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Q: All Alone In This

asked by: kezia333 on May 27th, 2006

Experienced User

I am 18 years old and I am pregnant. I have been in a love triangle thing for a while now and I am not sure what to do.

Ok, me and my fiance broke up a few months back and I began dating a friend of mine. We had sex like april 22, 2006. Anyway we broke up like a week later and me and my ex-fiance had sex. I missed my period at the beginning of may and I just recently found out that I was pregant. I guess it could be either one of theirs???. Anyway, the friend of mine moved just a week or so ago out of state, he called me today and was telling me about a new girlfriend and so I didn't bother to tell him that I am pregnant because me and him don't get along anymore. My ex-fiance, me and him still talk on a regular basis but we are not exactly back together and he has always told me if I got pregnant before marriage that he wants me to have an abortion. I don't know what to do or who to tell what???

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andrea robin

replied on May 27th, 2006

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Re: All Alone In This Whatever You Do, Donot Get An Abortion

What ever you do, donot get your child aborted. You will regret that decision for the rest of your life. No matter who the father is, this is a part of you. My sister-in law is three weeks pregnant and she saw her childs heartbeat. Are your parents understanding? I had a child out of wedlock twenty-three years ago and I have no regrets. Please keep your child. Im from texas too maybe I can help

kezia333 wrote:

i am 18 years old and I am pregnant. I have been in a love triangle thing for a while now and I am not sure what to do.

Ok, me and my fiance broke up a few months back and I began dating a friend of mine. We had sex like april 22, 2006. Anyway we broke up like a week later and me and my ex-fiance had sex. I missed my period at the beginning of may and I just recently found out that I was pregant. I guess it could be either one of theirs???. Anyway, the friend of mine moved just a week or so ago out of state, he called me today and was telling me about a new girlfriend and so I didn't bother to tell him that I am pregnant because me and him don't get along anymore. My ex-fiance, me and him still talk on a regular basis but we are not exactly back together and he has always told me if I got pregnant before marriage that he wants me to have an abortion. I don't know what to do or who to tell what???

pixie2007

replied on August 15th, 2006

New User

You need to do what is best for you. I would not advise you to have an abortion though because it can effect your emotions for a long time. Trust me, I know.....I'm pregnant and completely ecstatic about it! I'm totally a lone in this, but I just know this is the right thing to do. Once you start feeling the kicks you wonder how you could even pose the question of abortion. Don't let a guy tell you what you need to do. Unfortunately, we get ourselves into this, so it is up to us to make a moral decision. Do what your heart tells you to do!

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