Hi I was jsut wondering is there a such thing as too much sex? I asked my b/f and he said no but I need some advice from u guys I hear ppl ask this all the time but no one ever seems to know so the question remains is the there a such thing as too much sex?
As far as I am concerned there is. If you are having sex just to have it, it can get very old quickly. There needs to be time out of the bedroom (or where ever you are having sex) and then you need to spend alot of time building on your relationship.
If the relationship exsists only when having sex, it will fail and whomever is feeling like they were in love will be sorely surprised that the other person has little or no feelings for them because all the was built was a relationship of gratification.
Take a break away from sex and start talking, you will quickly know if there is any substance to your partners feelings for you.
I think the only time you can have too much sex is if you are trying for a baby because aint it supposed to do less? Like if you had it now and again your sperm would be stronger, my boyfriend keeps telling me we have it too much but I dont see it as a problem because we always do something different in different places positions and that. Also why not have it as much as you can you only live once :lol:
Divinity - spirm can't be stronger. If you want to have a baby you have lots of sex.
Toocrunk - if you just started having sex, like when we got married, we had sex like 3 times a day. Its normal. I would say its healthy as long as its the same person. You relationship will grow and change as you get older and you just have to be comfortably knowing that you won't have quite as much sex 7 years from now, but that your relationship is still healthy.
I beg to differ there, I watched a program on tv that said the sperm count was lower if you had sex more times through the day. Also it was supposed to be stronger in the morning on waking as the male has had more time to sleep.
What the hell anyway the tv lies all the time anyway im going to do my own bit of research into this on the net ill let you know if I come up with owt.
I hope to be having the same amount of sex in 7 years time the way my bf is I think we will if we are still together anyway.