I myself thought "squirting" was only something you saw on movies, but it really is possible. One night my boyfriend and I were "doing the deed" and I actually "squirted" for the first time. We came to the conclusion that it was because of the way I was angled he was hitting my g-spot.

My best advice is lay on your back with your legs as far up by your shoulders, and you should feel it the penetration. Trust me, the feeling is real intense.

Dear friend ,
hi,
i dont know how other women started experience this particular pleasure but I started by just teasing my g-spot with out making love with someone.
I always need to tease me g-spot if I want to have such water out of me. Otherwise its impossible to taste such thing. For me , while lovemaking , I cant enjoy such extreme if I dont touch my g-spot.
Rest you can better judge what is good way for your self to start experiencing it. But believe me , it is something you are missing !
Mona

Hey, try this, when you are actually getting off, just let it go, it'll feel like your peeing, that's how it felt for me, but it wasn't. I thought it was me getting off. Try it.

Long post...Be ready lol I copied this from my email course and posted it here

all women are capable of squirting...Now the key is massaging her...A lot I mean a lot of massage check www.Eroticmassage.Com (no i'm not affiliated) for the best products

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the grafenberg spot
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greetings and salutations my bright and happy travelers on the path to sexual mastery! Today's lesson focuses on the g-spot. Now next to big foot, nessie the loch ness monster and of course we can't forget our tibetan friend the yeti, the g-spot or "grafenberg spot" is perhaps one of the most elusive sexual hot spots to find and make work for you.

Now if you happen to be one of the blessed few who know where the g-spot is and how to work it.

Congratulations your way ahead of the game. Honestly though we can't talk to much in depth about the g-spot with out spending some time talking about the difference between a vaginal and a clitoral orgasm.

You see the two types of orgasm are very different in the sensations they produce and the physiological effects on certain parts of a woman's anatomy. Understanding these effects instantly allows you to flow to exactly the right way to stimulate her following either one.

This is crucial when you're going for any kind of orgasm through penetration and even more so when you're following the sexual conditioning and orgasmic set ups and sequences.

Orgasm basics -

orgasms are defined as the peak of sexual arousal when all the muscles that tighten during arousal suddenly relax causing very pleasurable feelings that involve the entire body.

During sexual climax hormones and endorphins are secreted into to the blood stream causing a cascade of effects and sensations to ripple all throughout the body making a woman feel happy, giddy, flushed warm and/or sleepy.

All types of orgasm make woman more responsive to sexual stimulation

clitoral orgasm
the clitoral orgasm is the most common type of orgasm and as we have covered in earlier lessons it's the one you want to master first.

Clitoral orgasms are often described as intense, rapid and cerebral

vaginal orgasm

vaginal orgasms are an "o" of a different color so to speak. In contrasts to the clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasms are often described as deep, and relaxing with a wave like contractions followed by a deep sense of relaxation (afterglow)





the g spot orgasm takes a bit more patience and finesse to stimulate properly but once you do. You have a much better chance of giving her an orgasm through penetration/intercourse.

Let me explain. You see unlike the clitoris the g-spot can be stimulated directly with the penis during penetration-- however you still need to figure out the best positions to adequately contact and stimulate the g-spot or more often, then if not your back in the same boat you were in prior to learning these key concepts and techniques.

Everything you have learned and done up to this point is "priming the pump" for what comes afterward.

You will notice by now that I haven't talked a lot about penetration with your penis yet. The reason for this gentlemen; is that I am teaching you how to stack the deck so far in your favor that no matter what happens... You win!

Everything you have learned up to this point has been designed to consistently bring her to orgasm then move her into a "higher" level of orgasmic pleasure.

When you stop to consider most women on the average has to content themselves with only one or two orgasms per lovemaking session if they are lucky, you can already begin to see how by learning these skills and by following the incredibly systematic approach taught in this mini e-course can immediately take your sexual skills and aptitudes to levels far beyond what you might have ever considered possible for you.


