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Q: In Regards to (my Advice Post)
asked by: diamondsz on June 7th, 2006
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Ok this is sickening

we are a bunch of emotional woman get used to the fact that we will say stuff that no one may want to hear, im in a nasty doing it mood today I had two kids screaming all day and im sick of the bs.......

I may not be buddy buddy with people but before you say stop cussing that person out/if you have nothing better to say dont say it all well here my advice we have all done it and if you dont remeber put ur past shoes on or put urself in that persons shoes.

As for the grammer freaks just f*ck off its really irritating if I wanted to spell/grammer I would but thats at work and there is a godamn spellcheck here like omg

ahhhh! Sorry some ppl here arent angels if you dont like it then shut*p and deal with it or do something about and give ur doing it opinion, stop health forum and do something about it I cant stand ppl like that...

Im not a big fan of a few ppl but it doesnt stop me from giving advice at the same time if I think they are doing something stupid they will hear that we all have different views get used to it different opinions/views will always cause argument

.I.F .U .D.O.N.T .L.I.K.E .T.H.E.N .S.H.U.T .U.P or do something about it

its like if you vote you have the right to health forum about politic if you didnt vote you dont have the right

there im done now
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diamondsz replied on June 7th, 2006
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Im just having a nasty incredibly day and I think we all need to take it easy but its more of a venting...

Honestly sandra you need to take it easy abit on d I know what shes going through and its not pretty so

for ppl who dont have kids your incredibly aggravated with everything and everyone you just want to scream cause you feel like you never have a break/lack of sleep. No one usually understand cause they forget whats it like to go through this its disgusting honestly I just want to kick my dh out I cant stand him and my kids have pushed me so much overboard. Please before you doing it go at someone put urself in their shoes now that I remeber whats it like I actually can say I understand this girl!!
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DaliciaLynn replied on June 7th, 2006
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diamondsz wrote:
im just having a nasty incredibly day and I think we all need to take it easy but its more of a venting...



Honestly sandra you need to take it easy abit on d I know what shes going through and its not pretty so

for ppl who dont have kids your incredibly aggravated with everything and everyone you just want to scream cause you feel like you never have a break/lack of sleep. No one usually understand cause they forget whats it like to go through this its disgusting honestly I just want to kick my dh out I cant stand him and my kids have pushed me so much overboard. Please before you doing it go at someone put urself in their shoes now that I remeber whats it like I actually can say I understand this girl!!


doing it thank you!!


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people act like I wanted them to feel sorry for me or some sh*t...Having a kid that's teething is hell..I havent slept in 2 days and I have jobs and school to attend too.

Not to mention i'm on the rag, and when brayden is screaming I seriously barely have enough time to change my tampon.
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Becky replied on June 8th, 2006
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dalicialynn wrote:
diamondsz wrote:
im just having a nasty incredibly day and I think we all need to take it easy but its more of a venting...




Honestly sandra you need to take it easy abit on d I know what shes going through and its not pretty so

for ppl who dont have kids your incredibly aggravated with everything and everyone you just want to scream cause you feel like you never have a break/lack of sleep. No one usually understand cause they forget whats it like to go through this its disgusting honestly I just want to kick my dh out I cant stand him and my kids have pushed me so much overboard. Please before you doing it go at someone put urself in their shoes now that I remeber whats it like I actually can say I understand this girl!!


doing it thank you!!



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people act like I wanted them to feel sorry for me or some sh*t...Having a kid that's teething is hell..I havent slept in 2 days and I have jobs and school to attend too.


Not to mention i'm on the rag, and when brayden is screaming I seriously barely have enough time to change my tampon.


i have 2 children with only 10 months between them who are both teething at the same time and I am pregnant again. I know the meaning of stress believe me but I don't be a complete health forum because of it.
Just because you are having a hard time does not give you automatic right to insult people.
It would be better to tell people how you are feeling and maybe we can help you. I don't think you are a bad person dalicia and I respect that you may of been having a bad day and can even forgive you for what you've said but there's no excuse to keep dragging it on even when its done with.
Give it up, take a deep breath and let it go. We don't have to be friends but lets at least keep the forum as nice as it can be
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Melissa_20 replied on June 8th, 2006
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I think so many different things sometimes its annoying! So sinece I can't figure out which one to say,i wont say anything at all,lol
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diamondsz replied on June 8th, 2006
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I have 2 children with only 10 months between them who are both teething at the same time and I am pregnant again. I know the meaning of stress believe me but I don't be a complete health forum because of it.

