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best age gap?
under 1 yr
1yr
2yrs
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4yrs or more
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35%  35%  [ 5 ]
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AlliE_18 Extremely eHealthy
June 14th, 2006
Hey,

how many years is best between 2 siblings you all think??
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red_rose1
replied June 14th, 2006
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Why, are you thinking of having another one?
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Kia
replied June 14th, 2006
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Becky
replied June 14th, 2006
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10 months thats my kids age gap
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Melissa_20
replied June 14th, 2006
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I think when they're young maybe 1-2 years but when I think of them being older,i think about 3 years
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Jolie_3110
replied June 14th, 2006
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I think 3 years but thats just because thats my childrens age gap!
R u trying for another allie??
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AlliE_18
replied June 14th, 2006
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I just wondered what you guys thought about that cos I have no idea. Im not trying for another but ive been with this guy a little while and he wants us to have one already. I think its because hes older so hes sort of in a rush...Im not sure tho. 1 is enough at 3 months old lol...But yeh we'll see what happens, ty for replies
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red_rose1
replied June 14th, 2006
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How old is your man? Is he good with luke?
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Bridget
replied June 14th, 2006
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I don't want to turn this into a debate but I was wondering how long you've been with this guy. Having a child with someone is a huge deal and not something you want to rush into.
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AlliE_18
replied June 14th, 2006
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Just a few weeks, I know having a baby is a huge deal, thats why I havent just agreed to it. Im happy with 1, especially as hes so young. And kia said your supposed to wait for a yr before getting preg again so ur body heals. He is great with lucas, hes 41 so I think hes in a rush to have his own child.
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smoothiesRyummy
replied June 14th, 2006
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allie_18 wrote:
just a few weeks, I know having a baby is a huge deal, thats why I havent just agreed to it. Im happy with 1, especially as hes so young. And kia said your supposed to wait for a yr before getting preg again so ur body heals. He is great with lucas, hes 41 so I think hes in a rush to have his own child.


what? Why are you with a 41 year old???
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Jolie_3110
replied June 14th, 2006
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41? Jeez girl how old ru??
Dont rush into another child just coz he wants one!! Let him help with
lucas
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AlliE_18
replied June 14th, 2006
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Why not? I'll be with who I like. If you aint got nothing nice to say then dont post. Besides its about age gaps between siblings not ages in relationships.

He does help with lucas jolie, hes really good with him =) im 17
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Kia
replied June 14th, 2006
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Allie, hun, that's gonna be a normal re-action when people hear the vast age gap.

Honest. We talked about it so you know what I think and why :)

remember, you call the shots ok
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anon12344556
replied June 14th, 2006
He could be your father. My moms 39, i'm 15. When I turn 17, she will be 41. Not to mention thats illegal (at least where I live.) not to mention more that its a proven fact that older men only want sex from younger women. Its also proven that a lot of accidental (or on purpose too, I guess) teen pregnancies are with a young woman and an older man.

But whatever floats your boat. Just be careful & protect yourself. Older men do bad stuff to young girls. Read about it all the time :[
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DaliciaLynn
replied June 15th, 2006
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lmao are you kidding?

Allie you're like 17...

That's !**@! disgusting.
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erinjacob
replied June 15th, 2006
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Jess
I was with my partner 3 months befor I got pregnant planned pregnancy but hes only 4 years older then me but evry ones different good luck well be hear when u say hes left you for another girl
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Kia
replied June 15th, 2006
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There are also a lot of successful relationships with a huge age gap.
When I was 15 I dated a 38 year old guy - until he remembered he had a wife :evil:.

Here in the uk 16 is the age of consent for a girl and 14 for a boy (unless the girl is over 16 [ie 17 or more])

i think so long as safe sex is practised, then what ever makes you happy at the time is cool.

Allie, knows my thoughts :) and so long as he doesn't pressure her for more than she wants to give thats cool.

Anyways look at .Anna-.Nicole .Smith & .J .Howard .Marshall - he was 63 years her senior!!!!!!!
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Melissa_20
replied June 15th, 2006
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Not to pick on you allie but you need to be careful with an older guy.Like entomb said,you could get yourself into a hell of a mess!
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Jolie_3110
replied June 15th, 2006
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allie_18 wrote:
why not? I'll be with who I like. If you aint got nothing nice to say then dont post. Besides its about age gaps between siblings not ages in relationships.


He does help with lucas jolie, hes really good with him =) im 17


err excuse me, but I dont think I said anything that was unkind!! Although yes I think that a 17 yr old girl and a 41yr man is abit odd. I also think wanting to rush into having another baby with a man you have only just met when your only 17 is abit strange.
If you seriously think there is nothing wrong with what you are doing then why get offended so quickly!
I have always been kind to you allie, the truth is when lucas was born you admitted it was hard to cope and hard to adjust, and theres nothing wrong with that. But I dont understand why you want to have another one so quickly! Why not get to know the son you have got first, and maybe getting to know the future father of your children alittle bit first might be a sensible idea!!!!
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