Sexual Health - Men Forum - An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help

leoclaw79

replied on June 15th, 2006

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Hmm cant really help...Im a 15 yearold virgin lol

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*4ng3*

replied on June 16th, 2006

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Re: An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help

kyuzo wrote:

hey everyone,
i'm 18 and i’m about to graduate high school, and i'm still a virgin. This doesn’t bother me too much, but my biggest concern is that i’m going to college in august. Now i’ve seen in movies and heard countless stories about how when guys have their first time, they last for a minute. My question is: is there anything I can do now or at all, to be able to last a decent amount for my first time? I really don't want to go to college and have sex and disappoint.

I've read a couple forums on premature ejaculation here and i’m trying to do the stop-start, and kegels, but I don’t know if it’s helping or what.

Also about kegels, I don't know how many I should do. From some places i’ve read three sets of twenty, and others i've read to do 100 in a day. And once i’ve done these for a while, will I last longer or am I supposed to employ my new muscles when i’m having sex?

I read in a tantra site that at the point of no return, that you should squeeze the pc to hold back the ejaculation, but still orgasm. But then I read on another site that this is bad, and that squeezing the pc stimulates the prostate and can make your cum faster. I really am starting to get confused with everything.

Thanks a lot to anyone who can help!

~kyuzo

guys coming quickly on there first time isn't premature ejaculation, its cuz its a completely new sensation that your not use to. Its intense and mixed with nerves thats what makes you come quickly.

I doubt all that stuff your doing is helping as its for people with a premature ejaculation problems (not virgins, two completely different things!!). Don't worry about lasting long because you could always take a quick break then go again!!!

The more you worry the worse it will be, don't just jump in with anyone make sure you like each other first beacuse it tends to be the girls who just want sex that end up being disappointed. If she likes you a lot then she wont care how long you last on your first time!!

Just chill out and when the time comes the time comes!!! After the first time you will last longer!!

Hope this helps :)

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Guess_Who?

replied on June 16th, 2006

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Re: An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help

*4ng3* wrote:

kyuzo wrote:

hey everyone,
i'm 18 and i’m about to graduate high school, and i'm still a virgin. This doesn’t bother me too much, but my biggest concern is that i’m going to college in august. Now i’ve seen in movies and heard countless stories about how when guys have their first time, they last for a minute. My question is: is there anything I can do now or at all, to be able to last a decent amount for my first time? I really don't want to go to college and have sex and disappoint.

I've read a couple forums on premature ejaculation here and i’m trying to do the stop-start, and kegels, but I don’t know if it’s helping or what.

Also about kegels, I don't know how many I should do. From some places i’ve read three sets of twenty, and others i've read to do 100 in a day. And once i’ve done these for a while, will I last longer or am I supposed to employ my new muscles when i’m having sex?

I read in a tantra site that at the point of no return, that you should squeeze the pc to hold back the ejaculation, but still orgasm. But then I read on another site that this is bad, and that squeezing the pc stimulates the prostate and can make your cum faster. I really am starting to get confused with everything.

Thanks a lot to anyone who can help!

~kyuzo

guys coming quickly on there first time isn't premature ejaculation, its cuz its a completely new sensation that your not use to. Its intense and mixed with nerves thats what makes you come quickly.

I doubt all that stuff your doing is helping as its for people with a premature ejaculation problems (not virgins, two completely different things!!). Don't worry about lasting long because you could always take a quick break then go again!!!

The more you worry the worse it will be, don't just jump in with anyone make sure you like each other first beacuse it tends to be the girls who just want sex that end up being disappointed. If she likes you a lot then she wont care how long you last on your first time!!

Just chill out and when the time comes the time comes!!! After the first time you will last longer!!

Hope this helps :)

well, im a 16 year old virgin, and that just gave me quite a bit of confidence, seen as it came from a female. :)

hope it helped you too kyuzo, & gl at college.

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hemostatic_electricity

replied on June 21st, 2006

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You're going to blow fast your first time regardless of what you do.....I promise you that.

