I am a 42 year old woman, starting my life over and dating. When I was married, I never had oral sex performed on me. But resently, what happens is, that after oral sex is performed the following week, I get really itchy and the soft skin in the inner labia gets cracked and hurts, and clitoras itchy too. I had it checked by doc. Tests run, no std's, just one of those things. But I was wondering will I be doomed to this everytime it happens? I have been sitting in a tub of water everynight, make sure I dry really well and am using vagisil, but the itch is tremendous. Could I be getting a skin infection from the saliva of my lover, or is the skin just that sensitive? Besides the sitz baths, should I be adding baking soda, epsoms salts, or anything else to take the sting away? There is no odor associated with this and no discharge from what I can see. Just angry little skin cracks. Thanks