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Q: Please Help!

asked by: C-Maximus on May 18th, 2006

New User

Hello guys! I'm new to this forum, and I really need some help so I thought i'd come here for advice.. A couple of days ago (maybe 3-4) a friend of mine came over (a female friend) and we decided to fool around. This eventually led to sex, and I did not wear a condom. However we only had sex for about 10 minutes (at the most) and I did not ejaculate in her. I was no where close. And on top of that, we'd have sex for about 3 mins and then we'd switch positions. Afterwards she gave me a blowjob. She told me she didn't want me to ejaculate on her face, so I masturbated and I finally ejaculated (on her breasts). The next day she took the morning after pill and is expecting her period sometime within the next week.

I am totally freaking out, and this is stressing my life so doing it much (sorry for the cursing). I am so scared it's not even funny. Honestly, I cant even sleep sometimes, and I can feel the damn stress! I'm only 16, and I do not want to ruin my life. I know it was stupid and really ignorant, but it happened.

I'm also concerned about std's. I'v been stressing over this a lot as well. From what I know she isn't the type to sleep with a million guys, however I do not know for sure. I do not have any cuts on my penis (not that I can see or know of anyways) and we didn't have sex for a long time. I am worrying sooooooo much, I can't even come to terms with my self sometimes.

Guys! Pleeeeeeeeease help, and give me all the advice you can! Am I worrying over nothing, or do I actually have something to stress over? Do I have aids/hiv? Is she pregnant? It would take such a heavy load of my chest if everything was ok. So please guys, let me know what's up!

Thank you in advance,
god bless!

Replies(13)

HcoBrunette06

replied on May 18th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

First always wear a condom when you're having sex!!!

We're not doctors, so we have no way of knowing if shes pregnant, or if you have any stds. Go to the doctor and get tested.

I highly doubt shes pregnant if you didn't cum in her, and if she took the morning after pill.

doubtful

replied on May 18th, 2006

Experienced User

If she took the morning after pill she probably won't get pregnant. At least she was responsible enough to do that. Why the heck wouldn't you have been responsible on your part if you were going to end up freaking out like this now. As for std's and hiv... Its all very possible, however you won't know for sure about any of it for *at least* a couple weeks. As in symptoms of a std. If your still freaking out about it all in a month or so... Go get tested!!!! Thats the only thing you can do. Ooooh, and .W.E.A.R. .A. .C.O.N.D.O.M. Next time....

C-Maximus

replied on May 18th, 2006

New User

Thnx guys.. But really I didnt want to have sex.. She kept asking me/pressuring me to have sex with her. But thanks! Really helps....

P.S- are hiv tests 100 % positive always? And if she does get her period does that mean that she isn't pregnant 100 %?

Lil_Mamiita

replied on May 18th, 2006

New User

C o n d o m s
this is what they are made for.. To make sure you dont get std/hiv.. Any ways. Its very doubtful that she got preggy. You dident cum inside of her and as well you barley had enough time to pre cum unless she was really tight. Oh well, let us know how you make out and if you need any extra help. Just let me know = ) tc

-b

C-Maximus

replied on May 18th, 2006

New User

Are hiv tests 100 % positive always? Do they always tell the truth? And if she does get her period does that mean that she isn't pregnant 100 %?

Lil_Mamiita

replied on May 18th, 2006

New User

Hiv tests are 100 % correct .. Always.. Yes they always tell the truth.. Make sure you get it from a doctor and not someone claming they sell at home tests.. When she gets her period, she will be fine. Im sure she isent preggy. Dont stress too much bud.. Good luckk..

B

feel free to pm me any time you need help. Im here to help ya if ya need it.

Mabel

replied on May 18th, 2006

Moderator

First off, you didn't need to go quite into the detail of the *um* act. It doesn't matter that you came on her face. We don't really care.

Second of all, there are other things to be concerned about besides .H.I.V, you know. Like warts and herpes, these are just a few of the sexually transmitted diseases that don't ever go away.

If you are 'man' enough to have sex, then be man enough to wear a condom. And i'm not buying that 'forced into it' crap.

If she took the morning after pill, she is not pregnant. You need to relax. Go to planned parenthood and get yourself a handful of rubbers.

C-Maximus

replied on May 18th, 2006

New User

Thank you. Much appriciated.. I was only letting you know about the detail, so it could be easier for you guys to reply back to me with the most precise answer. But sorry. Didn't know...

Kia

replied on May 19th, 2006

Supporter

It is considered rude on the internet to "shout" - ie using all caps or all bold

Lil_Mamiita

replied on May 20th, 2006

New User

Alright guys.
Lets not be rude to the kid,
he came here for answers.
I mean, he came to me and we
talked on messanger. He got the
answers he needed. End of discussion
this board is now done with. Thanks
though for all of your answers in helping him
but please d.O.N.T jude others.. Please look
at your own mistakes before judging others
mistakes.
= )
fht forever!
Lol
-b

HcoBrunette06

replied on May 20th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

We aren't being rude, just telling him if hes gonna have sex he needs to be smart enough to wear some protection!!! K thanks =)

Bridget

replied on May 20th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

lil_mamiita wrote:

you dident cum inside of her and as well you barley had enough time to pre cum unless she was really tight.

they had sex for 10 minutes. That's plenty of time for pre-cum to make an appearance.

Bridget

replied on May 20th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

lil_mamiita wrote:

hiv tests are 100 % correct .. Always..

now i've never had an hiv test but I thought you tested and if that came back negative you were to go back 6 months later to retest as it could take a while to show up in your system. I don't know for sure but I think i'm right.

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