Just because you are having a hard time does not give you automatic right to insult people.

It would be better to tell people how you are feeling and maybe we can help you. I don't think you are a bad person dalicia and I respect that you may of been having a bad day and can even forgive you for what you've said but there's no excuse to keep dragging it on even when its done with.

Give it up, take a deep breath and let it go. We don't have to be friends but lets at least keep the forum as nice as it can be[/quote]

i have two kids under 2 im possibly pregnant again so trust me im not happy and dont throw I have more kids its not cool all im saying is we all have bad days sometimes we say things out of spite but you know what we go back to normal im usually pretty good with people ive been nasty with a few people but that is my opinion and what I thought.

I fed my kids before 3 months alot of ppl dont agree on that this will definatly cause arguments and if you cant see that then u are blind to what is really going on all im saying if you dont like something that was said ignore it or do something......
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AlliE_18 replied on June 8th, 2006
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Diamondz maybe dalicia should be the one taking your advice, if she wasnt nasty in almost every post she makes about someone, none of the health forum would have started. She needs to sort her attitude out, if not offline at least on here. Shes a complete fake fool!
As for the baby teething, so incredibly what!? Everyone has bad days and problems to deal with, doesnt mean you have to take it out on people on here.
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diamondsz replied on June 8th, 2006
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Naw allie she doesnt need to listen to me that is her choice, what some of you guys need to do is remeber what u were like at 17 on top of all the added bs im going back to work im probally pregnant I have to doing it health forum kids and im thinking about other caca such as school in stuff so I have alot on my mind...

Sandra you never defended anyone im not trying to start stuff your a pretty decent person but you have had ur go at everyone and yes were all guilty. Im not defending d all im asking is for you guys to understand her not doing it pity none of us need pity.

Allie second off you have one kid im probally going to have 3 kids under 3 im not happy before u health forum im on b/c I took precaution but I should know better.....


In a way I understand where ur coming from those am I pregnant post when ur in a bad mood really get under skin and if I cuss them out for being stupid then so what and the same if you guys cuss me out ill deal with it my way so I treat ppl the same!
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DaliciaLynn replied on June 8th, 2006
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allie_18 wrote:
diamondz maybe dalicia should be the one taking your advice, if she wasnt nasty in almost every post she makes about someone, none of the health forum would have started. She needs to sort her attitude out, if not offline at least on here. Shes a complete fake fool!
As for the baby teething, so incredibly what!? Everyone has bad days and problems to deal with, doesnt mean you have to take it out on people on here.


allie you should have no say in anything, you got "pregnant" by a rapist and am calling me fake when you show no photos of "lucas" at least I can show photos.

You left your son with a sitter to go out, have sex, do drugs and probably f*ck every guy you get your eye on. And you make a comment about me smoking weed? At least weed is only a herb out of the ground, your over there in the uk snorting stuff up that decaying nose of yours.

So before you comment you need to think about the stuff you do, your the sh*ttiest mom I have ever seen in my life and if anyone should be called a fake. .I.T.S. .Y.O.U.
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MamiClaudia replied on June 8th, 2006
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Wow and there she goes again your really sick delicia and I think you are a medical answer sociopath for being so proud of it too.



This is the reason why there is so much drama on this forum. It is delicia and her nasty words. I hope a mod blocks her ip address soon.
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DaliciaLynn replied on June 8th, 2006
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mamiclaudia wrote:
wow and there she goes again your really sick delicia and I think you are a medical answer sociopath for being so proud of it too.




This is the reason why there is so much drama on this forum. It is delicia and her nasty words. I hope a mod blocks her ip address soon.


shut up b*tch.

And it's dalicia, get it right.

I have never liked allie, and if there wasnt me on this forum, everyone would be sad & would cry.

I hope you die soon.
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jessie2006 replied on June 8th, 2006
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Hi there I don't really know what i've walked into. Is this a private post? If so i'm sorry for interuppting probably not the best time
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diamondsz replied on June 8th, 2006
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Sandra im sorry im may be abit out I thought you were doing the oppostie anyways ill let it go im just venting im not personally trying to attack someone im just giving my thoughts and opinions and this will all blowover ina few days I just need to doing it chill and I know that.

