I really really need help on how I can make a guy realise that he doesn't have the power over me he thinks he have. We've been having a bit of a fling for the last 8 months and started sleeping togetehr a couple of months ago. He's a total person and all my friends hate him, but everytime im drunk I still end up getting together with him.
I founf out last night tho that he tells all my friends that all he has to do is click his fingers and I will come running - i.E., whenever he wants sex he can come to me coz he knows I will give it to him. The gfuy is on a major power trip and seems to think that he has all this power over me, but in reality, all I want from him is sex and I dont really care about him at all emotionally.
How can I make him realise this and bring him back down to earth a bit and make him relaise that it is mutual using of each other??
The other thing I dont understand is the fact that hell always initiate conversations with me, got jealous last night wen another guy bought me a flower when we were out and was embarrased by the fact that I told all my frends that the last time we had sex he only lasted 5 mins - he then retaliated by telling them all that he has me wrpped around his little finger - I just dont no wat to make of the guy. Please help me, please!!!