Okay, so I have been married to my husband for a little over a year now. We have been together for about 4 years and he has primary custody of his 4 year old son from a past relationship. So anyway, i've been feeling so confused for the past few months...I don't feel like i'm where i'm supposed to be. So I finally got the nerve last night to talk to him about it. I just really feel like I need some time to figure out exactly what I want. It would be best to do now than wait 20 years or however long. He is now in stage 3 of the grief process...1. Denial, 2. Anger, 3. Bargaining. What im scared of is stage 4, depression. I dont want to see him suffer, I still love him. I really am not trying to hurt him! Anyway, so he called me a few minutes ago and wants to still live together so we don't lose our house, etc.. I would move into the spare bedroom. I dont know! I dont want him to lose everything we have worked so hard for, but I just dont know how well its going to work being roomies. Now his mom is putting in his head that im seeing someone else. He says he doesnt think that but I can tell he does. Im not seeing someone else...If I was that low, I wouldnt have told him how I felt, he would have just come home to a note! Anyway, any comments, advice....?