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asked by: Jennerina on June 12th, 2006
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Okay, so i'm a ballet dancer, and it's extremely difficult to be dancing pre-professionally and to be bigger than all the other girls in the company. I've always felt disgusting compared to them, so I decided to go on a diet about a month and a half ago. Now, at 120 pounds, i'm 12 pounds lighter than I was 6 weeks ago, and i'm feeling a whole lot happier, and I don't feel sick or anything. Everybody around me, like my parents and friends, are getting on my case saying i'm becoming anorexic or something. I am for sure not anorexic because I am fully in control of what I am doing, I know I can stop at any point if I want to. And it's not like i'm starving myself, I still eat, just less than before, which is what most people do on diets, right?
What can I say to everybody to put their minds at ease, because i'm doing this in a perfectly fine way? Has anybody ever been in this situation, and knows how to handle it?
Much appreciated,
jenny
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lollipops92
replied on June 13th, 2006
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But are you really losing weight the right way? Some people convince themselfs that their not doing any harm to themselfs when really they are, dats what I even did to myself. It wasnt till my friend got really worryied about me that I took a long hard look at myself and what I was doing and relised it was wrong but by that stage it was two late and I couldnt stop. I can deff understand were your coming from on the hole dance thing. Danceing dose put alot of pressure on your weight. Just look afta yourself girl!!! :-)
always ere 2 chat, lola xoxo
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Jennerina
replied on June 13th, 2006
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Yeh I think so because otherwise i'd be losing weight really really fast which i'm not. I'm only losing on average 2 pounds a week, and for someone as big as me that's not a whole lot, so i'm pretty sure i'm doing it well. I'm never hungry because I eat enough, and sometime's I get a tad dizzy but that's normal I think.
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lollipops92
replied on June 15th, 2006
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Getting dizzy is the worst thing. I always get dizzy from not eating, and the worse thing is now that I think of it I use to always make an excuse for it. Like saying to myself that I must be getting a cold or something like that. When really its because I wasnt eating.
This should make you realise that your body is crying out for food. You said you eat enough but if your getting dizzy you must not be. And since your a dancer its even worse because your body needs alot of engery, and your just not providing yourself with it.
What will happen if your dancing and you faint? I hope things dont go to far before you realise what your doing.
Mwah, lora xoxox
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Jennerina
replied on June 15th, 2006
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But I can't be doing anything wrong because I still eat!!
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v00d00cita
replied on June 16th, 2006
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Yes, but there can be problems even if you keep eating!
Your eating may not be as appropriate as you find it. Why don't you go see a nutritionist? That way you would expose your doubts ans troubles and get an healthy eating plan that would nourish your organism as well as helping you losing weight, if needed!
That's the best you can do.
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Jennerina
replied on June 17th, 2006
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Yes but would I gain all my weight back if I do that?
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v00d00cita
replied on June 17th, 2006
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No, with the appropriate plan, you could even lose weight!
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