How Will I Reach Orgasm?pls Help!

He isn't going to be able to help until you tell him the truth...Faking it is the worst thing you could do. Get some books about sex a sexual play and read then with him...Then talk and do. You can both only be as good as a lover as you learn to be.

My partner and I have had sex a number of times and both are having problems with orgasm. We enjoy sex so why are we not able to have an orgasm?
For him is it because he is not interested in me enough or maybe because he drinks way to much?

onthemoove, drinking is a downer. i was drunk and i thought sex would be great,but actually my body was so relaxed that it was very hard to enjoy it. its like taking a muscle relaxer and having sex, when all your sex organs are asleep.
i havnt had an orgasm until i was 25 y.o and i 32
the majority of guys dont invest in foreplay, they just get straight to it. and they never really listened to what really turns me on.
my current boyfriend is a pleaser, he's a freak and into foreplay, he cums fast but he pleases me first and uses pull out techniques to make the sex last a long time. so we found out what works for us, you have to find out what will work for you.
younghealthy,
you have to know what turns you on, so you can relay that to your boyfreind. you have to talk to him and tell him you want to have sex in different positons, b/c they come with different feelings. for example our favorite is doggy style, and riding. he sometimes love to put my legs on his shoulders. put my partner knows what i like and how to turn me on. he knows if were standing kissing that rubbing my butt will turn me on. i cant stand anyone touching my breast, they have no feelings. but he is completely focused on me during sex. some guys arent like that.