Finding the g spot


finding the g-spot is often a challenge especially if you haven't done any study or are trapped in "penile thinking" mode. The g-spot is a small bunch of nerves about the size of a quarter located 1 - 2 inches inside and on the roof of the vaginal cavity.

My best way to teach folks how to find this is with your fingers slide your finger up inside along the upper wall of the vagina at about a forty five degree angle. You will feel a somewhat rough patch of tissue underneath your finger.

If you're paying attention throughout the course of your sex play, you will notice that as the even progresses and she gets more and more aroused and turned on this particular area will actually swell up --- that's a good thing!

Ways to stimulate the g - spot

most of the time I rely on my fingers to stimulate the g-spot. If you have been practicing the "secret twitch" technique I gave you in our lesson on oral sex then you already have one of the best techniques to begin working her g-spot.



Sequencing is important

as I mentioned in earlier lessons I never go for the g spot first. It's always my second or third target because it takes time for the g spot to begin to become fully aroused and activated!

Timing and calibration are important when you're pleasuring your woman; be off on either one and she doesn't get her orgasm and you're just another average guy... Bad thing!

Now once you have located the g spot you have a number of strokes you can use and of course depending on the woman your timing, stroke, and pressure will vary. I usually start with a light pressure and a back and forth type of motion with the pads of my fingers.

I generally keep the fingers slightly flexed but not
locked perhaps 25 % stiffer than I use for the actual "secret twitch."

by this time her g-spot should be fairly well engorged with fluid, this means she's primed for the next level. But for now we work only on stimulating her g-spot with your fingers. Like I mentioned earlier I tend to begin with a back and forth motion and use my fingers to contour the roof of the vaginal cavity as I rub the pads of my fingers over her g - spot.

You can also use a circular stroking pattern with the pads of your fingers. Depending on how tight she is and the size of her g-spot I will use either one or two fingers.

Usually the pointer and index fingers; this method requires a bit of a softer touch than the back
and forth method or a "come hither" type of technique but I find that the come hither type of stimulation doesn't work nearly as well as a simple back and forth stroke done while contouring her g-spot.


When I start stroking her g-spot I tend to start very softly with light pressure and increase the rate, and pressure as she begins to respond more and more to what i'm doing. Like I mentioned earlier this one is a bit more challenging but if you have primed her pump properly what follows the g-spot orgasm is more often then not a literal flood of orgasmic delight!

Well that's about if for now on the g spot, your mission should you decide to accept it is to go out and get your woman work her from the very first lesson in this course all the way up to this lesson in the same sequence I shared them with you.

Notice her responses to your new found techniques or even just the new twists to some of the techniques you already knew.


Remember the key to sexual mastery isn't just in the physical techniques of how to stimulate her but also in your ability to powerfully and accurately read her body & mind cues that let you know where she's at on the pleasure continuum and what is really working for her to bring her maximum pleasure and you ultimate mastery of the art.

Let's recap...

Find it!

-find her g spot by sliding your fingers palm up inside her vagina and contouring the roof of the vagina until you find what feels like a rough patch of skin

-the g spot is roughly the size of a quarter. Be sure to sense where the exact borders of the g-spot are. Become familiar with the terrain inside her

feel it!

-once you find her g-spot you can feel and palpate it to determine how aroused she is

-if you have done your work well the area in question should feel relatively swollen and engorged with fluid. If so great continue to stimulate her

-if not, go back to foreplay and more clitoral orgasms either by fingering or orally--remember --stack the deck

-you can also manually stimulate the g-spot using the methods described above, it will just take a bit longer to get her where you want her orgasmically speaking

stimulate it!

Once you know you have her ready you can begin stimulating her g-spot with a

-back and forth motion - good general purpose stroke to use, vary the pressure and speed based on how she is responding

-circular massage -
-come hither method of stimulation
-hooking fingers method - I use this primarily when
she's on her back

**note

before a woman can learn to ejaculate, enjoy ejaculating, and enjoy sex in general she must accept her bodily fluids as normal. She must not question the nature or quantity of her wetness, be it sweat, vaginal lubrication, menses, ejaculate, or urine.

