I've had one wisdom tooth pulled, upper right. I had to have it pulled, it was so painful I couldn't lie down let alone sleep it was so painful. I ended up in so much pain I had to go to A&E for painkillers.
The tooth was also black one side when it came through and came out sideways, pointing towards the outside of my mouth.
I had the wisdom tooth pulled a year ago at my usual dentist, when I was 27. Pulling the tooth did get rid of a lot of the pain. Honestly, it was the worst pain I have ever experienced. However shortly afterwards I appeared to develop TMJ. I have no diagnosis of this, but it sounds exactly like what is happening to me.
My TMJ is made much worse if I get wind blowing in my ear, it becomes excruciating then. But it will usually hurt for no good reason. It hurts like the tooth is still there, but it isn't. Sometimes I think the tooth is still there and I have to check. It hurts all the way through my top jaw, my front teeth, up the side of my face to the top of my scalp and all the way down my neck.
I also have all the cracking and pop on the right side and cannot open my mouth as far any more.
It's becoming more and more painful as time goes on, which is why I have found myself here!
Sometimes head massage helps, but only while I am doing it. The good effects are gone as soon as I stop. Sometimes painkillers help, sometimes they don't. NSAIDs help sometimes.
I have read sometimes this happens because part of the tooth gets left behind in the gum, but I actually asked to keep my wisdom tooth after it was pulled. I believe it is complete, there don't seem to be any breaks in it and it has the root. Unless it tapers off to a needle like point, I think she got the whole tooth out. The root is about the same length or slightly longer than the tooth.
When the tooth was extracted, I did hear cracking sounds in my ear, but I assumed this was just the tooth moving in the socket.
It has drastically changed the shape of my top jaw. where the tooth was pulled the jaw bone has changed from a rectangular shape to a triangle one. My molar teeth has started to be pushed together, they move a little further apart when the tooth was gone, but they are not making good use of the extra space.
I have been back to see my dentist. It was not helpful, all she could tell me was it was probably permanent. I asked her if I had nerve damage all she said was possibly.
I have had to second one come through on the other side. It is like a mirror image of the other tooth, pointing towards the outside of the other side of my mouth. It has it's painful moments, but nothing like the pain the other one caused me before it was pulled. In fact the side that has TMJ is often much more painful that the new wisdom tooth when it was on it's way out!
In hindsight, I regret having the tooth out. I wasn't warned when I had the tooth out about any of these side effects. The only thing I knew could happen was loss of feeling the in face and the only reason I knew that was because I looked it up on Wikipedia before I went. However it was so excessively painful I am really not sure what else I could have done.
I don't really have a way of avoiding this problem, but I would say, if you tooth isn't causing you massive amounts of disabling pain, I would really think twice about why you want it pulled, because you may not recover the way you expect to.