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Q: Venting.
asked by: DaliciaLynn on June 9th, 2006
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Okay so here's the story.

I went to the dentist today for my regular 6 month check-up, and my sister came with & her daughter.

So there was a family there with a little girl around 3, my niece is 3 in august & started playing with the toys they have in there. Well the girl started playing with my niece and got her butt beat for doing it! It was so obvious it was because my niece is mixed. My sister and I flipped out and told them they need parenting classes & my sister said they were a bunch of racist hicks. They ended up leaving the room but still...That was ridiculous. People better be getting used to it real soon because there are tons of mixed people in the world & more to come.

I hate people like this, it makes me sick. Nobody gets to choose what color they are, and I am going to be so scared when my niece starts going to school..Just think of how that little girl is going to grow up..She is going to be racist probably just because of how her parents raised her.

That is so sad =(
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HcoBrunette06
replied on June 9th, 2006
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People are so retarded! Why would you spank your child for having fun at a doctors office with a mixed girl, people need to open their minds a little :roll: i'm glad you told them what you thought of them!!
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diamondsz
replied on June 9th, 2006
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They are so lucky they arent here I would have called social services I can understand spanking ur kids butt for doing something extremely bad but to hurt ur child because she is having fun is just doing it wrong..

I'm glad u said something I hate ppl like that
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on June 9th, 2006
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She's be fine in .New .Orleans...Everyone down here is mixed. We are the "melting pot" state.

I would've really gone off on em too. Honestly, I would've told them their daughter was going to grow up to marry a black man. I wouldn't take offence, but I bet money they would.

Sarah
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DaliciaLynn
replied on June 9th, 2006
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I just felt awful because that little girl is most likely going to end up racist because of her parents!!

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HcoBrunette06
replied on June 10th, 2006
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I hope not d, that's sad. My family doesn't believe in mixed couples or families either but all of us in the next generation dont mind it. So maybe she'll grow up to realize her parents faults.

I sure hope so =) grrr
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DaliciaLynn
replied on June 10th, 2006
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nunu wrote:
mixed babies are the most beautiful and most in demand in the advertising industry. They will make tons of money when they grow up while the whities and the "others" will be out of jobs. Look at tyra banks and iman. Whoi. Take your niece for auditions for tv and print work.


what you said really offended me...I dont find a race does better in anything. You either make something of yourself or you dont.. That's a choice, and has nothing to do with what color you are.
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replied on June 10th, 2006
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dalicialynn wrote:
nunu wrote:
mixed babies are the most beautiful and most in demand in the advertising industry. They will make tons of money when they grow up while the whities and the "others" will be out of jobs. Look at tyra banks and iman. Whoi. Take your niece for auditions for tv and print work.


what you said really offended me...I dont find a race does better in anything. You either make something of yourself or you dont.. That's a choice, and has nothing to do with what color you are.


i don't think she meant to offend you. But it is true that in the modeling industry mixed models are very popular for their unique looks... Thats just how it is. & i'm not trying to offend you or anger you, either.
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mum2bubba
replied on June 10th, 2006
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I feel sorry for that poor little girl, she wasn't even doing anything wrong was she?
Don't her parents understand that the whole world is full of different races? What does she want her kids to do stay inside all day and not socialize?
Some people have no respect, that little girl isn't gonna have many friends if she follows in her mum's footsteps. Hopefully she grows up and isn't anything like her mum at all. (touch wood)
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diamondsz
replied on June 10th, 2006
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Racism is usually taught by the parents in my eyes they are bad parents, im not telling everyone to go sleep with someone and have mixed kids but if you love someone of another colour/culture dont let that stop you.

I love my husband and I even put him above my family even though it had only been three months we were dating I told my family that I picked him over them but now they have actually warmed up to him and nothing can be done were married. I hope that this girl sees the same thing whens shes older im mixed and my grandmother used to do the same caca she pulled with me on my mother because she is french and not italian although my grandma thinks shes white arggh its irritating.

