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Q: Butterfly2006...............................................
asked by: mum??? on May 20th, 2006
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Hello i'm not sure if anyone knows a girl who deffinetly used to use this forum under the name butterfly2006,her real name is becky.Well I have been speaking with her through text message for a couple of days and something didnt strike me as right with her,i dont know what it is,however im now getting texts from her phone apparently being her boyfriend jason saying that she slipped into a diabetic coma and is now in hospital and that the future doesnt look that good for her.When I was talking to "him" through msn (her msn) he wouldnt let me ring "him" as "he" was saying that he couldnt find her phone even though it was supposed to be on charge,and even when he found the phone and texted me later on saying he went into see her as she is getting worse he still wouldnt answer,so I left a message,and phoned again straight after and it went to the voice mail,meaning someone was listening to the message I had left,(by now im thinking very dodgy)so I phone again and again no answer.What do u all think about this,is this girl having me on because im starting to feel very guilty as I told her at 4this morning when "whoever" rang and woke me up telling me she was in a coma to grow up...I seriously do not need this if its all not true,as im feeling the morning sickness myself and im so tired.Sorry for rambling I just dont no what to do...Does any one know her????Dont get me wrong if it is all true I hope to god she is alright,thanks,jadexxxx
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HcoBrunette06
replied on May 20th, 2006
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I remember her, she was weird.

Its probably a lie, this girl seemed to want attention from the get go.
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mum???
replied on May 20th, 2006
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I just do not know what the doing it hell to think,i mean I hope to god she is lieing because I wouldnt wish that on anyone,but I can usualy see straight through people and I just dont no what to do,i hardly know her..."her boyfriend" told me that she didnt take her injection on purpose as she thinks she might be pregnant and it would harm the baby and yet after she slipped into this coma her bf found a note saying she was unhappy and to phone/text (i dnt no) me and tell me what happened,i mean I hardly know her,we have deff never met and we were only talking on and off for a day,seriously what does everyone else think as im slightly going mad,thanks hc0brunnette for getting back to me so quick,i just know im going to get a bloody text telling me shes dead.Jade.
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HcoBrunette06
replied on May 20th, 2006
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Yeah when she was here she was saying she got raped and that she thought she might be pregnant and that if she was she was going to have an abortion.

Then her "friend" got on this forum and started defending her saying that she couldnt carry this baby because if she did shed kill herself and blah blah blah.

Whoever this is, is a freak. I do not believe this whole text messaging thing, that just seems suspecious to me. I wouldn't believe it.
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yellow ribbon
replied on May 20th, 2006
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I dont remember her but she sounds like a total liar
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mum???
replied on May 22nd, 2006
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Yeah im still getting txts saying shes in hospital and has stopped breathing,and whenever I say "right im gonna call whoever this is" ,they dont answer or they say "no I dont have to prove anything to you"and im like well stop txting me then and waking me up everynight at 4in the morning,seriously she rings like four times throughout the night and wen I answer she hangs up.I cam not switch my phone off as my grandad has a pace maker and sometimes my nan needs help with him so she knows she can ring my mobile and then I can tell my mum and partner.So wen she is ringing I wake with such a start as I think theres something rong with him and im not sleeping as for some reason this pregnancy is not letting me rest.She is a very wicked wierdo.
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Melissa_20
replied on May 22nd, 2006
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Hmmm.I would get your # changed,she sounds like weirdo.
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hunterjumper
replied on May 22nd, 2006
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It sounds fake to me.


I've known a couple diabetics who took insulin. It's obviously never a great idea to miss your injections but it's not going to put you in a coma to miss one.

Not taking it because she's pregnant? I guess she's never heard of gestational diabetes? Pregnant women can take insulin. I don't know how far along she was supposed to be, but if she had had even one doctors appointment they would have councilled her on how to manage her diabetes while pregnant.


If it was as serious as the "boyfriend" says it is, why he's texting this girl's online friends I don't know. If that was me, I know my partner would be by my side and with my family and our son....Not texting my online friends even if from the hospital. "she's not breathing?" yeah, total cry for attention. If someone you loved was in a coma and on death's door, would you be thinking of playing around with your cellphone?

"i have nothing to prove" pretty much a 100% guarantee that she's fake. It really means "i'm fake but don't call because I can't answer or you'll know i'm fake."

if you know what city she's from, I would call the hospital and ask to talk to her/leave a message (some hospitals won't let you talk to patients). See if she's even a patient.
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Melissa_20
replied on May 22nd, 2006
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She's right,all the signs are there.All I can say is what a retard!
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Mabel
replied on May 22nd, 2006
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This sounds very hokey. Why even answer or attempt to call him/her anymore?

(and you know they are reading this too, right? Okay, you are giving them the reaction they want while they laugh their (her?) asses off!)

leave it alone and they'll leave you alone. Either that, or threaten them with harrassment. That always works too.
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mum???
replied on May 23rd, 2006
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Its funny ingi as thats what I last said,i said that I could hand her number into the police any time and then it stopped,she is a complete wierdo,as yesterday about 2days after being in a critical coma and having stopped breathing she appears on her msn,and saying it was her and they let her go home.Yeah right.As before my pregnancy I was going through my training as a dog trainer for the police,i think im going to have a word.Its just ashame I cant make arrests yet.Damn.Jade.
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