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Q: My Sexually Open Boyfriend
asked by: fauclarinetqt on May 30th, 2006
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My boyfriend is extremely sexually open. I believe that if I am with someone, that is because we are a we, not everyone else included. I am completely monogamous as long as I am bound to that person. In his past, my boyfriend has had sex in front of people, in the same room as a family member, some of the strangest things (to me). I have told him several times that I am uncomfortable with the idea of sharing him with another woman. He doesn't want a threesome to see two girls get it on, no, he wants to have sex with two girls (which seems a bit selfish and insulting to me). He will not, under any circumstances drop the subject. He thinks that I will be more comfortable with my sexuality as our relationship progresses. The more he pushes me, the more upset I get. We have been dating for almost two years now, and I can't decide what to do. If any of you have any thoughts, I would love to hear from you.
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kissofangel20
replied on May 31st, 2006
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Well he is indeed an open person and if that is the life he chooses and you don't agree or like it then it would be best for you to find someone who feels the same as you and let him go and have all the orgies he wants with someone who likes that kind of thing. Cause the way he feels about sex and what you think about it or way to diff. For there to ever be a middle ground you can both agree on. I wish you luck.
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Melissa_20
replied on June 2nd, 2006
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kissofangel20 wrote:
well he is indeed an open person and if that is the life he chooses and you don't agree or like it then it would be best for you to find someone who feels the same as you and let him go and have all the orgies he wants with someone who likes that kind of thing. Cause the way he feels about sex and what you think about it or way to diff. For there to ever be a middle ground you can both agree on. I wish you luck.


i agree.You have 2 different views on sex and one thing he probably isn't thinking about is .S.T.D's. . .You don't want to catch that!
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Moo
replied on June 2nd, 2006
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I have to agree with the others. This man is being extremely selfish and clearly doesn't have much respect for you or he'd appreciate that you're not comfortable having an open relationship. I think it's impossible for such a relationship to work - if he doesn't want to be monogamous then he wont, with or without your permission.
You should be with someone who respects you and realises that you're not going to share your man.
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Melissa_20
replied on June 2nd, 2006
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Yep,can I get a .A.M.E.N!?!?!
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