Need Some Advice On This! Posted: 05-22-06 08:08am
Well I am pregnant and i'm 23 weeks but I
stopped having sex with my boyfriend for a
while cause I was scared something was
wrong because when I got pregnant sex
started hurting really bad like it was my
first time and I go to the doctors this
tues. I'm gonna ask him about it but
first I just wanna know if anyone else
ever had the same problem. I don't know
if its just a pregnancy thing or what? I
just don't want anything to happen that
might hurt the baby thanx!!
Niccole
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Bridget
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Posted: 05-22-06 09:29am
You get tighter when you're pregnant so
that could be why it's hurting. We use a
lot of lube and it's fine. It's also
better if he gets me off before he even
starts, then I don't even notice it. If
he just goes in he has to go really slow
at first and I always say it feels like
the first time. So that could be why
you're uncomfortable but you should still
ask your doctor.
Thanks now I know i'm not the only one lol
but i'll still check with the doc.
Niccole
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 05-23-06 01:20am
Wow sounds like what im going threw lol..
Shawns complains about it too because I
dont want to have sex that often because
of it.. He's always thinking I dont like
him anymore till I explain it hurts now...
He understands which is good, he just
likes being annoying lol.. But I cant
wait till thats all in the past.. I want
to enjoy sex again!
Shane my boyfriend complains too but I
tell him it hurts me and he'll drop the
whole sex thing but an hour later hes
askin again..I think he understands but
just is having withdraws from no sex lol!!
Niccole
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mum???
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Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
Posted: 05-23-06 15:08pm
Me and my partner were told to stop sex
this time after miscarrying with my last
pregnancy...The sex did not cause the
miscarriage but it started the whole
bleeding process off when we had sex,its
because even when you are not
pregnant,woman have little "blood
noduals"up and in their cervix and when a
woman becomes pregnant those noduals come
further down,and when me and my partner
were having sex his penis was hitting them
and they were bleeding.So do be careful on
that front.But like I said thats not what
caused my miscarriage as I would have bled
and lost them any way.But obviously it
stressed us out when we saw that blood.
