake2006,
i've heard one wise comment today related with the issue of unplanned babies and abortions. They said, the life isn't a movie where you can just cut wrong takes and move on. So, if you cannot change circumstances (obviously you cannot disconceive), you have to change your view towards it. Generally speaking, the baby is positive and not negative thing, and if you want to keep it, it means you are positive looking at the issue. I was the one who looked negative and did abortion. I don't regret but I wish I hadn't have this negative experience. It is up to you to decide. Listen to your heart honey....
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sandyallen
replied on June 21st, 2006
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I feel pretty much the same way that .Cairifairy does, it is your choice and you must do what you feel is the right thing to do.
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