Well almost 2 months ago (about 50 days) I had sex with a girl id met and we used protection except for a brief period we were without it (less than a minute). I never ejaculated if that matters. Anyways ive learned she has quite an extensive sex history and children to boot. This lead me to become worried I might have caught hiv or another std. I worried for about a week straight until I went and got the basic std test which looked for chlamydia/ghoneria and it came back negative. 3 weeks after that I started to have a pain on my testicle which progressively got worse and I was diagnosed with epididymitis and was given antibiotics to cure it. Now im back to non-stop worrying I might have something else. Yesterday I found my self itching my self more than usual and read that it could be symptom of herpes. I also I had some slight soreness in my groin and I fear it also another symptom. Im going to the Dr. Tuesday but im so afraid I have something its cutting into my everyday life. My friend tells me its all in my head and all my worrying is making me self-consicous or something like that. What should I do? Should I get herpes test?