no, just super stupid. Women like you make fundies want to control our bodies. Get your shit together and stop sleeping around with any tom, penis or harry that you meet at the bar. Your son's need a role model to look up to... Not a prostitute than shows them no respect for themselves. Get the abortion and stop having sex.
this needs to be edited right now for abusive language and also for stupidity. She said she used protection ever time. Guess you missed that part because you couldn't insult her that way, huh?
As for a desicion... You are in a very hard place. If you feel that your job and your lifestyle right now cannot support another child, then if it were me, I would consider abortion as an option. However, I can also understand the pain you're going through emotionally, because you've kept your three previous sons. I think a serious look-through of your finances for the next several years, how well you will be able to care for the 3 current children, anything you can do to help support the extra child, etc... Is in order.
|i hope you do not feel that I was bashing you because I would not as I said lolba(whatever) had no right to say what she did as tis is a support forum. I am not a dr but I do believe that you can abort later than 8 weeks especially after you have had all of the problems with prior pregnancy's they might evenbe able to put it down as a medical abortion but that ia up to the Dr. I too have had a lot of trouble with my pregnancy's, I had 2 m/c, 2need be medical abortion one, I was kicked soo bad in the stomach at 5 and 1/2 months pregnant by my husband at the time so I too have had some rocky relationships, I was fortunate enough to have 2 great adult children now that are grown and on their own and they are doing great and I was older and I had my rough times too but two was difficult enough, I couldn't imagine 3 or 4 although their were times that their were that many at the house in between their friends and me being a social worker I sometimes ended up bringing some of them to our house for a while.
No, I am totally pro-choice, I am not walking in your shoes and I have no right to judge you and like I said before, you must do what you feel is right although eiri does have her points, you aare the one that must decide. If you do get an aabortion, I do hope you get the counceling that goes along with it. I am her for you! Ignore those that are judgemental here. Don't give up completely, the right guy will come along.
The best to you and your three sons!
|hello, I hope you receive this message.
8 years ago I contemplated abortion as I wasn't in a secure relationship and I was still living at home with my mum and dad, I was 20 years old.
I am so glad I didn't have an abortion as my little boy named nicholas is so wonderful and intelligent and compassionate. I can't believe that I even thought about ending his life. Please think about how abortion is in fact a killing of a child, that is isn't just a simple procedure. That is what the abortionists want you to think, that it is a simple straight forward procedure. I have been on many forums and websites and it is clear that the effects of "the procedure" last a lifetime, depression, health problems etc. Please think about the precious child growing inside you.
|i hope you have considered all of your options hun...There isn't only abortion out there...There is always adoption. !00's of great couples who can't have children on their own and what a huge gift you would be giving them. I'm not trying to push you in any way...I just want to be sure you know all of your options.|
just thought i'd let you know what happened..
I went to my scan, but they couldn't find any sign of pregnancy, I had blood tests taken, and was sent home.. Saying that I must only be about 4 weeks pregnant and too early to see anything?
Then 3 hours later.. I get called back up, and the doctor wants me to return to the hospital, they wanted to perform another scan to see if I was having an eptopic pregnancy.. They were going to do surgery.. Thankfully becuase I had eaten something they couldn't operate till morning and another doctor re-scanned me to see if she could find the pregnancy before going through with surgery..
They found the pregnancy, it wasn't in my falopian tubes.. But she said it didn't look right??
They took more blood tests and then they found out the problem..
On may 11th, my progesterone levels were 40 something.. And my hcg levels were 211.. And every 2 days your hcg levels are meant to double and progesterone levels increase too..
On may 15th my levels were progesterone 30 and hcg 477
and today my progesterone were 20.1 and hcg 400 my pregnancy is failing and I am having a miscarriage.. But with no bleeding!!
I asked if they could terminate the pregnancy as I wasn't planning on keeping the baby anyway, and they said that now I was having a failed pregnancy, they couldn't perform a termination until my progesterone levels were under 20 (so .2 to go) and they want to wait to see if it passes naturally.. Which ever way I am looking at it.. This baby wasn't ever meant to be, so thankfully it was taking the decision out of my hnds and I now no longer feel guilt for wanting to terminate.
I have to go back in 7 days time for another scan, and more blood tests, if my levels are still going down, and they pregnancy is still there we will discuss surgery to remove the pregnancy then.
I did tell the father, he was very supportive, and before I even knew this was a failed pregnancy we both agreed that getting rid of the baby was the best thing to do, for both our son's and the fact that we were no longer together.. We hve become close again, and i'm glad were on talking terms, as although we are no loonger together, its nice for us to be able to go through this hard time with each others support..
I am in incredible pain and have been on bed rest for the last 2 days.. So I think the miscarrige is iminant.. A painfull process.. I have also got an infection in my kidneys, which isn't helping the pain either!! But at least the end is near.. And the guilt and morality issues have been taken off my shoulders. I will post again next week and let you know the outcome of my next scan and blood tests, thank you for the support you have shown me, and the (loud mouth edited lolbahlolbah147) I am glad I missed whatever you posted.. And it was edited before I got to read whatever it was.. As life is hard enough and to be bashed online, when all people want is support, is a very nasty thing to do, and to be so sad that you have to insult and abuse online, must mean you have a very unfulfilling and lonely existance. I pity you.. You should have more respect..
maybe you should focus on what is missing in your life that you feel the need to fuck every tom, penis and harry. Focus on your kids, not your !**@!. You are the reason anti choicers like diamond splinter want to make abortion illegal.