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Q: Abortion.. Now This?

asked by: BabyGT on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

I was pregnant from feb. To april 28th, when my mom made an abortion appointment at planned parenthood in appleton without even talking to me about it first.. She wanted me to get an abortion because it was an embarrassment to the famiyl && made everyone look bad... && considering I didnt have her support... And knowing I live here..What would I have done? But I got an abortion on april 28th [[and god I regret that so much]] and I cant hear the name baby... Or hear about a pregnant woman without breaking down && crying.. It hurts so much... I think about it everyday... On how I wish I could go back in time and just tell my mom no, and that I was keeping the baby. I talk to my boyfriend's mother about it all the time, which she is still very upset about it to this day.. She told me my mother should be ashamed and should have supported me..
Anyway, my mother put me on birth control right away, and after the abortion, they gave me pills that made my birth control "not work" I guess.. [[according to my mom]] && was suppose to wait 2 weeks before havign sex...Well this isnt an excuse so please dont think it is.. I lost "track" && because I just couldnt believe I did that and it seemed like only yesterday I did that, well had sex, and I dont remember if he wore a condom or not, im sure he did because I never ever wanted to go through that ever again... But if he didn't, I jheard it was very easy to get pregnant because "everything was open"
this month, ive been having dark brown discharge, for about a week now, my stomach hurts and have been crabby, sore throat off and on.. And omg coughing nonstop [[which no medicine is helping]]....Just like when I was first pregnant... && but im on birth control... And im not sure if I got pregnant a week after april 28th, but ive been having sex after that...
Soo im very very confused.

I started my "red pills" in about 20 minutes here... I'll still have my period if I was pregnant or not right?

Im confused... It doesnt sound like im pregnant does it?

Because dark dark brown discharge for over a week now just isnt souinding right.

Please reply. I dont know who to talk to anymore!

Replies(45)

seksiHily

replied on June 18th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

U didnt actually post a pic of your aborted baby did you?

Anyways youve been pregnant before, do you think you are? Sore throat and coughing is a symptom of pregnancy ive never heard of

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

Why cant I post a picture of my baby?

I dont know if I am..Thats why I am asking for support on here... Not ask if I post a picture of my aborted baby.

Sore throat && coughing is something ive had before when I was pregnant... Soo I guess for me it is.

Thanks for your support? =]
uhm.

HcoBrunette06

replied on June 18th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Hun she wasn't being rude about it she was just asking, just because you didn't get the answer you wanted to hear doesn't mean you need to get an attitude =) we dont know if you can be pregnant or not, if you go to the doctor and get a blood test i'm sure they can tell you though.

seksiHily

replied on June 18th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

Well 1) photobucket doesnt work

2) this is a pregnancy forum, not abortion itd be best to keep them separate.

My suggestion is take a pregnancy test and be aware if he is wearing a condom in the future

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

She didnt have any right to say "you actually posted a picture of your aborted baby"
thats just hmm okay. I dont have an attitude either? Wow. This forum has changed a bit since I came on.

KellyBoyle

replied on June 18th, 2006

New User

That was just a bit rude seksihily, she's asking for support, not that b.S.

Honey, abortion is a terrible thing to go through, I personally dont believe in it, but if a woman has to do it, she has to do it! And dont to be rude, but your mother should feel ashamed, that is horrible she said that to you and why she had you get an abortion.
But honey take a pregnancy test, I know I hate hearing that from people on here, but if those signs are from your first pregnancy maybe you are!
Keep your head up okay?

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

I told about my abortion and my first pregnancy symptoms.. And asked if I was pregnant again. Soo seperate hon.
Anyway, not going to be a 5 year old kid. Im done with this little agrument. This is stupid.

Kelly thank you for answering me.. Just been thinking if I am or not, because like I said, these are the same pregnancy symptoms I had when I was first pregnant && just so confused because im on birth control now! Body is all "messed up"

seksiHily

replied on June 18th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

Im not arguing I was simply telling you that some people do not want to see that it may be extremely painful, if you want to share btw u should use imagecave, and maybe make it a link so people can choose whether or not to click.

Anyways I didnt mean anything callously, have you thought about counselling? It may help a bit with the feelings youre having.

KellyBoyle

replied on June 18th, 2006

New User

Birth control yes, changes the body lots! I was on birth control when I was about 17 years old (because my irregular periods!) and it really changed my body! But im off it now, I stopped taking it! Im 2 months pregnant now! :) and about your sore throat, that was my symptom of pregnancy, about two weeks after I had intercourse, my throat hurt off and on and sure enough was pregnant!
How long have you been coughing and having a sore throat?

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

Well I just wanted to post for one because lots of people on here "dont believe you"... So im sorry. Just wanted to show that I wasnt being a fake and that I was pregnant.. And yeah it is painful, I choose to look at it everyday, and people on here have a choice if they want to look or not...
Counselling ive talked about with my mom, doesnt even want to go, she says it doesnt help anyone.

