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Q: Looseness Or Tightness
asked by: awkwarddepressed on May 25th, 2006
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Can someone explain to me what affects the looseness or tightness of a vagina? If ive never had sex with anyone else cuz I suck but my questions is, how can I tell if my girls vagina is loose? Should it totally squeeze my penis? How tight is tight?

If its loose does that mean that she has had sex with like a lot of guys?

I have a somewhat large penis (shes told me this) and im confused because one time she said that she couldnt feel it inside her and made a joke about my girth and later took it back.

Im confused.
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Mabel
replied on May 25th, 2006
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What does this matter? If you are having a good time (remember to always wear a condom!) then what is the difference?
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awkwarddepressed
replied on May 25th, 2006
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The difference is shes the one who brought it up, not me. I was wondering if that was her way of telling me that shes more used up than I thought.

Feels good to me, but what do I know since ive never had sex with anyone else.
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Mabel
replied on May 25th, 2006
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So if she is 'used up' are you finished with her? And would it change anything about your relationship?

If not, then I wouldn't worry about it. If it is an issue, talk to her about it.
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XxgfofavampiressxX
replied on September 2nd, 2006
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There's no such thing as a "tight" or "loose" vagina. The vagina is a muscle and there isnt any extensive stretching enough anywhere to stretch it out of place. I mean come one peoples...Babies come outta there. Penises are way smaller in width than a whole baby. If every woman in the nations's vagina was stretched outta control after they had a baby you would know about it. They would be going to plastic surgeons left and right. And i'm sure sex lives would be hell. Bottom line, you hear about it everywhere.

The "loose" effect is because she's well lubricated down there. Of course its gonna feel like nothing holds or sticks to the penis. If she feels "tight" its because she's dry. It all depends on wetness down there. If its a problem for you, dont be afraid to ask her to tighten her vagina muscles around you.

After all, it is a muscle and muscles can be tightened and toned. Lol as weird as that would sound for genitalia. There are certain exersizes she can do to strengthen her vagina muscles.

Hope this helped.
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singledad
replied on September 3rd, 2006
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The vaginal muscles often relax after orgasm - doesn't mean she's sleeping around, she might be masturbating. Vagina's, like penises, come in different sizes, and even a lot of sex should not have any permenent effects - in fact women who don't orgasm often enough are at risk of developing what is called "senile vagina" in their later years - orgasm causes spasms, which actually exercise this particular organ.



She might just be very large - if you feel like your experiences with her are satisfactory, you might consider learning to fist her if she's that loose - go very slowly, and I recommend researching it thoroughly - there is a remarkable range of articles on the subject on the internet, search vaginal dilation too - but generally, the techniques are similar to those found in the anal sex thread - and there is often even a tightening effect afterwards, so powerful can the resulting orgasmic spasms from this be.



I pretty much guarantee she'll quit health forum about how small your dick is.
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CaliforniaNurse
replied on October 5th, 2009
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Vaginas do too "stretch." Think about a woman who has had many children. It's not like it just pops back into pre-baby shape! That's why women have surgery to tighten things back up.
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