I have been dating this guy for 1 year. Everything is fine except that he has pe(premature ejaculation). Prior to this relationship I was seeing another person for four years and we had regular sex. For my current beau well he is new to sex. So at first we thought he might be too nervous. However after few attempts to have sex he stills ejaculates early.

Since then we did not try to have sex. Our most imtimate moves are just caressing and french kissing. I try my very best to handle this situation. I gave him the best support and courage that I can. Never once did I show my frustration (imagine being aroused yet not being satisfied). I always put a smile on my face for him. However, he does not take any effort at all for his problem. When confronted, he said he had not really sit down to think about it and he is not ready for a doctor. We have not discussed about the issue since. You see, I am an conservative asian girl who can't discuss such issues freely. I did email him once about this but no reponse from him.

Needless to say, I am very frustrated. That's not due to lack of sex, but his attitude. I am a 28, young, healthy woman who has normal desires for sex. All this while I am hiding my desires and feelings as I do not want to upset him. However, as mentioned, not only I feel frustrated, I feel unattractive. Sometimes I wonder if it is my fault.

Any advises would be much appreciated. Thanks!