AyaMiyaki

replied on June 18th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

I'm sorry, but I don't think it's appropriate to post a picture of an aborted baby on a forum for pregnant women. If you're going to post one at all, you should at least put a warning in the post's title so people have a choice to avoid this topic. This is a *pregnancy* forum. Many of the women that come here are either trying to conceive a child or are waiting to give birth. Showing a picture of an aborted baby is down-right disturbing and, in my opinion, doesn't belong in this forum. I understand that you regret having your abortion, but please don't post pictures of dead babies in a forum that pregnant emotional women read. That might be more appropriate for an abortion forum.

As far as your question goes, if you're on birth control, you shouldn't really have much to worry about. But if you're so afraid of becoming pregnant again after an abortion that was more or less forced on you, maybe you should avoid sexual contact for a while. Birth control is not 100% effective against pregnancy. You should ask your doctor for a blood test and try to be a little more careful in the future.

I'm sorry if this reply came across a little harsh, but I really don't appreciate having a picture of an aborted baby thrown in my face. I'm grateful that photobucket didn't show it, because as a woman who is looking forward to greeting her child, the last thing I want to look at is a dead baby. A warning would have been greatly appreciated.

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

This fricken forum...What the hell is up with some of these people?
If you dont want to look at the baby, then dont... You can a choice not to.. I dont need someone coming on here and telling me its disgusting and dont post it on here... Ignore it then if you dont want to see it.
That not that.
I came on here asking for some support... && some questions.. Not hearing that my baby was digusting!
Sorry I made a mistake.. But I dont need to hear that..>so please stop posting about the fricken picture already.
As you see.. It doesnt work... So stop complaining.

KellyBoyle

replied on June 18th, 2006

New User

If you people are going to go on about this girls abortion, stop posting.
This is ridiculous! She came on here and told about her abortion and feelings and said that she might be pregnant again, she asked a few questions and people go on about her baby picture, maybe she wanted to share, whats wrong with that? Abortions yes, are wrong, but she has to live with knowing that she had an abortion, and a couple of people on here an talking about a piicturee, just stop. Im sure none of you are making her feel better by talking about how digusting it is to put up a digusting baby picture. Just stop!

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

Its just my ultrasound picture, I dont know how its disgusting.

AyaMiyaki

replied on June 18th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

You're missing my point. It's not like a picture of a dead toenail, where someone might go "eww, gross." you're talking about a dead human being. You gave us absolutely no warning that you would be posting one. You asked a question and then said "by the way here's my baby" and tried to post a picture. No one would have had a choice not to look, because no one had any warning that you would be posting one.

My point was that it was inconsiderate of you to attempt to post one just to prove that you're not a liar. No one would have called you out as being a liar unless your story had serious flaws to it. I'm just asking you to have a little bit of tact for the other people that regularly read this forum. Is it so unbelievable to you that a picture of a dead baby might upset the pregnant women that post here?

I never said your baby was disgusting. I said that you shouldn't have posted a picture of a .D.E.A.D baby without at least a warning to expectant mothers letting them know what your post contains. It's a matter of respect. Have a little bit of respect for the people who are trying to help you by answering your questions.

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

Thank you for pointing out d.E.A.D. Baby to me darling.
Stop posting to me.. I dont need your post.. I dont want to read them anymore.
Soo as I said... The picture didnt work..Soo stop complaining.
Im asking pregnancy questions and told about my abortion.
So just stop posting to me.
I dont need to hear about my d.E.A.D. Baby.
Thanks for pointing that out.

AyaMiyaki

replied on June 18th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Not one person on this forum said that you were a bad person for getting an abortion. We tried to answer the pregnancy question(s) that you asked. Like I said, i'm grateful the link didn't work. What upsets me is that you don't even seem to care if you upset anyone with the picture. Your opinion is "well it didn't work, why are you mad?" we shouldn't *have* to see that kind of thing. This is the wrong place for it. If you can't understand that little fact, you shouldn't be posting here. It shows a lack of respect toward the other posters here.

We're here to help each other. I was only pointing out that you should warn people before posting pictures like that. I'm sorry if you don't see my point, but do not put words into my mouth saying that I called your child "disgusting" or that I said you were wrong for going through with the abortion.

If you didn't want people to comment on your abortion, you shouldn't have mentioned it. You, after all, were the one who brought it up.

BabyGT

replied on June 18th, 2006

Experienced User

Im sorry.
Did I upset anyone with showing my ultrasound of my d.E.A.D baby?
Because if I did.. Im sorry.
Just showing my baby ya know?

You said "showing a picture of an aborted baby is down-right disturbing" soo which baby were you talking about?

Anyways..Drop it.
It was my baby.. Im sure if I hurt anyone's feelings.. Im sorry.
But as for this.. Im done.
I brought up my abortion... So someone could hmm.. Help.. Give me some support? Not this b.S.

And as for not posting here.. I have been posting here for a very long time... I went through alot and lots of people helped me out on here... I dont know where you came from.. Or its jsut been awhile since ive been on here. But wow.

But stop complaining about the picture..>as you see.. It didnt work.
It's an ultrasound.. Not an actually... Dead baby on a table.
So just stop.
I dont need this from you.

HcoBrunette06

replied on June 18th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

You're in a public forum, and you're going to get a reply or two that you don't like.. Move on!

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