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asked by: rush752 on January 13th, 2004
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Hi, I have posted before, but this time, ive drank a little bourbon. Lol . [the truth serium]. I need to tell you a little about myself...I'm 18, will be 19 in aug., 2nd. I have impregnated a 24 year old woman, though she seems much younger than that. [about 19] she's spoiled to death by her family and I love her to death. She is totally strong willed and a hard-worker. Keep in mind our age difference -- she is wonderful, she would be a good mother, no doubt. She's ready, but I dont think I am...I know I could "tough it out", but I am young and trying to go to college, I also know that there is more to life than what is happening in my life now. I am depressed and cant conciouslly make my own desicions at this point. How I am able to tell you all of this -- I dont know!! [ I am on bourbon (liqour)]. I also have to tell you I have an iq of an 150, not that it matters really, but I see that I have alot of potential and that fact that I might be a daddy soon really startles me! I just need a little advice from those of you who are older and have experience, it wouls be greatly appreciated. I am sad, greatly sad, and I dont like feeling this way!! I really want to die or leave this country forever and forever. ::tears:: please help me!!!!!!! I sometimes want to take my oown life but I know that god up above would not like that very much. We are all equal in his eyes, no matter what our status is...

I want t his baby...I dont even know if she is preg. Yet. But I know there is more to life than what I even think. Please please help me!! I'm on the verge of something stupid.
Smile please? ...
-fermin q. Please respond.,
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adormer221
replied on January 13th, 2004
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Hey im ashley I read your post it makes me feel sad-- Crying or Very sad people should be happy to be able to have such a blessing in there life- some people wait there whole life to have babies and they cant-- anyways first of all I think that you need to find out for sure that she is pregnant -- then go from there-- I know your young but that doesnt mean that you cant have a life anymore- this should be the first step to your new life-- I really think this isnt about the pregnancy but more so about you and your depression please go and talk to someone- go get help-- if you are depressed now I dont think having a baby will help-- you sound like w awonderful guy and I know for a fact you can do this if you want to -- I had kids when I was young- twins-- we are doing just fine great actually my husband was in college when I had them --he was scared at first but now -- we wouldnt change it for the world-- ever-ever-- please please dont give up Sad pm me if you need to talk k
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insurancegirl
replied on January 13th, 2004
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rush752
replied on January 14th, 2004
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Hi all. Thanks for your advice and comments. There was one small [!!] detail I might have left out. My girlfriend, according to the numerous of 'educated' doctors that she has talked to, she wont be capable of conceiving a baby in a few years, give or take a couple of years. This frightens her to death because she really wants a baby! Now -- I love her with all my heart, and I want to give her a baby, you know? The only thing that really gets me is that there is no guarantee on our relationship, I dont want a health questions baby in the future. I want to make sure that were are always together, and it would be easier that way anyway! Financially and spiritually. An unhappy mother cannot raise a happy child -- so i've heard, and it makes much sense, right? Smile everything should be o.K., I just want to make sure certain priorities are met to ensure a happy child, and so christina [that's my gf's name btw, lol] can be with the baby most of the time. That's all that I am really concerned about...God bless. Wink
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