How Will I Tell Him That I Don't Satisfied As We Make Out? Posted: 05-10-06 08:27am
This will sound really unnatural..But it
really happens on me. When I and my bf
making out, I always end up unsatisfied.
I am keeping it for years now and it kills
me a bit coz I could not tell him about
it. It always turns that am the one who
is being left behind? You know what I
mean? When I make out with him I don't
come at all.. :cry: it does not lasts
for morethan what is expected. He comes
out easily ..
Pls help me with this.. :cry:
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niners
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 31
:) Posted: 05-11-06 06:57am
He should be trying to make you cum first.
Have him do oral on you or maybe play
with your clit. If he is not doing it
right tell him what he is doing wrong. He
will enjoy sex more if he makes you cum
first, because you will probably be even
more turned on. Maybe he can jerk off
just before you guys have sex, so he can
last longer. Foreplay!!!! ;)
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younghealthy
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Joined: 10 May 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Canada
Thanks For Your Reply Niners Posted: 05-11-06 07:24am
I have already told him about that days
passed. But am afraid I might get
dissapointed again. I do oral stuff on
him, maybe that could be one of the
reasons why he cums first? I am really
worried. All women I guess really want to
get satisfied on their making out with
their loved one I guess.. And really hard
if you wont right?
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niners
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 31
Posted: 05-12-06 08:04am
He should want to please you first. Try
starting foreplay with him doing stuff to
you first. Have him do oral to you first.
I hope everything works out for you, good
luck! :)
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Jazzy77
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Posted: 09-20-08 08:28am
when you "make out" with your boyfriend
next time, tell him he HAS to make u cum
before he can. that's the new game!
he'll consider it a challenge. don't make
it easy for him. make him work for it. do
you get me?
if he pouts (and i hate it when guys do
that) tell him that he's going to learn
something about how to please a woman that
will benefit him for the rest of his life.
i don't cum every time i have sex with my
b/f...i'll admit that, and i'm ok with it.
but i do cum every time i WANT TO!
my b/f is a boat captain. if i want to
have an "O" and i'm not getting there, i
just tell him he has to "make it happen
cap'n"!
hahaha.
jasmine
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christopherinpool
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2008 Posts: 11
Posted: 09-20-08 10:04am
Yeah unfortunately, u have to talk to
him.. If that'll hurt his feelings or not
that completely depends on him. How open
minded he is? and if he is ready to face
the fact....
Please talk to him ASAP... More you will
wait to tell him he'll feel betrayed and
will accuse you of faking, he migh even
turn around and say that all u did in 2
yrs was all fake.. TRUST ME HAPPENED TO
ME..
And by waiting u r not happy obviously and
he won't be I bet. I'm sure he notices
that he doesn't last long...
Talk to him and see if he can talk to a
dr..
Good luck
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