I'm not sorry if anyone got offended this my thought/opinions so im sorry you feel the way you do you have a right but so do .I
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MamiClaudia replied on June 8th, 2006
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No im sick of hearing people say she needs to be defended, im defending her, shes defending herself. Shes sick in the head and she needs some help. Hopefully someday before her child grows old she will get it. She needs to learn to defend herself with constructive critism like her mother who apparently is a social worker oddly never taught her. Hopefully sooner or later she will realise that her sick attitude that she loves so much will get her no where and only make people view her as most people here do already. There is something wrong when you need to c.O.N.S.T.A.N.T.L.Y. Defend yourself, obviously there is something wrong with her and not the world.
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MamiClaudia replied on June 8th, 2006
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I guess you just cant teach an old dog new tricks.. Beacuse it really dosent look like shes trying very hard.
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DaliciaLynn replied on June 8th, 2006
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Your being all pissy because I defended myself when allie said that I was a fake fool? Yep i'm fake alright. Your doing nothing but getting yourself in a huge mess, your only just a newbie, and know nothing about allie. Everyone was on my butt a couple days ago, research allie's name & view some topics she's made about how she left her baby with a sitter she didnt even know, had sex with no telling who, did tons of drugs and said "it's hard coming back and taking care of him when I had all of that fun"

my mom raised me to have my own opinion & to voice it.


I only defend myself when people have something to say about me, which I have all rights to do. I'm not going to sit here and let some girl call me a faker and an fool when i'm not the one who leaves my son with someone who I dont even know, I dont go out and party or get drunk, im not on welfare. And last but not least, I can prove my son is mine, I can prove i'm the person I am, and am the girl in the photos I post. Can allie? Nope..

You need to research on the people who you defend, I defended allie once and done nothing but made myself look like the biggest fool, which is what your doing now.

Everytime someone has something to say about me, you jump in like a human getting a piece of ass.
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diamondsz replied on June 8th, 2006
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I tried to help allie told her to shut her mouth if she didnt want ppls opinion, if you think someone is not going to like what you post and feel u may get offended then dont post it.


D can be abit harsh but so can I all of us have problems all of us so dont be playing miss angel, im not defending her im just telling it the way it is, a few of us are very opinionated and sorry the world isnt all mami claudia sorry I like being unique.


Us opinionated ppl like each other and hate each other because we all have the same personalities in the end and it clashes fortunatly im leaning towards d right now!
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candita_sky replied on June 8th, 2006
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Ding goes the bell know every one to your corner. Doesnt any one get along anymore?? :)
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DaliciaLynn replied on June 9th, 2006
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sadie lynn wrote:
ding goes the bell know every one to your corner. Doesnt any one get along anymore?? :)


no way am I getting along with someone like allie. That girl needs her baby taken away, if she even has one.
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Kia replied on June 9th, 2006
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At the end of the day there is a lot of anger here.

And no one person is at fault or innocent.
Purely by replying to this post you have involved yourself to the same level. - no if's or but's about it.

And now is the time to stop

dalicia - is very independant and head-strong, yes she gets hacked off when people criticise even gently and yes she can say some nasty things but that is her honesty - dalicia won't health forum behind your back, she says what she thinks when she thinks it and it is for that honest quality that I respect her.

Allie - another very independant and head-strong young lady who gets hacked off when people criticise her even gently and yes she can say some nasty things again i'm fairly sure you won't find allie health forum behind your back because she will tell you what she thinks.

Uk - over here it is common (even normal) to call a sitter from an agency or the phone book of heck even the 14 year old down the street to look after your kid while you go out.
My opinion is that it is better to call a a sitter than to just leave your kid or try to care for the child while your are incapacitated.

Mamiclaudia - it's those kind of comments that p1ss people off in the first place. D isn't psycho or anything else, she is simply a strong willed, hormonal, outspoken young lady.

Jess /sandra - your arguing over a point which you agree on.

Time ladies to step back and look at what is written not what you think is written - there is nothing between the lines, take the post at face value.

If you read apost and it appears that someone is health forum at you then ask them if that is what they meant before flying off the handle - very very often that was not what was meant at all.

Now, pretty much everyone here has an overload of hormones either by age or by pregnancy.
I am totally p1ssed off, this has gone too far and it needs to stop and I am trying very very hard to hold this in. Trust me if I were there i'd be smacking all your heads together by now. It'd be one big head mush.

You've all got things in common - so what if you do them different ways - does it matter who uses their left hand to feed their kids and who uses the right? No!

Any posts from this point on that are taking digs at people are going to be locked - I don't care who starts the post and I don't care who is health forum at who.
If you think your post has been unfairly locked ask me about it. I will comment on any post I lock about why it has been locked (so you know it was me)

-locked-
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