Husband Asked For Space

He did what? You caught him chatting w/someone else and when you called him out he asked you to leave? And you're preggers, right? And you left !?! Sweetheart, i'd serve him his @ss on a platter...

Hun I kinda went thru what you went thru. However, my husband wasn't cheating on me. My husband told me that he needed his space because I wasn't being his wife anymore. Which felt wrong....However he was the one who left. I would have never stood for me moving back in with mom and dad. That would have never happened. He was the one who took some stuff and left. It was hard.....I can't say that I ever really found out why he left because he passed away a week and a half after he left.

If he had left because he was seeing someone else or 'talking' to someone else I would have known. I would have found out by now. And I could tell you that if he were still living I would be doing what kay said and handing him his ass on a platter.

I don't know if he was cheating with her.

I do know I can be hard to live with.

It was easier for me to leave as his son is autistic and needs to stay in that stable envorinment.

I am talking to him on msn but he is not asking me how I am.

He is just simply asking me why won't I see owen and what bills were paid.

I want to go home so bad I can't stand it.

Angelfanmom, how far along are you?

Love, my heart goes out to you. This is very hard for you I know. I am sorry to that he is treating you like this. I turned into a totally different person during my pregnancy. I know how hard it can be to have the one you love treating you like that. How much longer to you have to go before you have your baby? You are preggers right?

I am just so sorry that he is sending you away because he, for whatever reason, isn't happy right now but your his wife and he needs to step up and the added stress on you isn't needed.

I was 37 weeks on sunday.

I am alright right now I guess. I am going to have a shower. I asked him how he was doing he said ok but did not ask me how I was doing.

Sigh

Tell him he needs to step up bcuz you're about to have his baby. If he doesn't kick his @ss. :lol:

Oh sweetheart... You're about to have that baby! What kind of man is he to send you out when you're about to give birth? I think you deserve to be home, regardless of him needing "space", whatever that means. I mean, you're married to him. Him needing space doesn't mean kicking you out of it. He needs to sort his drama out, because putting this on you isn't right, especially not right now. You deserve to be home, honey.

This reminds me of when I first got married. My husband and I had a huge fight and I said something to the effect of "go sleep on the couch." my husband looked at me like i'd lost my mind and said "no, this is my bed just as much as it's yours. If you have a problem with it, then *you* sleep on the couch." and he was absolutely right. So now, when we fight, we sleep as faaaar apart as possible, but we still sleep together. We both deserve to be in our own bed. (if that makes any sense.) I hope everything works out! You definitely don't need this stress right now.

I don't know how to take any of this. I simply don't.

I wrote him a letter but nothing so far has come back to me.

I really don't know what to do

I would ask him what his damn problem is and why exactly he needs his space.Its not fair to you at all espcially when your pregnant.Stress is not a good thing but luckily your close to your due date! Hope everything gets better for you girl!

I probably should not say this but I aam going to anyway, you do not deserve this! It is not right what he is doing to you! You two need to have a sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him and if it is someone else then you deserve better, take him to the cleaners and move him out but it is your choice and you must do what you feel is the right thing to do. He does not seem to haave much respect for you!

I wish you the best! Please try not to get too upset in your condition, he does not sound worth it, even though you may still love him you should have lost some respect for him!

Hahaha @ your condition.

I emailed him and asked if we could sit down and talk about things prior to sunday.

He said he was not sure what was happening.

So I said I guess sunday it is then.

I can't do this anymore I can't

You don't need that right now and i'm angry at him for you. :evil:

My husband met me at the drs and we have worked things out.

We are going to try again.

I do understand why I was the one to leave as our other little boy is autistic and needs to stay in one stable home.

Things are not perfect but better

thanks

Well I hope things continue to get better for you hun! Keep us updated!

If you're happy, i'm happy for you!! Good luck!!