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Da_Dez_Bombzzz

replied on June 21st, 2006

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hemostatic_electricity wrote:

you're going to blow fast your first time regardless of what you do.....I promise you that.

amen lol

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grubee

replied on June 23rd, 2006

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Yes, I have a good suggestion. You should de-senstize yourself by using any combinations of vibrators, a showerpik' and using a soft cloth. If these things make the masturbation feel better and/or last shorter, then you would last for a similar time during sex. Also, avoid alcohol because that is notorious for making a short first time. My first time I thought i'd last 1 minute too, I was surprised to find it didn't feel all that great that people claim it does, and I never got off after an hour.

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skaterguy777

replied on June 25th, 2006

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Well i'm waiting till i'm married so have fun. I'd warn you not to do it before marrige because of my religion but thats just me. We also had a class on it. And they say almost 75% of people who have pre-maritual sex get depression because their self worth goes down. And theres a precentage of people like 10% or something who kill themselves over the depression. But its your choice.

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Adam135

replied on June 26th, 2006

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The first time is just excitement. That is why you cum so quickly. But that 1min you said is a exaggeration!

If you are worried use a bit of 4play first to lift the mood and get both of you really turned on. It works..Trust me

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mitch7654

replied on June 26th, 2006

Experienced User

Re: An 18 Year Old Virgin Needs Your Help

kyuzo wrote:

hey everyone,
i'm 18 and i’m about to graduate high school, and i'm still a virgin. This doesn’t bother me too much, but my biggest concern is that i’m going to college in august. Now i’ve seen in movies and heard countless stories about how when guys have their first time, they last for a minute. My question is: is there anything I can do now or at all, to be able to last a decent amount for my first time? I really don't want to go to college and have sex and disappoint.

I've read a couple forums on premature ejaculation here and i’m trying to do the stop-start, and kegels, but I don’t know if it’s helping or what.

Also about kegels, I don't know how many I should do. From some places i’ve read three sets of twenty, and others i've read to do 100 in a day. And once i’ve done these for a while, will I last longer or am I supposed to employ my new muscles when i’m having sex?

I read in a tantra site that at the point of no return, that you should squeeze the pc to hold back the ejaculation, but still orgasm. But then I read on another site that this is bad, and that squeezing the pc stimulates the prostate and can make your cum faster. I really am starting to get confused with everything.

Thanks a lot to anyone who can help!

~kyuzo

na man if anytihng youll last longer youll be enrvous and its gona be hard to keep it up.Thats how it was for me and a couple of my freinds

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hotwheel

replied on June 27th, 2006

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Never go to war ..With a loaded gun. If ya know what I mean.

I used to ..Ahh... Masterbate before, then you will last much longer!

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heyitsme

replied on June 30th, 2006

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Lol skaterguy are u f***ing serious....U really think that...Damn that s*** brainwashed u good huh.

And

hotwheel I get wat ur trying to say but u do go to war with a loaded gun...Otherwise ud get killed.... :d

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harwell02

replied on June 30th, 2006

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Dude...Its not that bad..Just go for it....Even if its short it probably shouldnt feel short...And dont think about it too much.....Just tear it up..Hahaha...Seriously tho... U need to stop reading so much or else you wont have time to have sex.

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awkwarddepressed

replied on July 21st, 2006

Experienced User

Yeah

Yeah, just do it and get it out of the way early, otherwise youll feel like a total douche like I do having waited to have sex till I was 28.

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~*~Jillian~*~

replied on July 21st, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Okay I have to add to this post..

I'd much rather have sex with a guy that goes fast than a guy that takes forever to go..Because it makes me feel better that I cant make them go faster...Because if a guy takes forever--i wonder if it feels good..Get what im saying?

Dont worry about time --just enjoy it ...And make sure that you dont just jump in bed with the first girl...Make sure you are with someone you like..Because you have waited this long..Make it worth it..

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trevor_1212

replied on July 30th, 2006

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~*~jillian~*~ wrote:

okay I have to add to this post..

I'd much rather have sex with a guy that goes fast than a guy that takes forever to go..Because it makes me feel better that I cant make them go faster...Because if a guy takes forever--i wonder if it feels good..Get what im saying?

Dont worry about time --just enjoy it ...And make sure that you dont just jump in bed with the first girl...Make sure you are with someone you like..Because you have waited this long..Make it worth it..

my first time I lasted 15 mins I didnt think I would last that long maybe you'll be surprized!?

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