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Q: Man On a Power Trip

asked by: ka5 on June 6th, 2006

New User

I really really need help on how I can make a guy realise that he doesn't have the power over me he thinks he have. We've been having a bit of a fling for the last 8 months and started sleeping togetehr a couple of months ago. He's a total person and all my friends hate him, but everytime im drunk I still end up getting together with him.
I founf out last night tho that he tells all my friends that all he has to do is click his fingers and I will come running - i.E., whenever he wants sex he can come to me coz he knows I will give it to him. The gfuy is on a major power trip and seems to think that he has all this power over me, but in reality, all I want from him is sex and I dont really care about him at all emotionally.
How can I make him realise this and bring him back down to earth a bit and make him relaise that it is mutual using of each other??
The other thing I dont understand is the fact that hell always initiate conversations with me, got jealous last night wen another guy bought me a flower when we were out and was embarrased by the fact that I told all my frends that the last time we had sex he only lasted 5 mins - he then retaliated by telling them all that he has me wrpped around his little finger - I just dont no wat to make of the guy. Please help me, please!!!

Replies(4)

Tamadrummer

replied on June 6th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

Sounds like your friends don't like him so they are making him feel bad and he is not being give any other alternative but to retaliate with some comment that he probably doesn't even mean to be derogotory to you.

I don't know, but it just seems to me that if you were having the problems that they want you to think you are having, you might know about them without your "friends" telling you so that you know you are having problems.

Talk to him, obviously if you are sleeping with him, you need to be able to talk to him. If you speak to him about what your friends are telling you, not in an accusitory manner. The reason I say that is you simply do not know how your friends are treating him, if they are treating him like he is an fool and he doesn't deserve you and he ....... (i dont know what else they can do to him but they sound mean) he has no other choice, he has to say something hurtful to them. You are being played by your friends and they are what will try to make or break your relationship with this guy. If you don't like him but like the sex, tell you friends to back off, if you like him and the sex, tell your friends they are on the verge of pushing you away. It simply isn't right for them to do this!

Melissa_20

replied on July 17th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

I don't know if its all your friends.I know a guy who acts the exact same way and when things started going wrong(not as he planned) he would start making things up about htem like they're psycho or something.I would stop sleeping with him,trust me it would probably be one of the best decisions you ever made.It could get real ugly and i'm sure you could find another piece of a$$

Emma2

replied on July 17th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Why do you need to justify yourself to an arrogant fool like that? Just dont call him and ignore his attempts that is the best way to make someone come off thier little cloud and burst their bubble!

rhondawms

replied on July 17th, 2006

New User

Melissa and emma are right stop sleeping with him ,it would be in your best interest to do this.

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