Teen Pregnancy Forum - Venting. . .

Tanya's not the only one with man or shall I say 'boy' trouble.Sorry if some of this doesn't make sense to some of you who don't know the whole story.Anywho,jerrid has been being an ass to me since my nana died.You know he pretty much kicked me out a couple weeks ago cause he needed his space,well saturday I went to stay the night at his place and I was upset about my nana.I cried and he just looked at me and said "what?" I was like well your suppose to support me and comfort me when I need it.He was like "well thats what your family is for" and pretty much told me to go home because he couldn't help me,so I went home.We went to the beach on sunday and he picked at me for every little thing he could.We saw a really large woman who was wearing a bathing suit that showed a lot and he made a comment and I said well if I was big I would wear sh*t like that anyway.He says "well your not that fat" I was like "that fat? I'm not fat at all you d*ck head" I called him last night and he was in a crappy mood so I said well I hope when you get home you get out of your crappy mood and be happy and that mother f*ckin prick hung up on me!(very big pet peeve of mine so that was the last straw) I said nothing to piss him off or offend him so I called him back 2 times and he didn't answer his phone.I'm going over to his place to get the rest of my things today.I left my nice queen size bed there cause he didn't have one and I have been sleeping on an air matress on the floor and he slightly rubs it in my face when it's brought up.In fact,i think thats why he hasn't broke up with me yet,so he can sleep in my bed. Well f*ck him,i'm going to go over there today and ask his dad if he will help me and drive the truck to my house so I can get it and I am going to give jerrid a piece of my mind.I really want to break all his stupid video games in half so all he has to do is watch tv.He broke my heart and he is made of stone so the only way I feel I can do anything is to break something of his he uses every day.human. . .I hate guys and I am not going out with anyone else thanks to one friend.Do you think i'm crazy for wanting to break something of his? I just don't want him coming out of this with anything,cause I got nothing but hurt. . . I feel like kicking him in the forhead.

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ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

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He says "well your not that fat"
cut of his effing dick! That saflkdsjflkasgjasg ugh. What a prick! Oh sh*t i'm steamed now. What is with guys and doing this type of stuff! Break his games! Do it, you will feel so liberated and good! If I ever leave here i'm taking a bat to erik's compy! I totally feel for you! That is why I keep using capitals! Does it feel like you walk on eggshells trying to please him and not start a fight but he still finds a reason to be a complete dink and hurt you! Erik does that too when I cry. He's just like "why are you crying it's annoying just shut up for once". That's the worst eh because you are exposing yourself to him because you really need him to just hold you. Oh my asdfasfk. Ugh I don't know what to say that isn't violent encouragements. I don't want to hear about boys pulling this crap anymore! Take your bed. Actually don't break his games take them to the pawn shop and then go buy some frozen yogurt with the money. Take anything you can get money for and totally do it! Then me and you will go vibrator shopping together. : ) stupid dinks.

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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[quote="tanyaface"]he says "well your not that fat"
cut of his effing penis! That saflkdsjflkasgjasg ugh. What a prick! Oh sh*t i'm steamed now. What is with guys and doing this type of stuff! Break his games! Do it, you will feel so liberated and good! If I ever leave here i'm taking a bat to erik's compy! I totally feel for you! That is why I keep using capitals! Does it feel like you walk on eggshells trying to please him and not start a fight but he still finds a reason to be a complete dink and hurt you! Erik does that too when I cry. He's just like "why are you crying it's annoying just shut up for once". That's the worst eh because you are exposing yourself to him because you really need him to just hold you. Oh my asdfasfk. Ugh I don't know what to say that isn't violent encouragements. I don't want to hear about boys pulling this crap anymore! Take your bed. Actually don't break his games take them to the pawn shop and then go buy some frozen yogurt with the money. Take anything you can get money for and totally do it! Then me and you will

oh I know how you feel about walking on eggshells! I couldn't talk to him about anything and he acted the same way when I cried,like "just stop it" like I was acting or something.I couldn't bring anything up unless it came by slightly in a conversation and even then it wouldn't get very far.He never tells me how he feels,and when he gets mad he keeps it to hisself and freaks out on me.He has these drunken rages he goes on,at least once a month and he picks a fight with me about everything, and I mean .E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G! Once we got into it so bad I fell on the bed and he jumpede on top of me and held my arms down while he screamed in my face.I feel so stupid for wanting to stay with him,there isn't even a reason besides the fact that someone brought up that I was comfortable and use to my surroundings.I think I will steal his playstation.The only thing is all his x g/f'd screwed him over and I didn't want to be like them,but I got nothin out of this,it;s so rediculous,i feel stupid but i'm going to tell him he's the fool for screwing everything up and he needs help

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

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I think I should just listen and hug! Out of order about the fat thing though! Don't take that (i'm sure you didn't) not much else to say apart from lots of hugs and hope it sorts out... :(

i love you!!!