These fluids are a normal and natural part of women's lives. There is nothing that is inherently bad about them.

A woman cannot allow herself to ejaculate and experience potentially earth-shattering orgasms if she cannot let go when the pressure or urge to ejaculate arises.

Ladies, give yourself permission to get wet and messy. Give yourself permission to have fun and enjoy sex.

**end note


have fun....And practice, practice, practice!! Lol


hope that helps you, down123

Every time my boyfriend and I have sex I have a liquid that gushes from my vagina like a running faucet 2 the point that the bed is soaked 2 the matress.I don't know if this is considered an orgasm since I don't experience the shaking every one claims should happen. What is going on?!?!

if you are just wet without feeling something different (that is pleasurable) then i don't think it is orgasm yet.

having an orgasm doesn't mean just 'shaking' feeling... it's an intense feeling, (though women describe it differently in the way that they feel it). for me its like a rush to my circulation, the intensity is as if in a roller coaster ride, and and i just like screaming it out loud, lol! then after that it is as if you were really damn tired! but i can still go on after having one, it is just guys that needs to rest after an orgasm.

and thanks for that post Da Vinci, it's cool! i didn't know there are different orgasms, because i thought at first the clitorial orgasm is just something that i have felt. now i know it is also orgasm that im feeling (thought differently) when he is thrusting me so deep and hard. the feeling is really good, guess that's when he hits my G-spot.

though i haven't experienced squirting, i would love to experience that, at least now i will not get scared and embarrased when it happens... because usually after my orgasm i have this fluid going out, but it really doesn't squirt, it just flows down, sometimes really heavy, sometimes just light.

but how will you differentiate the feeling of squirting it out with a feeling that it's really pee? any other ways on how to do the squirting?

i love my girlfriend of 2 half years, and we love foreplay. she also loves when i use my fingers. but i can never get her to just let go snd see wat happens, as soon as she gets really hot and bothered she pulls me up and wants sex. me trying to be caring i want to give her a squirting body shaking orgasm but as i said she wont let go. how can i coax her to do this i know she will like it. pls help

i was just reading this post and all of a sudden i just went wakko he he he

My boyfriend and I just started using a vibrator to hit my g spot. He's hitting it, but the problem is is that once I feel the urge to go pee, I can't relax and just let it happen. I can still orgasm, but I don't squirt. How do I get past this. I've tried by myself, but then it seems like I spend so much time controlling the vibrator that I cannot orgasm and it starts to hurt after awhile and I quit. What to do??

I had my first squirting experience last night. Talk about awesome. WOW. I orgasm all the time, but this was different. I heard it would feel like you were going to pee and you just have to let go. I think it may have happend because I was about to cum at one point and then he backed off for a minute and he came back and within a minute or two I was squirting all over his face. He loved how wet I got. LOL. I just loved it.

Hey rarintogoo
It sounds like the vibration may be too insense for you. Like using a jackhammer to clean the dishes, it's powerful but not getting the job done. Try going back to basics. Put yourself in the frame of mind you used to learn to orgasm through masturbation, try stimulating your G-sput by hand or with the vibrator turned off. Nurture that feeling that you have to urinate and gently work towards release.

So then when you tell me to nurture the feeling of having to go pee, just let go and pee, but that's not what I am actually doing, I am cumming?

i Squirt just about every time me and my hubby do the wild thing.. and he loves it. this is how i do it when u get the urge that u have to pee just push to put some pressure in it and and let go.. and wow watch it come out like a water gun..

Well, I've been trying to do the "squirting" thing with my boyfriend. The problem is is that it's not happening. I don't know if we are both under pressure now to make it happen and it doesn't or what. It's started interfering so much that I don't even stay wet the whole time we are making love and he thinks that he's not turning me on anymore. Does it usually take longer the first time you squirt versus times after that? He says he can't feel my g spot. I tell him he's hitting it, but I don't always feel the same arousal and the urge to go pee. Does the urge to go pee only happen right before squirting? I've tried experimenting by myself and I believe I have found my g spot, but haven't been able to myself to squirt either. Any suggestions? Help!!