Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-10-06 10:43am
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Omg guys,what?!?!? I said I wasn't going
to call jerrid and I didn't but he just
called me and was all pissy cause I didn't
answer the phone,and then he called again
like 2 seconds later an was like "what
took you so long to answer the phone?"
me:well I was on the other side of the
room and I was busy.Why did you hang up on
me last night?
Je: cause I was in a bad mood and you act
weird.
M:what are you talking about?
Je: your act weird,like soemthing is going
on.I ahve been having this guy call me and
ask for you,his name is jason.You never
want to talkt o me on the phone,your
always busy,you can never talk. .
M: well for one I don't know anyone named
jason.#2 I have not been talking that much
cause you said you wanted your space,i
don't know when to call you,when you want
to talk to me,when to come over,anything.I
think I have a reason to act like that
blah blah blah,we wnt through this whole
thing and I was like I told you I would
never cheat on you,i wasn't raied like
that and i'm not like that. I love you
and you need to straiten out jerrid and
stop freaking out.Just because your x's
cheated on you doesn't mean i'm going
to-chill out. He says ok i'll trust you
but if I feel at all like you are cheating
it;s over.I was like ok thats fine cause
it aint happening.I am still so frustrated
with him. . .
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:04am
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Ok whoa! He should .N.O.T accuse you of
cheating on him - that is out of order
(man he makes me mad sometimes!)
also - if you know no .Jason's then could
he have made it up? (i don't know just
putting forward ideas here)
what do you want to do... I know you
still love him hun but he has treated you
.S.O badly at times.
I think it sounds like he's paranoid and
angry about something (maybe he doesn't
even know what) and has to take it out on
something... That something should .N.O.T
be you! You need to look at the whole
picture and then decide, it's not right
for him to treat you like that and him
calling up to have one last pop at you is
like him sticking a finger up. He's out
of order mel - if you really feel like you
can sort this then talk it through with
him (on neutral territory, go to a cafe or
something) otherwise I still say to ruin
his games! :wink: hugs - I love you.
Me xx xx
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Sunflower_pie81
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Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:13am
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Lol I have a jason programed into my phone
and one time I called it because I have no
idea who it is and my husband didnt' know
either. Well this guy's wife called me
back and cussed me out. It was really
funny. I got my b*tch on and told her
that if she was going to marry my
boyfriend then she should be open to our
love. Lol she was so pissy it wasn't
even funny. ''jason called me back later
and was like thanks for ruining my
marriage. It was really really crule.
Poor guy. Still to this day have his
number programed into my phone....But
havent a clue who he is.
Anyway............Hun chill out dont'
stress over him. I wouldn't
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:20am
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I'm getting to the point where(i am still
stressed out) but I am going to tell him
how I feel whether he likes it or not and
if we end up splitting then so be it.I
called him and said I was coming over
tonight and he was like why? I said cause
we need to tak.He said about what? I said
us,we have issues and ew need to work them
out or else we won't be working out.He
said ok,so we will see what happened
tonight.Thank you girls so much for your
support in this,god knows I need it! Hugs
and kisses to you!
~*~*~*xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
xo*~*~*~
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:25am
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Hugs and kisses to you too, let us know
and come cry or jump for joy (either
or/and - insert appropriate)
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:27am
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Oh,i'll make sure I tell ya'll what
happened : ) I don't know how long it will
take or anything so. . .I just hope it
turns out good!
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DylanJacob
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Melissa_20
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 05-10-06 12:35pm
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Aww, good luck mel. You deserve something
really good to happen right now,
especially after all that's been going on.
I hope everything works out for the best.
Hugs!
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 05-10-06 12:36pm
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Aww, good luck mel. You deserve something
really good to happen right now,
especially after all that's been going on.
I hope everything works out for the best.
Hugs!
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 05-10-06 12:39pm
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Just wanted to say erik accuses me of
cheating. And i've noticed it's always
to cover up his bad behavior. We'll be
having a fight or something and some how
it'll end up about me cheating on him.
Which I have never done. I think he
brings that up to not have to deal with
how he's been acting and treating you.
He's using it like an excuse or
justification. I know that is what erik
does and it sounds like out boys are
alike. I mean people can change. But
sometimes why risk giving them another
chance when you are sure they are still
the same person who will hurt you again...
I give myself very good adive but I very
seldom follow it :roll: . (alice in
wonderland). That's the thing! If his
worries (or erik's) about us cheating is
what is the matter why don't they come out
and say it to us? Isn't there so many
times when we offer up "what's wrong" "do
you want to talk about something". I
think they use it as an excuse for their
behavior and to not get too close to us.
Truth is their both just really insecure.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-10-06 12:56pm
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Yeah,i know what you mean.Well tonight we
are talking whether he likes it or not.I'm
done with this emotional rollercoaster.I
somehow don't think any guy named jason
has called but he might think i'm cheating
cause I have been distant(but thats what
the f*ck he asked for) and b/c on saturday
while he was sleeping I went outside with
his phone to call some friends(damn
terra,why didn't you answer the
phone!,lol) and some guy stopped and asked
what was wrong with me.Righjt then jerrid
came out on the porch and was like hey!
And freaked out that some guy was talking
to me.But we will talk and if it ends it
was for the better.He needs help and i'm
going to tell him that
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:07pm
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:07pm
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...What three times how did that happen.
Wwwtttffff
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:10pm
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Yeah definiatly make some sort of
standards he has to meet from now on if he
wants you. Make sure he knows them and
that the consequence for not changing his
actions is you refusing to put up with
them anymore, which could mean losing you
completely. I find that being ignored
hurts more than anything. Sometimes erik
will not look at me or talk to me for like
whole days, and when I talk he doesn't
even move his eyes from what he is doing
and only replies with something like
"okay" or "whatever you want" when i'm
asking a question. I feel that that is
way more painful than him getting outright
angry. At least then I know he has
emotions. Just do what is best for
yourself, cause he isn't worth sacraficing
more of your happiness for! You deserve
better!
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:14pm
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I'm eating so can't type too much - I
totally agree though ^ good advice tanya!
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:16pm
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Whatca eating? :) I heart food <3
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:21pm
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Strawberries and ice-cream!
Sooooooooo good. I heart food too. It's
awesome, also we would die without it but
you know.. Minor things! :wink:
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ThriftyGal
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:34pm
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Thanks for more great advise.Wow,it's
insane how much erik and jerrid sound the
same.How do you deal with it?
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