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Last Few Days And Getting Seriously Depressed...
Posted: 05-18-06 08:25am
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Intellectually I know that I am in the
last few days of my pregnancy (i am due
the 24th of may) but right now I feel like
I have been and am going to be pregnant
forever. Every night that I crawl into
bed still pregnant makes me just a little
bit more depressed. I don't want to get
out of bed in the morning. I don't want
to work. I'm tired, achy, heavy and
mean. I have had false labor quite a few
times in the past week or two and each
time that it stops I just start crying
uncontrollably. I know it's not possible
but i'm beginning to believe that i'm
going to be some kind of medical freak
show and be pregnant forever. This so
sucks!!! All day long I just want to
sleep and cry and i'm starting to get
scared because if i'm depressed now before
the baby is even here how much worse will
I be once he's born? I wish there was
some way I could get this baby to come
tonight!! I am so sick of being
pregnant. I hate the way I look and the
way I feel. I don't even act like my old
self anymore... Sorry for the whiny crap
but I seriously don't think that I can
take another day of being pregnant. I'm
ready to call my doctor and beg her to
induce labor for mental health reasons!!
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-18-06 09:12am
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You're still working????? Crazy. This
feeling is normal end of the pregnancy
road feeling. Skoot's gonna be here
before you know it and you're gonna wish
she was back in!!! Lmao
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-18-06 09:40am
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | | you're still working?????
Crazy. This feeling is normal end of
the pregnancy road feeling. Skoot's
gonna be here before you know it and
you're gonna wish she was back in!!!
Lmao |
i sincerely hope that you're right because
I really can't take another day of this.
My sil already had her baby and she's due
after me. I can't stop crying i'm
so sick of being pregnant. I'm so
depressed once I get home I don't bother
to do anything but sit on the couch and
make my husband bring me glass after glass
of water and juice. I just want this to
be over. If it takes another week i'm
scared that i'll do something stupid and
won't be able to stop myself. Like quit
my job because I can't go in another
morning like this. Or camp out in the
doctors office chained to her desk until
she agrees to induce my labor. Life
sucks. But if you say it's normal to
feel this way i'll try to believe you.
~* trying to smile but crying instead *~.
I've got a big audit coming up at my job
and I can't even motivate enough to do the
work for it, even though my job actually
depends on it because i'm at the point
when I don't care.
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Posted: 05-18-06 09:48am
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Awww honey..I'm sooo sorry that you're
feeling this way!! I'm feeling depressed
myself, but it's not because i'm preggy!
Lol...
Hang in there girl!! Like blaze said,
you'll be wishing he was back in when he
won't stop screaming!!!!
Are you gonna circumcise him?? When, or
if, I have a little boy, I don't think I
will.
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-18-06 11:38am
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I'm still not sure (about circumcision).
I really don't want to but everyone in my
family keeps telling me that it's wrong
not to for religious reasons.
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Posted: 05-18-06 11:57am
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Oops meant he not she. Sorry
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tigresacanela24
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 05-18-06 13:13pm
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | i'm still not sure (about
circumcision). I really don't want to
but everyone in my family keeps telling me
that it's wrong not to for religious
reasons. |
i don't beleive in it either. I think
it's unnecessary pain. They do just fine
with foreskin. But hey...Do what you feel
is right. I'm almost sure that there's a
bunch of websites that will tell you the
pro's and cons!!!
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-19-06 09:05am
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I really don't want to so I think that I
won't. It just seems a little cruel.
And in the .New .Testament paul says that
it doesn't matter whether or not you are
circumcised in the flesh it's more
important to be circumcised in the spirit.
Besides my nephew (who's 1 1/2 now) had
one and they botched it. It's only
halfway done. *shudder* i'd be super
po'd if they botched my little
m&m's.
Edited for sp
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Posted: 05-19-06 12:02pm
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I didn't get trey done for a couple of
resons.
1. They botched my friend's son's and it
was nasty!!!!
2. I watched the video of what they do
and it was nasty!!!!
3. Trey's dad is not done and I figured
once he starts potty training it would be
easier if him and daddy looked the same.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-19-06 12:46pm
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Our reasons #1 and #3 are about the
same....I never saw a video but I read
about what they do and it sounds cruel.
I don't think I could do that to my son.
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Posted: 05-19-06 13:18pm
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I am glad that I don't have to think about
that right now.
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Posted: 05-19-06 13:44pm
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The reasons I had my son circumcised:
1. The difference factor. It would be
less so now, since this is more of an
option than when I had him. But I feared
him being 'different' and how i'd explain
it.
2. My very good friend's son had his
foreskin shrink and he refused to use the
bathroom to potty because pulling back the
foreskin hurt. He had to soak in a warm
tub before using the bathroom. It was
awful.
