Huni,u need 2 get out of this marriage 4 ur sanity.How can u stay with a man who sed those things 2 u? I know u probably love him,have been 2gether 4 a long time & have kids 2gether but soon enough hes gonna begin to ruin their lives.A husband is meant 2 love u,rspect u & stay with u & he does none of this.Huni,if u dont get out of this now whilst u can see his faults,u never will do & you'll be stuck in a loveless,sexless marriage 4ever.
U need 2 get some confidence back & realise that he cannot take that away from u.U need 2 put youyrself & ur kids first-a father who treats their mother like that isnt a good place 2 grow up in.Do have have any family or friends who can help u out? Maybe u cud c a counsellor 2 help u 2 deal with this.Its not going 2 b easy 4 u but u need 2 sit down & decide what u really want from ur life.Your young & u have so much more life 2 live
i sincerely wish u good luck & if possible,please let me know how ur getting on.Im here 2 talk,
liz x

I agree with sparkly how could a man do this to his wife let alone his children. A husband should always respect his wife and it sounds like u deserve so much more than you are getting, and what gives him the right to make love to you while you are obviously not in the mood theres words for that. Sparkly is right you need to sit down and figure what is more important to you and what you want from this life as im sure what you are getting aint what you deserve.

I hope everything works out for you and you realise you are better off without this man. There is a saying "you never know what you got till its gone" maybe it will ring true for him.

Good luck

from someone who cant wait to have a jelly bean all of their own