I have been with my husband for 3 years. From the beginning of our marriage I had known that he had an anger issue (mainly when driving)and once the anger is triggered there is no way for him to shut it off he just gets worse. This is caused from a frontal lobe injury that he recieved from a motorcycle accident 16 years ago. The frontal lobe is completly dead (miracle man) to name a few things that this affects are his addrenaline flow, his temper, short/long term memory, and senses. So by the doctors orders, that he hasn't followed very well, is to stay on the meds now and forever no exceptions.

He has recently decided to get back on the antidepressants because he has been out of work for almost a year because of another injury to his shoulder. We have been fighting workmans comp. And struggling financially since it started. His only choice, ordered by his lawyer was to kick it till it's over. Well anyone, even in a right state of mind, would go crazy sitting at home not knowing whats going to happen from day to day.

So zoloft, a mood stabolyzer that I don't remember the name of, and serequil( forgive my speling) and they have helped him wonderfully but the side affect of all three is that it takes his desire for any kind of physcal touch just about completly away. Any sugestions on getting past the lack of intamacy? Is there any thing I could do to get him to desire it again? Heather