There are plenty of women that have had
abortions that have children. I for one
and even the dr told me that I would be
fortunate to have normal pregnancies and
normal children, well, I had two pretty
much necessary abortions and have had 2
beautiful children and they are grown and
on their own now and their is nothing
wrong with them. Please don't let these
certain people get to you. There are many
females that cannot carry a child until
birth, who is to say that ours would have
made it to birth. Cherry88, you will be
fine, I feel it. You did what was right
at the time and no one has the right to
judge you! Just because they were not
walking in your shoes does not mean that
they have a right to judge us.
I wish you & all the best!
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Lissy79
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 51 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 07-01-06 16:47pm
Hear!Hear! Well said sandy.... Glad to
hear you went on to have healthy children
when the time was right for u.... U must
be so proud of them... That sunshine
person certainly aint shining any sun in
here.... It looks more like she trying to
brew a storm....Im passing on hugs to
anyone in here that wants one... Coz we
all need to be hugged at sum time in our
lives.... Its just a shame that "certain"
people get off on bringing people
down..... Times change, women died so
that us their future could have better
lives..... Bet she doesnt tell women
never to vote!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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cherry88
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006 Posts: 633 Location: ,
Posted: 07-01-06 21:58pm
Yeh exactly! Everyone has forgotten joan
of arc. Lmao!
As for *someone* I hope she dont come
back, just a matter for time b4 she gets
banned.
Anyways thanks sandy you are the .Don!!!
:)
and cheers lisa u made me smile.Lol
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aphares23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jul 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Missouri
Getting Over It? Not As Easy As It Seems... Posted: 07-21-06 11:34am
Hey, I had an abortion in feb. And am
still "not over it", I did it for personal
reasons and medical reasons too...I don't
think about it every day, but when I do, I
get a little teary eyed....Its not easy
making the decision some of us women have
to make, but we make them for our own
reasons and thats what matters...If you
did what you felt was right than it's
okay...Everythign will get better..You
will never forget what happened, but I
think we will come to peace with our
decisions...At least I hope so...
Good luck
alys
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cherry88
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006 Posts: 633 Location: ,
Re: Getting Over It? Not As Easy As It Seems... Posted: 07-22-06 23:38pm
aphares23
wrote:
we make them for our own
reasons and thats what matters...If you
did what you felt was right than it's
okay...Everythign will get better..You
will never forget what happened, but I
think we will come to peace with our
decisions.
that is so true!!
Btw I didnt have a chance to see, but if
your new, welcome!
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sandyallen
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Aphares23 Posted: 07-23-06 12:15pm
I totally agree with you! My abortions
were mainly for medical reasons and I
still do not forget them, weather it be
medical or or otherwise I do not judge
them, I am not walking in their shoes, I
do not know what they are going through
and why but I feel they have or had their
reasons to abort at the time then that is
okay by me, I am here for them, I too am
hoping that everything will get better for
them and I too realize they will not
forget, just like myself and I too am
hoping that they will come to peace with
themselves just like I did. I realized
that it was not completely all of my fault
that sometimes things happen in life that
makes us a little bit stronger.
Welcome aphares23!!!
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daf
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2006 Posts: 1
Early Medical Abortion Posted: 09-05-06 07:06am
Over this weekend I aborted by "baby"
using the abortion pill. I am still in
shock as it was very similar to giving
birth, my water broke and I " delivered a
fetus that looked like a " baby " when I
contacted my clinic they explained that I
must have been further on in my pregnancy
than they had expected - they had given me
a scan to date the pregnancy and told me I
was six weeks and five days ( sounded so
acurate that I foolishly believed them,
even though this did not co- incide with
my dates I had thought I was two weeks
further on and had shared this with the
doctor who scanned me) a week and a half
later I terminated. But now I am left
distraught that I "killed my baby" I feel
that I will live with this guilt for the
rest of my life and as this was not the
first termination I have had it has made
me feel much worse about the other two.
Has any one else been through this
experience using the early medical
abortion pill? ( I am sorry if I have
upset any one with my discriptions but I
have tried to be as diplomatic as I can)
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-05-06 07:21am
Well, you obviously made the desicion to
abort for some reason, and you need to
remember that reason now that it is over.
Were your other two abortions medical, or
surgical? Perhaps medical was not the
best choice for you? Now that it I over,
there is nothing you can do, and
regretting it and feeling bad about having
doen it isn't going to help you. There
are places you can set up a shrine
(online) and there is even an japenese
shrine tradition, which translates as
"water baby" (implying children that have
died before their time, often through
drowning in the past, but also including
any child that has died). I'm sorry I
can't give you the japanese version of the
practice.