I think as long as you raise ur kids to be open minded u are doing the best thing you can for them
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DaliciaLynn
replied on June 10th, 2006
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"they will make tons of money when they grow up while the whities and the "others" will be out of jobs"

that comment is what offended me, whities and the "others"

i am white and hispanic and am making a wonderful life of myself. Like I said before..You either make something of yourself or don't. Race has nothing to do with it, yes mixed babies are beautiful but so is any other race
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diamondsz
replied on June 10th, 2006
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That is is a racist comment!!! Who ever said that maybe you should read up abit on racism!
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DaliciaLynn
replied on June 10th, 2006
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Nunu said it above jess..

Obviously shes a black girl and is racist against "whities" and "others"

that pissed me off hardcore...That's something you don't need to say on a forum full of different races. Yes there are a lot of black & mixed girls in the modeling world, but there are also tons of white girls and other races. They arent in the industry because of their race but only because their beautiful, and hell sometimes I see a model & don't even think she's that great. It's all about the taste you have in people.

And about the "whities and others being out of jobs" bullsh*t...This world is full of jobs. You get hired because of the person you are, race has nothing to do with it whatsoever.
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Tayzia
replied on June 10th, 2006
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Ugh, that's disgusting. That reminds me of something that happened when I was at disneyland with my parents last year (my dad's indian and my mom's white). It's so sad that people are like that.
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ThriftyGal
replied on June 10th, 2006
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What happened at disney land? Is your father native american or india indian? Outa curiousity.
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Tayzia
replied on June 10th, 2006
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India indian. I would never refer to a native american as an indian. Too confusing.

We were staying in a hotel room, and our key became inactive. Next door the couple that were staying there were outside of their room, smoking. The guy left. My mom was at disneyland with my little sister and me and my dad were getting something. So my dad went over to the lady on our left who was smoking and asked if he could use her phone for a second. She gave him this patronizing, condescending look and said, "i wouldn't feel safe having you in this room when my husband isn't here." and my dad, who's usually used to the racism thing and doens't let it bother him, was really frusterated because he had no way of contacting my mom and telling her that we wouldn't be back for a while and he said, "i udnerstand that you don't know me, but would you feel more comfortable if my daughter was here?" and he motioned to me and I came closer, and she gave me this look, and she she kind of smirked and said, "well, isn't that nice. Like father like daughter." and my dad kind of said, "please? This is really important, our door is locked," and she glared at him and said, "don't raise your voice to me. Who do you think you are?" and so my dad just gave up and went to the elevator to get the front desk people, and I waited by our door (fuming, nevertheless), and the lady's husband came back and he was like, "what happened?" and she said something obviously derogatory and her husband looked over and glared at me.

I think that being racist is ridiculous. I saw this thing on jerry springer...There was this woman who had a baby who desperately needed an organ transplant, and the baby had a chance to get one, but the mother wouldn't let the doctor's operate because the organ had come from a black person. And the baby died!!!! I was so horrified, I was in a trance for the rest of the day. Can you imagine that??
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DaliciaLynn
replied on June 10th, 2006
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People are so stupid, there's no point in being racist because it just causes problems.

A few of our hotels here are owned by pakistans and a couple years back one of my black friends had to get my mom to go pay for it with his money because they charged him more than they charged my mom whom is white.

I was like no..They can't do that. So he went inside and said they told him the hotel was 60 dollars, when they only charged my mom 40
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DylanJacob
replied on June 11th, 2006
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How fucked up can people be?

Jeez - I feel sorry for that kids parents for being so narrowminded, they're obviously twats. Who won't let their kid play with another kid just becaus eof the colour of their skin. Messed up.
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diamondsz
replied on June 11th, 2006
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F*ck I lookk more white than anything and im probally working a better job than this chick medical question I hate people like that racism is stupidity ppl who are educated know the difference
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HcoBrunette06
replied on June 11th, 2006
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