First of all shame on you for thinking a condoms only use is to protect agaisnt pregnancy (obviously it didnt work to well for you) it will also prevent your unborn child from std's. If you arent sure your partner is 100% monogomist protect yourself and your baby. Sexual performance should be the last thing on your mind right now, but if you must I say wear the condom, obviously it was better that way.

Thats a bit harsh don u think? Maybe her baby was planned-we cant presume otherwise.I do agree through that u shud use protection if you've slept with other ppl b4 each other or either of u has an infection or anything.

Ok karim,lots of guys find this I think because the condom is sometimes designed 2 make the guy last longer.The sensation is a lot different 2 him im sure because he's no longer wearing something artifical.It cud just b that he's enjoying this experience a lot & that in time,when he gets used 2 it,he wont come as quickly.Maybe u shud sit him down & talk 2 him about it because there r techniques he cud use e.G. When he gets close,he stops himself 4 a minute until his arousal goes down slightly,
good luck & congrats on ur pregnancy
liz

No I do not think I was harsh, the sad face next to the comment gives me a clue it was unplanned. I was simply trying to get the point across that she has bigger fish to fry then her sex life!!!!!

Thanks you guys~

and tbeck- I understand where your coming from, but I do agree that it was a bit harsh... Sex isnt my top priority right now so I dont think thats fair for u to say.. But just because im pregnant doesnt mean I am going to stop having sex w/ my boyfriend. We have both been checked for std's, we went together last week because for the reason of the baby as u said.. And im positive he is monogamus.. We are together all of the time. .Basically living together... Both of our tests came out clean.

Thank you sparklypixie* but yes, the pregnancy was unplanned, hes actually not the father. Me and the father broke up like 2 1/2 months ago and ive been with my new boyfriend for a month and a half. I admit, it was a little fast to be sexually active.. But we both care about eachother alot. Weve known eachother for a long time. And hes actually been talking about being a father later to the baby, sense the real father doesnt want to be part of its life. But thank you, what u said makes a lot of sense, im sure with time it will stop going that fast. But we mite start using them if he cant hold back*

I didn't intend to make you think you were not intitled to have sex now that you are pregnant I just wanted to make sure you understood that you needed to still be safe. I hope your partner is monogomist, but you can never be 100% sure. Just use good judgement and take care of yourself and the little person inside first and foremost.

Have you tried penis rings? Maybe that would help him last longer since it would be tight around the base of his dick as a condom would be. It's worth a try it him blowing to fast is a major problem for you...Which I feel you. Who wants to be left behind in the dust....But if you got a good man he would help you out afterward. Hang in there!!
Hugs,
alleybutterfly

So doesnt he pleasure you after he has ejaculated? If he does what is the problem? He should be able to stop for a second before he shoots away then carry on again a little while after to prolong the intercourse.

What if he masturbated before sex it should make him last longer tell him to try it