notinmyhead - at 36 I dragged my husband into my doctors office and demanded a hysterectomy. I had been diagnosised w/endo 2 yrs earlier via lapro. Had 1 good year - then went to hell in handbasket. Funny - with my hubby there, doc had no problem agreeing with me! My emotions are sometimes my worst enemy when dealing w/Drs. 11 years since my hysterectomy (at 36), and in the past 3 yrs I have been diagnosised w/Meniere's disease and fibromyalgia. First 8 1/2 yrs were bliss, I had stage 4, and found relief. Was on HRT for the first six months or so, then came the big scare, so my doctor took me off that and put me on the ESTRING. Except for having to go into the Dr.'s office every three months to have it changed, it was great, and I thought 'the girls' were safer. Then last summer I ended up in the ER w/pain in my lower right abdomen - thought it was my appendix, but almost fell off the gurney when the attending Dr. said appendix was fine, it could be a recurrence of the endo. Had Estring removed immediately, even though my Dr. says recurrance would be extremely rare, and will not use anything else with estrogen, even though I know it may cause other issues. I've always been active, but can barely find the energy to get out of bed some days. I made the right choice, though it's not for everyone. Just wish I had known more back then. What I have learned in the meantime is you have to be your own advocate, and trust your instincts - kinda don't take NO for an answer, and let your dr. know it, yeah - you are probably somewhat depressed - hell - he/she'd be too if they were living with what you are living with, pain will do that to us!The pain is running you down, not the other way around. It is NOT in our heads - it's everywhere else!
Best of Luck!