Nataliachick7
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 05-10-06 19:08pm
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A lot of women dont really feel like
having sex towards the end of pregnancy
because things start getting really
uncomfortable as you get closer to
delivery. So what do you guys think about
your partner watching porn? Is it okay to
do in your opinion?
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kissofangel20
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Posted: 05-10-06 19:13pm
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Well yes...They still have the same sex
drive and to be honest wouldn't you rather
him to watch porn than to be off with some
other girl getting the release he needs?
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Nataliachick7
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 05-10-06 19:20pm
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Well yeah I see what you mean...My big
fear was just I heard some guys will
fantasize about it in bed, so its like,
theyre not even really having sex with you
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yellow ribbon
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Location: FL
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Posted: 05-10-06 21:21pm
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Aw I know how ya feel about no sex being
so big and oncomfy. I think porn is ok
but its up to u to tell him how u feel
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ThriftyGal
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 05-10-06 21:34pm
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I hate porrrrrn. I hate looking at erik
and thinking he thought of other girls in
that way. And it's just so smutty. I
don't know I would try to discourage any
porn being watched because I just
personally feel like crap when he does
looks at it. It makes me feel like when
we are intimate that it in't special or
meaningful. Or i'm not good enough.
Maybe i'm just a prude. I'ld rather have
uncomfortable unwanted sex than have him
release with porn.
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kissofangel20
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Posted: 05-11-06 07:48am
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Ohh come on...Women have fanstays as much
as men do. And just because he chooses
to watch porn does not mean he loves you
any less...It just adds to a relationship.
Would you rather it get boring for him
and he can go find some one new...Or watch
a porno which means absolutly nothing to
him but a release. Just because a guy
would like to watch a porno does not make
him nasty or a freak...It means he has a
normal sex drive. The fact that he
chooses to watch a porno and find a
release instead of going to a diff. Woman
to get it should say something to you
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-11-06 08:14am
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I would have to agree with the last
poster. Although my sex drive right now
is higher than it's ever been right now,
it's still uncomfortable for me to have
sex. I don't mind my husband watching
porn, but if you ask most men if they
fantasize during sex most of them say no.
Right now your pregnant and it will pass
once the baby is out and the healing is
completed you will/should be back to your
normal self and he will want the
interaction. Watching porn must get old.
Because you dont' have to other person
there with you. I myself love the
interaction and couldn't see myself
watching porn over and over. I need the
warmth of a body there with me. And I
know my husband is the same way. But
when it comes to release...That is what
men need. And I would wrather he get it
from watching a dirty movie or a mag then
going out and getting it.
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kissofangel20
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:20am
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You are so right about it getting old both
ways...Lol. My husband just got back from
a tour of duty for a year in iraq and
trust me.....He was so tired of porn.
And I was glad his was watching porn
instead of paying $5 for some hooker. I
have seen pics of the gates
there.....There are little shanty's next
to them and women with signs offering
their "services". And it does get old
"doing it" alone. And the above poster
was right things should get back to normal
when you've had the baby and have healed.
The problem then will be trying to find
the time...Lol.
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:24am
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I can see how porn must get really old...
And they'll probs do it with or without
your "consent" it's more about accepting
it than being ok with it really.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:31am
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Yeah I think acceptance is more like it.
A guy needs his release...And if it means
watching a little porn or lovin on the gal
next door....I'd have to go with the porn.
But as being my husband's
wife/significant other I can't withhold
from him during the entire pregnancy and
eventhough it's not comfortable I do it
anyway. Just not as often as before.
It's worth being uncomfortable for a
little while, heck we are uncomfortable
90% if the day/night anyway...Just give
him a little just skip the 4play.
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yngdadof4
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Joined: 09 May 2006
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Posted: 05-11-06 21:25pm
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Me and my wife's biggest agruement.. I
started to watch it late in her first
pregnancy but only at certain times and
only when she agreed. I kind of got
adicited because of coarse her sex drive
was not as big as mine. We talked about
it. After we talked about it I started
thinking about it and I thought that if
she really didn't like it I shouldn't be
doing so I started to fight(still
fighting)the need to watch it. Every now
and then I still cave in sometimes but I
hate what I did afterwards. Now I am
doing and thinking about it less and less.
So my advise would be just to talk to him
and let him know how you feel about it.
He will think about it whether he likes it
or not.
Brent
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yngdadof4
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Posted: 05-11-06 21:38pm
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I meant to put this in there somewhere but
I forgot it I would never ever sub one of
those women for my wife(fantsay or not).
Its just wrong and even after the release
(if thats what you want to call it) I am
already saying to myself there would be no
way and hell I would go after that in my
real life. Its really just something to
get it over with.
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rosejackson
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Posted: 05-13-06 14:47pm
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I rekon it'd b fine if my bf watched porn
as long as he didnt cheat on me wiv any1
else
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