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Q: Need Help With a Relationship Badly!!

asked by: skaterguy777 on June 10th, 2006

New User

I've been going out with this girl for almost 7 months. We've never had sex, but we're really attached to each other. I want to break up with her, but she has a depression problem and I don't want her to overreact and do something she'll regret. I want to break up with her because I don't want us to get any more attached because the more we get attached the harder it will be for us to break up in the future. Also because I want to see other peroiple, but I don't have anyone else to see. So should I try to find someone else? Should I just get it over with and break up with her, and leave the past behind? Should I be worried about her depression problem? Can someone help me please?

Replies(5)

Jen7188

replied on June 11th, 2006

New User

Dude, What

Well, how hot is she, and what do u mean depression "problem".. .. I need details, because youre very vague, and do what you want, but maybe you should just try to make her a lil made and want to break up with you instead of you stabbing her in the back by dumping her especially if she has "problems.".. Dickface

Sarah020406

replied on June 11th, 2006

Experienced User

Be open and honest. Don't go behind her back with another women, just tell her straight out (nicely of course) that the relationship isn't working out. You are right to do it sooner rather than later too. Relationship break ups happen to everyone it part of life and you have to do whats best for you here.

skaterguy777

replied on June 11th, 2006

New User

Well I don't know what kind of problem she has. But sometimes she is really really sad and sometimes she is really really happy. She's very overreactive. And I would never go behind her back with someone else, I was just wondering if I should wait until I find someone else or just get it over with.

Sarah020406

replied on June 12th, 2006

Experienced User

Get it over with now coz the longer you wait the harder it will be for both of you, and in the meantime you wont be happy. The sooner you break it off the sooner everyone can move on. Good luck.

Melissa_20

replied on July 19th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

sarah020406 wrote:

get it over with now coz the longer you wait the harder it will be for both of you, and in the meantime you wont be happy. The sooner you break it off the sooner everyone can move on. Good luck.

i totally agree with sarah but you totally made yourself look like an in your first post

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