I have battled the same questions you have for a year or so now. April 05' me and my fiance broke up. We had been together a long time and I was so broken hearted. I couldn't get out of bed for months. I have come to realize that sometimes love gets in the way of making rational choices for our lives. My ex gave me a really hard time sometimes, and I know that its been a year and I should move on but love stops me. I have the fear that I will never find love again if I give up on him. I have never had feelings for anyone else like I do for him. True love to me is someone you can absolutly not live without, and I dont mean just for a year or so but someone that you can never let go enough to be with anyone else. Love is a tricky thing and it is impossible ot understand. I do know that if the person you are with does not love you as much as you love them and if you put much more into the relationship then they do it is not true love. True love is equal in all things. I believe in the saying "if you love someone let them go if they want to be free and if they come back its meant to be". Sometimes to get the answers we want we must take the hard way out and that means leaving sometimes. I dont know if what I have said makes sence but just play it by ear and try not to force anything, give it time and be patient and that is usually all we can do. Hope that helps

" if you love someone set them free if they come back their yours if they dont they never was" basicly let him go break up with him if he calls or comes back in any way he is yours and if he does not let him go. Also tell him that you need a break apart to see if things work out and that you love him but you need time to think!!! I may be only 17 but I had to do this and for me it worked out for the better... \\\
i hope that it goes the dame way with you!!!
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Trust me, be there recently, and one thing I learned when you know you have the right one you will know. My husband and I have been married for a year. And at the time I was not in the mood to be dating anyone..Love at that time was sitting on the back door step. When I found the one I love, I wasnt looking for it, it just happened. There is a connection that you cant stop, rewind, or fast forward..As much as I tried to avoid him getting close to me at all, he did. When I didnt want to talk to him sometimes he left great messages that would make me call him back. Everytime we were around each other, just looking at him set me on fire..I found myself going to the bathroom running cold water and patting myself down just to cool off.. But once I started to work on myself and the thing I wanted from a man, I found him. And we were best friends in high school, then 8 yrs later we were reunited and married the next year. So I say to you have fun, and date a least a year. If you still feel the same way, he will too...And dont be to quick to have sex with a man in the beginning..Bait him a little bit to see if this is what you want..Men sometime judge women who are quick to jump in the sack..If you are a good girl, you will make him wait awhile.. And if he is persiant with sex then you know that is all he is about. If he wants to get to who you really are then be friends and let things lead up to a relationship..

if you feel that you are more in love with your significant other than he/she is with you, then i'd say, you need to let go and date some other people.


If your significant other is not treating you with respect or is not genuinely thoughtful of your needs, then no matter how much you love them, you have to let go of them.


And hope dearly that you will one day get over the pain and love you feel for them. You shouldn't be with someone you don't trust.

I believe in obsession and adoration more than I believe in love. I believe that people mistake the feelings of adoration and obsession with love. I don't even know if "love" is a word that should ever apply to romantic relationships. I think people should use words other than "love" to describe their strong feelings about someone they're with.

To me. You never lose the love you once had for someon but their are times that it does not grow but to me a relationship is more about respect than anything else as that is what we generally lose for one another.
The best to all!

What if someone has too much respect and principles that what they are doing for the best isn`t really for the best? You love them and know your meant to be, so I don`t think I could set him free and if its right its meant to be, as much as I believe in this saying its too hard to put it into practice when its your own situation.

the way you can tell if its over.If you have done everything in your power to make it work and can no longer do anything, its over.You both have to be willing to work out your problems.Yes there will be fights but until it gets to the point where you think its getting rediculous you should know. Love and caring go hand in hand so you really can't separate the 2

The only thing I can say is in my situation everyone has a different opinion on when things are over but you just know in your heart when things are done. My ex, I thought he was special but it wasn`t until the guy after him came along that I realised what love was.