This is a bit of a long story but I am very distressed. I know I am not female but its about my x girlfriend. Basically, I have never had symptoms of anything, never had a reason to think I could have anything, and I had always used condoms, except with a girl who said she had been given the clear and it had split..So I hadnt been tested, silly I know....

Anyhow, me and my x gf got together about 3 months ago, we had unprotected sex every time, I assumed and had no idea I could have anything, hadnt been with anyone for a year and half either and she had been tested just before me, anyhow, she never came on her period..For 2 months...All pregnancy tests showed negative.. Yet she had other symptoms like lots of pain when urinating, and feeling sick, and abdominal pains...The doc thought this was systitis and it seemed to go away for a while so we thought nothing of it, assumed antibiotics had worked. Yet, still no period after 2 months.. By now I was starting to suspect, and get paranoid that she had something..

Anyhow, 3 days ago she went to to docs, negative pregnancy test again, yet the doctor seemed very worried and told her its possible she has pid (pelvic inflammation disease) and that it could be seriour, or something along those lines, and looking everything up, this is caused from chlamydia in most cases or an infection to start with!! So therefore she must of got something off me, and I feel awful about it, and also worried sick about damage to her.

First she has to have another proper pregnancy test and then an ultrasound to see what damage has been done to her reproductive system, its not comfirmed yet, ive warned her its possible I may of had something, but I feel awful and so sorry for her, and I feel like its all my fault.

It would of been 2 months she would of had it or just over, so I am and I am sure she is extremely scared of what damage this could of done to her, and also her future possibility of having children..I really wouldnt be able to forgive myself if me passing something on has caused this.

I am going to get tested this week but I seem to feel sure it must of been me, so lets assume for now I did cause this.

Has anyone else had pid, and is it a lot of cases that require an operation or it it usually after having it a lot longer then 2 months? I am worried sick about her, and I cant stop crucifying myself for it.