Joined: 02 May 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Sth Australia
Depressed & Lonely Posted: 05-12-06 06:55am
Im a single mother of 2, I am 31 years of
age and so lonely. Not sure where to go
for advise or who to talk to. Im not an
ugly or unattractive person so its not
like I cant find a partner, ive been asked
out by guys, but im scared to commit
because of other awful relationships ive
been in. I can never seem to find a
decent guy who will treat me some respect
and always end up just being hurt. Is
anyone else in the same position ??
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maggiek
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 May 2006 Posts: 40 Location: canada
Positivity Posted: 05-14-06 13:34pm
Hi,
i read your post and I thought to myself
that at least you look at yourself in a
positive way, saying that you are not
unattractive. I wouldn't be able to say
that about myself!! Life can feel really
tough sometimes and feelings of depression
are high. When I feel depressed I always
try to think of somthing positive to bring
me out of it.
As for finding a guy, I would say that if
you look to hard it won't happen, but just
let it happen, think positve and positive
things will happen for you believe me.
You sound as though life has been rough
with you, and at times it can be hard to
figure out what positive things you have
in your life, but please be positive and
believe in yourself. I know this sounds
really naff but it does work! Maggie
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s_u_z_ii
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Sth Australia
Thankyou ! Posted: 05-17-06 21:44pm
Thanks so much maggie for your reply. U
have no idea how nice it was to have such
a positive and supportive response.
Thankyou again. Regards, suzi
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GreenPeace
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 2 Location: San Andres Iland
For Suzii Posted: 05-18-06 04:39am
There's a great amount of people that have
been through this face. Depression
doesn't come from been ugly, or not having
enought money etc... It comes from not
having the quality of life you want or you
think you deserve at this moment and
feeling kind of empty at some point. Even
people that are famous or rich and
supossely have it all, a lot of them
suffer from depression. I my self, have
experience this emotion and I know it is
very hard to control sometimes and we
become very sensitive and anything can
hurt us. I wasn't this depress person
untill I went to a foreing country where I
didn't know anyone and eather speak the
language so I kept in home by my self
often just thinking negative.
So what we must do suzii is to make a
plan, change prospective and think... "so
what i'm a going to do about it now"
instead of "dear me, why is this
happening to me?" I know that's the 1st
thing in ur head, to feel sorry and pity
for yourself, I been there!... But we
must over come the obstacules and find a
solution, star acting in our favor, so
good luck suzii.
Colombian girl
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kim121
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2006 Posts: 9 Location: northumberland
Posted: 05-19-06 08:09am
Hi, don't think you have to be the one
doing the searching... I'm sure you are a
special person & have lots to give to
a partner, let them be lucky enough to
find you! Hows your social life... Do
you get out & about enough to meet new
people! People do get hurt in
relationships... You will have to kiss
many frogs before you find your prince...
But thats the way it goes so don't put
yourself down & wonder 'why' your not
finding anyone! It will happen, just
keep being yourself! Xxx
