Well, my problem can be specified in one
word "me"!!
I have had many boy friends during my
life, I am 24 yrs now, and I am alone..The
problem is that me the one who always end
the relation, by just leaving the victim
"boy" and went away, or treating him in
such a very bad way that makes him hate me
and force him to leave me.
I felt very broken and alone each time I
end a relation.. But I finally realize
that the problem lies on me.
I dunno what to do, I would like to have a
boyfriend, fall in love, get married and
have a children, like any other girlz...
Lately, I become very awful in dealing
with guyz who flirt with me... Each time
anyone tries to flirt with me, or tries to
have a date with me,,,, I become very
aggressive and treat him very bad.
Am I crazy?
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Kensf2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 May 2006 Posts: 7 Location: Glasgow
Posted: 05-11-06 14:16pm
Your not crazy.
I'm the same. When ever a girl shows any
interest in me these days I just cant take
it. I used to be really good with girls
back in school but then one day I just
lost all my confidence and now I usually
just try and ignore them when they start
showing any interest in me. But i'm
afraid I cant really help you because we
seem to be in the same situation and I
have been for some time now. At least I
konw its not just me it happens to.
Someone should help us out.
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Posted: 11-03-06 12:29pm
kensf2
wrote:
your not crazy.
I'm the same. When ever a girl shows
any interest in me these days I just cant
take it. I used to be really good with
girls back in school but then one day I
just lost all my confidence and now I
usually just try and ignore them when they
start showing any interest in me. But
i'm afraid I cant really help you because
we seem to be in the same situation and I
have been for some time now. At least I
konw its not just me it happens to.
Someone should help us
out.
humm.. I'll try my best!
It sounds like, to me- that you both are
missing something in your life..And as bad
as you want to think it's having a
relationship with the oppisite sex- I
think you should concentrate on something
more important- you!! You have to make
yourself happy, before you can make
someone else happy
i am going through something similar. I
don't know how to handle being hit on or
receiving compliments. I get mad-
ticked. Like someone's trying to lock me
down- even though the person could just
really have an innocent crush- and wants
to be around me. You don't need a
man/woman to make you happy. I'm
learning that now. Do something you used
to love- might just turn that frown
upsidedown
good luck- hope you both are well!
-red-
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paul995
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 140 Location: ,
Posted: 05-01-07 18:18pm
well . . . i think you are . . . well at
least to those guys who seem to like you.
How would you be able to know if the
person is worth it if you don't even dare
to give him a try? if you become too
agressive?
you probably have learned a lot of things
during your past relationships and it's
now time for you to come into a
realization that it's time to calm down
and make a relationship work . . .