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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If I was fat or any more insecure about myself I would have sat on him! I was like "ummm,not that fat,i'm not fat at all,look at your stomache" oh then he said something about 'someones belly hanging over their pants'. Ok it does a tiny bit,a little pouch but what? Douchbag. . .what,thats all I can say.

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

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Don't let him make you feel insecure at all! You shouldn't be... :)

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

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Just say you don't like his penis or something. Or that he's crappy at sex. I don't know, something that will make him feel as insecure as he's made you feel. Like with erik I can't bring anything up becase he'll get defensive and fight about it when I only wanted to talk, and turn it into where he just yells about my flaws or my past. And maybe there is a reason all his other girlfriends screwed him over! Do it, take his playstation because you've lost too much and he should be paying! As for pinning you down, who does he think he is! I hate boys that do stuff like that, their cowards! It doesn't take much to pick on a female when you are like 5 times as strong as her. (in most cases? I dunno maybe your a body builder:p) what happened to gentlemen! Guys that hold doors and never swear or spit infront of ladies, and treat them like gold, love and protect them. It's disgusting. We do so much for them. : (

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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I should tell him I didn't even find him attractive in the firsst place so he has no room to talk! problem.I think I loved the person he was before he showed his demon side but now I have to let it go.I doubt he will call me today but if he does I don't know whether to answer it or not.Carrie,what do you think about me breaking his vidoe games? I just need some advise cause I don't want to do anything i'll regret.I already got one to say go for it!

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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tanyaface wrote:

just say you don't like his penis or something. Or that he's crappy at sex. I don't know, something that will make him feel as insecure as he's made you feel. Like with erik I can't bring anything up becase he'll get defensive and fight about it when I only wanted to talk, and turn it into where he just yells about my flaws or my past. And maybe there is a reason all his other girlfriends screwed him over! Do it, take his playstation because you've lost too much and he should be paying! As for pinning you down, who does he think he is! I hate boys that do stuff like that, their cowards! It doesn't take much to pick on a female when you are like 5 times as strong as her. (in most cases? I dunno maybe your a body builder:p) what happened to gentlemen! Guys that hold doors and never swear or spit infront of ladies, and treat them like gold, love and protect them. It's disgusting. We do so much for them. : (

jerrid does the same thing,when I just want to talk he starts yelling and asks me why .I. Am making such a big deal out of it.He thinks I do.He and erik both need counseling badly.I thought about all his x's screwing him over and that would be the reason,and don't think I wont throw that in his face.I feel bad talking sh*t to him cause i'm not like that but he hurt me so much and doesn't see it. . .

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

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Don't feel bad. Sometimes you need to do these things for yourself. Giving him sh*t is going to give you the comfort he never gave you. Do it for yourself, you deserve it. Sell his games and playstation and go pamper yourself with the money. Don't feel bad. Being nice is what makes guys pull this stuff in the first place! I'm really sorry you are having such a hard time with the dolt. I really feel for you. : (

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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Thanks,i feel for you too especially since you are pregnant,you must feel worss.

I think the reason I don't want to break anything of his is bc somewhere in my mind I still think maybe one day,maybe one day he will change and we will be together again,maybe one day he will be normal like in the beginning of our relationship. . .And if I break his things or take stuff it would never happen.I guess I know what I need to do but i'm still in denial. . .I am so sad,i hate this.I would never wish this feeling on anyone in the world.Thsi should be you rpunishment if you go to hell,not on earth,lol : (

Sunflower_pie81

replied on May 10th, 2006

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{{{{huggs}}} first off.

Get your bed, and the rest of your stuff. Don't you dare sleep on an air matress because he is a friend to kick you out and keep your stuff. Nah, girl I am very strong when it comes to guys treating their girls like sh*t. I wasn't that strong at first when my husband started being a friend but I stood up to him and he straightened up. Don't take that sh*t from him. There isnt' any reason for you to feel bad because he is a jerk. I am very sorry to hear about all the pain your going thru right now and you don't need this guy he isn't right for you. You could be the biggest whale but a guy doesn't date a gal for her looks, I love your personallity and your person doesnt' mean anything to me. And I think that if you find the right guy he will see you for you and not for anything else.

Again get your stuff...And then break everything of his. (i would) I am a little hormonal though.

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

I think revenge can be sweet... But then - :twisted:

Ok, *clears throat* serious advice now...

Go get your stuff, break his and then break contact too. He doesn't deserve you... Mel you are one of the nicest, kindest people I know (even though I only know you over the web it still comes through) and you do not deserve to be put through this.

Sunflower_pie81

replied on May 10th, 2006

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I agree fully.

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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Thanks guys.Did you read my other post,the new one?Read it

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

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I read it =.D and I replied and you know my opinions anyways...

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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Thanks carrie.I hope things turn out good this time cause its going to be a full blown takl,not a half assed thing like he makes it out to be in the end and I think he knows that.

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

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Good good! No lame excuses from .Jerrid now... And no pointing the finger at you from him now either. I pm'd you.

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

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K,no more excuses!

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