3. A good male friend of mine was
uncirced until he was a teenager. Due to
an infection he had to have it done and he
said it was terribly painful - especially
having sex afterwards. He did, in fact
rip it open and it was an excrutiating
'fix'.
4. My mom is a nurse in the emergency
room and has seen many men come in from
nursing homes who have to have it done due
to hygeine issues.
I'm not saying it is the right or wrong
choice. I may make a different decision
if/when I have another boy. But that was
why I made the decision I made.
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Posted: 05-19-06 15:17pm
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Insureance doesn't pay for it anymore so
it's out of pocket pay and that is why a
lot of people aren't having it done.
It's not medicly nessisary anymore.
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Posted: 05-19-06 16:15pm
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Ingi, I to am a .R.N. And have worked all
over the hospital, I agree with your .Mom,
when you are born, you do not remember it
being done like you would remember it when
you are older and having it done, even
though it is the families choice, their
can come a time where a man cannot take
care of himself as well as he used to and
he can end up with a lot of infections
from not being cleaned properly and a lot
of assistants are not trained properly or
do not have a lot of time to do it
properly. When I found out I was having a
son a long time ago, I said to do it, even
if I did have to pay for it, when I worked
in labor and del., I recommended it also
even though I explained to the couple that
it was there choice. I guess I have
faith in my drs as it shoud not be that
big of a deal to botch something up like
that and I would rather have it done
earlier than later but it is different for
everyone!
The best to you whatever you decide!
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Tigrescanela24
Posted: 05-19-06 16:53pm
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I am sooo sorry you are going through
depression and all and not getting much
time off @ work, that is icky! Maybe you
can have the baby @ work, that will be one
day less lost, I just do not understand
why your dr will not write you a note
saying that you need to be off a couple
more weeks due to the delivery, too bad
tour boss does not have a baby, maybe he
would understand, having a baby is not
easy but going thriugh all if the work
baloney, I hope you do not have to go back
there and can stay at home with your baby
longer. I do wish you the best, I do
understaand what it is like to work up to
your due date, it is depressing as you
can't sit as it hurts to sit to long and
it hurts to walk as your whole body
including feet and hands feel swollen and
all you want to do is come home and go to
bed ir get in your recliner and rest but
your mind and body will not let you but
you have a right to vent all you want, we
are here for you!
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tigresacanela24
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Re: Tigrescanela24
Posted: 05-20-06 12:12pm
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| sandyallen
wrote: | | i am sooo sorry you are
going through depression and all and not
getting much time off @ work, that is
icky! Maybe you can have the baby @
work, that will be one day less lost, I
just do not understand why your dr will
not write you a note saying that you need
to be off a couple more weeks due to the
delivery, too bad tour boss does not have
a baby, maybe he would understand, having
a baby is not easy but going thriugh all
if the work baloney, I hope you do not
have to go back there and can stay at home
with your baby longer. I do wish you
the best, I do understaand what it is like
to work up to your due date, it is
depressing as you can't sit as it hurts to
sit to long and it hurts to walk as your
whole body including feet and hands feel
swollen and all you want to do is come
home and go to bed ir get in your recliner
and rest but your mind and body will not
let you but you have a right to vent all
you want, we are here for
you! |
my boss is a woman, she has two kids.
The decision isn't up to her though, our
hr dept regulates leave time. She has
no authority to grant leave. My doctor
will write me out at whatever I ask her
to, it's just that after four weeks if I
am unable to return to my job, I will be
fired because I do not qualify for any
more time than the four weeks.
I'm hoping that the baby will come
tomorrow so I can stop working!!! :lol:
everyone send me labor dust!! I darn
sure don't want to go into the office on
monday!
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Posted: 05-20-06 17:50pm
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~*~*~**~*~*~*~*l.A.B.O.R
.D.U.S.T~*~*~*~*~**~*~
sarah
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Posted: 05-20-06 17:52pm
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | i didn't get trey done for a
couple of resons.
1. They botched my friend's son's and it
was nasty!!!!
2. I watched the video of what they do
and it was nasty!!!!
3. Trey's dad is not done and I figured
once he starts potty training it would be
easier if him and daddy looked the
same. |
i agree totally with all 3!!! My .Fiance
isn't circumcised and he has had no
problem with infection.... I love it not
being circumcised, it's so much more
natural!!
I don't know what's up with me and
naturality...Just something I firmly
believe in!!!
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-22-06 06:51am
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Well he didn't come this weekend and
unfortunately i'm at work again today. I
probably won't be answering too many
posts. I don't really even want to be
here. I am in the discomfort of my life.
I thought I was uncomfortable before but
this is that pain times three. My back
feels like it's broken, so do my legs and
I can't catch my breath to save my life.
If the pain goes away, i'll check back
later. Thanks to everyone that sent me
labor dust. Too bad it didn't work.
:lol:
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