Need Help With a Relationship Badly!! Posted: 06-10-06 22:05pm
I've been going out with this girl for
almost 7 months. We've never had sex,
but we're really attached to each other.
I want to break up with her, but she has a
depression problem and I don't want her to
overreact and do something she'll regret.
I want to break up with her because I
don't want us to get any more attached
because the more we get attached the
harder it will be for us to break up in
the future. Also because I want to see
other peroiple, but I don't have anyone
else to see. So should I try to find
someone else? Should I just get it over
with and break up with her, and leave the
past behind? Should I be worried about
her depression problem? Can someone help
me please?
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Jen7188
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2006 Posts: 6 Location: alabama
Dude, What Posted: 06-11-06 00:10am
Well, how hot is she, and what do u mean
depression "problem".. .. I need
details, because youre very vague, and do
what you want, but maybe you should just
try to make her a lil made and want to
break up with you instead of you stabbing
her in the back by dumping her especially
if she has "problems.".. Dickface
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Sarah020406
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 86
Posted: 06-11-06 19:20pm
Be open and honest. Don't go behind her
back with another women, just tell her
straight out (nicely of course) that the
relationship isn't working out. You are
right to do it sooner rather than later
too. Relationship break ups happen to
everyone it part of life and you have to
do whats best for you here.
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skaterguy777
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2006 Posts: 10 Location: Arizona
Posted: 06-11-06 23:30pm
Well I don't know what kind of problem she
has. But sometimes she is really really
sad and sometimes she is really really
happy. She's very overreactive. And I
would never go behind her back with
someone else, I was just wondering if I
should wait until I find someone else or
just get it over with.
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Sarah020406
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 86
Posted: 06-12-06 00:09am
Get it over with now coz the longer you
wait the harder it will be for both of
you, and in the meantime you wont be
happy. The sooner you break it off the
sooner everyone can move on. Good luck.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 07-19-06 10:13am
sarah020406
wrote:
get it over with now coz the
longer you wait the harder it will be for
both of you, and in the meantime you wont
be happy. The sooner you break it off
the sooner everyone can move on. Good
luck.
i totally agree with
sarah but you totally made yourself look
like an problem in your first post
