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Q: the Soon-to-be- Father Called Today.. .

asked by: KariM18 on January 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Hi everyone.

As some of u know, I am 18, 13 weeks pregnant with ryan's baby (my ex) he turned into a real problem and was telling others that it wasnt his baby and that im just some promiscuous person. .And he totally ditched me when he found out I wouldnt get an abortion.. Anyhow, I hadnt talked to him in about a month n a half sense I told him the news. .But today he finally called me back..

He told me that he mite move out of state for hockey (which I knew) to play pro... .But that he will still visit the kid ''if it is his'' . . And that he wants everything I get such as ultrasound pics etc...And documentation of wether its a boy or girl.. So I guess this is a good thing? . . Who knows. .I guess I feel a little better that he said he wants to see the pics n stuff.. But still..Ugh I hate him.. Just thought I would update*

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Mesmerizeu15

replied on January 15th, 2004

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Wow I guess that could be a good thing. If you guys cant be boyfriend and girlfriend still at least he still wants to be involved with the baby.. I think that you should give this a shot, but dont become weak to him because you dont need that...I hope that everything works out with it, make sure that you keep us posted!

Stacie

insurancegirl

replied on January 15th, 2004

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KariM18

replied on January 15th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Thanks girls*

one thing that reeeally got on my nerves was how many times I heard him be selfish.. He kept saying "i am going to move to play pro.. .This is for me.. Im gonna do this for me.." and then he said "i dont care about what anyone thinks, im doin this, this is my chance, i'm doing it for me" he kept saying that. . . My mom was like "does he not realize, this isnt about him anymore?? .. Its about the baby" .. . But obviously hes just self centered. I think it sucks that the baby will only see his dad once n a great while when he visits.. I mean im gonna have a hard time telling the baby that this is his dad.. That rarely comes around. Ughhhh too bad I didnt get preg. W/ my current boyfriend. . He would stick around and take responsibilty. I mean, this isnt even his baby and he says he will treat it like it is.

smith8500

replied on January 15th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Well

I guess that is a simi good thing. However, he can't be too great if he is denying that it's his kid! I would not put him on the birth certificate, order a dna test and then laugh him away from your child when he find out the is in fact the father! Good luck either way! I hope it works out for you and your baby.
Love,
chanda

dominicksmommy

replied on January 15th, 2004

Experienced User

Hey hun

hey hun I am kind of going through the same thing my sons father has denied him since day one and all he ever talked about was how much this is going to effect him he was and is very self centered...
We have to get a dna test but now him and his parents r dogdin us:| if u ever need someone to talk to message me

christina

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