Teen Pregnancy Forum - New News Girls!(tanya Carrie)

Omg guys,what?!?!? I said I wasn't going to call jerrid and I didn't but he just called me and was all pissy cause I didn't answer the phone,and then he called again like 2 seconds later an was like "what took you so long to answer the phone?"
me:well I was on the other side of the room and I was busy.Why did you hang up on me last night?
Je: cause I was in a bad mood and you act weird.
M:what are you talking about?
Je: your act weird,like soemthing is going on.I ahve been having this guy call me and ask for you,his name is jason.You never want to talkt o me on the phone,your always busy,you can never talk. .
M: well for one I don't know anyone named jason.#2 I have not been talking that much cause you said you wanted your space,i don't know when to call you,when you want to talk to me,when to come over,anything.I think I have a reason to act like that

blah blah blah,we wnt through this whole thing and I was like I told you I would never cheat on you,i wasn't raied like that and i'm not like that. I love you and you need to straiten out jerrid and stop freaking out.Just because your x's cheated on you doesn't mean i'm going to-chill out. He says ok i'll trust you but if I feel at all like you are cheating it;s over.I was like ok thats fine cause it aint happening.I am still so frustrated with him. . .

Replies(22)

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Ok whoa! He should .N.O.T accuse you of cheating on him - that is out of order (man he makes me mad sometimes!)

also - if you know no .Jason's then could he have made it up? (i don't know just putting forward ideas here)

what do you want to do... I know you still love him hun but he has treated you .S.O badly at times.

I think it sounds like he's paranoid and angry about something (maybe he doesn't even know what) and has to take it out on something... That something should .N.O.T be you! You need to look at the whole picture and then decide, it's not right for him to treat you like that and him calling up to have one last pop at you is like him sticking a finger up. He's out of order mel - if you really feel like you can sort this then talk it through with him (on neutral territory, go to a cafe or something) otherwise I still say to ruin his games! :wink: hugs - I love you.

Me xx xx

Sunflower_pie81

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Lol I have a jason programed into my phone and one time I called it because I have no idea who it is and my husband didnt' know either. Well this guy's wife called me back and cussed me out. It was really funny. I got my b*tch on and told her that if she was going to marry my boyfriend then she should be open to our love. Lol she was so pissy it wasn't even funny. ''jason called me back later and was like thanks for ruining my marriage. It was really really crule. Poor guy. Still to this day have his number programed into my phone....But havent a clue who he is.

Anyway............Hun chill out dont' stress over him. I wouldn't

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

I'm getting to the point where(i am still stressed out) but I am going to tell him how I feel whether he likes it or not and if we end up splitting then so be it.I called him and said I was coming over tonight and he was like why? I said cause we need to tak.He said about what? I said us,we have issues and ew need to work them out or else we won't be working out.He said ok,so we will see what happened tonight.Thank you girls so much for your support in this,god knows I need it! Hugs and kisses to you!

~*~*~*xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo xo*~*~*~

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Hugs and kisses to you too, let us know and come cry or jump for joy (either or/and - insert appropriate)

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Oh,i'll make sure I tell ya'll what happened : ) I don't know how long it will take or anything so. . .I just hope it turns out good!

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Me too. Xx

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

And you too! : )

hopefulmjz

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Aww, good luck mel. You deserve something really good to happen right now, especially after all that's been going on. I hope everything works out for the best. Hugs!

hopefulmjz

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Aww, good luck mel. You deserve something really good to happen right now, especially after all that's been going on. I hope everything works out for the best. Hugs!

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Just wanted to say erik accuses me of cheating. And i've noticed it's always to cover up his bad behavior. We'll be having a fight or something and some how it'll end up about me cheating on him. Which I have never done. I think he brings that up to not have to deal with how he's been acting and treating you. He's using it like an excuse or justification. I know that is what erik does and it sounds like out boys are alike. I mean people can change. But sometimes why risk giving them another chance when you are sure they are still the same person who will hurt you again... I give myself very good adive but I very seldom follow it :roll: . (alice in wonderland). That's the thing! If his worries (or erik's) about us cheating is what is the matter why don't they come out and say it to us? Isn't there so many times when we offer up "what's wrong" "do you want to talk about something". I think they use it as an excuse for their behavior and to not get too close to us. Truth is their both just really insecure.

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Yeah,i know what you mean.Well tonight we are talking whether he likes it or not.I'm done with this emotional rollercoaster.I somehow don't think any guy named jason has called but he might think i'm cheating cause I have been distant(but thats what the f*ck he asked for) and b/c on saturday while he was sleeping I went outside with his phone to call some friends(damn terra,why didn't you answer the phone!,lol) and some guy stopped and asked what was wrong with me.Righjt then jerrid came out on the porch and was like hey! And freaked out that some guy was talking to me.But we will talk and if it ends it was for the better.He needs help and i'm going to tell him that

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

. I posted that twice?

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

...What three times how did that happen. Wwwtttffff

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Yeah definiatly make some sort of standards he has to meet from now on if he wants you. Make sure he knows them and that the consequence for not changing his actions is you refusing to put up with them anymore, which could mean losing you completely. I find that being ignored hurts more than anything. Sometimes erik will not look at me or talk to me for like whole days, and when I talk he doesn't even move his eyes from what he is doing and only replies with something like "okay" or "whatever you want" when i'm asking a question. I feel that that is way more painful than him getting outright angry. At least then I know he has emotions. Just do what is best for yourself, cause he isn't worth sacraficing more of your happiness for! You deserve better!

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

I'm eating so can't type too much - I totally agree though ^ good advice tanya!

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Whatca eating? :) I heart food <3

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Strawberries and ice-cream!

Sooooooooo good. I heart food too. It's awesome, also we would die without it but you know.. Minor things! :wink:

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

Yumm!

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Thanks for more great advise.Wow,it's insane how much erik and jerrid sound the same.How do you deal with it?

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