Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Venting. . .
Posted: 05-10-06 08:06am
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Tanya's not the only one with man or shall
I say 'boy' trouble.Sorry if some of this
doesn't make sense to some of you who
don't know the whole story.Anywho,jerrid
has been being an ass to me since my nana
died.You know he pretty much kicked me out
a couple weeks ago cause he needed his
space,well saturday I went to stay the
night at his place and I was upset about
my nana.I cried and he just looked at me
and said "what?" I was like well your
suppose to support me and comfort me when
I need it.He was like "well thats what
your family is for" and pretty much told
me to go home because he couldn't help
me,so I went home.We went to the beach on
sunday and he picked at me for every
little thing he could.We saw a really
large woman who was wearing a bathing suit
that showed a lot and he made a comment
and I said well if I was big I would wear
sh*t like that anyway.He says "well your
not that fat" I was like "that fat? I'm
not fat at all you d*ck head" I called him
last night and he was in a crappy mood so
I said well I hope when you get home you
get out of your crappy mood and be happy
and that mother f*ckin prick hung up on
me!(very big pet peeve of mine so that was
the last straw) I said nothing to piss him
off or offend him so I called him back 2
times and he didn't answer his phone.I'm
going over to his place to get the rest of
my things today.I left my nice queen size
bed there cause he didn't have one and I
have been sleeping on an air matress on
the floor and he slightly rubs it in my
face when it's brought up.In fact,i think
thats why he hasn't broke up with me
yet,so he can sleep in my bed. Well f*ck
him,i'm going to go over there today and
ask his dad if he will help me and drive
the truck to my house so I can get it and
I am going to give jerrid a piece of my
mind.I really want to break all his stupid
video games in half so all he has to do is
watch tv.He broke my heart and he is made
of stone so the only way I feel I can do
anything is to break something of his he
uses every day.human. . .I hate guys and
I am not going out with anyone else thanks
to one friend.Do you think i'm crazy for
wanting to break something of his? I just
don't want him coming out of this with
anything,cause I got nothing but hurt. .
. I feel like kicking him in the forhead.
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ThriftyGal
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:15am
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He says "well your not that fat"
cut of his effing dick! That
saflkdsjflkasgjasg ugh. What a prick!
Oh sh*t i'm steamed now. What is with
guys and doing this type of stuff! Break
his games! Do it, you will feel so
liberated and good! If I ever leave here
i'm taking a bat to erik's compy! I
totally feel for you! That is why I keep
using capitals! Does it feel like you
walk on eggshells trying to please him and
not start a fight but he still finds a
reason to be a complete dink and hurt you!
Erik does that too when I cry. He's
just like "why are you crying it's
annoying just shut up for once". That's
the worst eh because you are exposing
yourself to him because you really need
him to just hold you. Oh my asdfasfk.
Ugh I don't know what to say that isn't
violent encouragements. I don't want to
hear about boys pulling this crap anymore!
Take your bed. Actually don't break
his games take them to the pawn shop and
then go buy some frozen yogurt with the
money. Take anything you can get money
for and totally do it! Then me and you
will go vibrator shopping together. : )
stupid dinks.
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:26am
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[quote="tanyaface"]he says "well your not
that fat"
cut of his effing penis! That
saflkdsjflkasgjasg ugh. What a prick!
Oh sh*t i'm steamed now. What is with
guys and doing this type of stuff!
Break his games! Do it, you will feel
so liberated and good! If I ever leave
here i'm taking a bat to erik's compy!
I totally feel for you! That is why I
keep using capitals! Does it feel like
you walk on eggshells trying to please him
and not start a fight but he still finds a
reason to be a complete dink and hurt you!
Erik does that too when I cry. He's
just like "why are you crying it's
annoying just shut up for once". That's
the worst eh because you are exposing
yourself to him because you really need
him to just hold you. Oh my asdfasfk.
Ugh I don't know what to say that isn't
violent encouragements. I don't want to
hear about boys pulling this crap anymore!
Take your bed. Actually don't break
his games take them to the pawn shop and
then go buy some frozen yogurt with the
money. Take anything you can get money
for and totally do it! Then me and you
will
oh I know how you feel about walking on
eggshells! I couldn't talk to him about
anything and he acted the same way when I
cried,like "just stop it" like I was
acting or something.I couldn't bring
anything up unless it came by slightly in
a conversation and even then it wouldn't
get very far.He never tells me how he
feels,and when he gets mad he keeps it to
hisself and freaks out on me.He has these
drunken rages he goes on,at least once a
month and he picks a fight with me about
everything, and I mean
.E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G! Once we got into it
so bad I fell on the bed and he jumpede on
top of me and held my arms down while he
screamed in my face.I feel so stupid for
wanting to stay with him,there isn't even
a reason besides the fact that someone
brought up that I was comfortable and use
to my surroundings.I think I will steal
his playstation.The only thing is all his
x g/f'd screwed him over and I didn't want
to be like them,but I got nothin out of
this,it;s so rediculous,i feel stupid but
i'm going to tell him he's the fool for
screwing everything up and he needs help
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:26am
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I think I should just listen and hug! Out
of order about the fat thing though!
Don't take that (i'm sure you didn't) not
much else to say apart from lots of hugs
and hope it sorts out... :(
i love you!!!
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:31am
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If I was fat or any more insecure about
myself I would have sat on him! I was
like "ummm,not that fat,i'm not fat at
all,look at your stomache" oh then he said
something about 'someones belly hanging
over their pants'. Ok it does a tiny
bit,a little pouch but what? Douchbag.
. .what,thats all I can say.
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:33am
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Don't let him make you feel insecure at
all! You shouldn't be... :)
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ThriftyGal
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:40am
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Just say you don't like his penis or
something. Or that he's crappy at sex.
I don't know, something that will make him
feel as insecure as he's made you feel.
Like with erik I can't bring anything up
becase he'll get defensive and fight about
it when I only wanted to talk, and turn it
into where he just yells about my flaws or
my past. And maybe there is a reason all
his other girlfriends screwed him over!
Do it, take his playstation because you've
lost too much and he should be paying!
As for pinning you down, who does he think
he is! I hate boys that do stuff like
that, their cowards! It doesn't take
much to pick on a female when you are like
5 times as strong as her. (in most
cases? I dunno maybe your a body
builder:p) what happened to gentlemen!
Guys that hold doors and never swear or
spit infront of ladies, and treat them
like gold, love and protect them. It's
disgusting. We do so much for them. : (
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:41am
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I should tell him I didn't even find him
attractive in the firsst place so he has
no room to talk! problem.I think I loved
the person he was before he showed his
demon side but now I have to let it go.I
doubt he will call me today but if he does
I don't know whether to answer it or
not.Carrie,what do you think about me
breaking his vidoe games? I just need
some advise cause I don't want to do
anything i'll regret.I already got one to
say go for it!
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:48am
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| tanyaface
wrote: | | just say you don't like his
penis or something. Or that he's crappy
at sex. I don't know, something that
will make him feel as insecure as he's
made you feel. Like with erik I can't
bring anything up becase he'll get
defensive and fight about it when I only
wanted to talk, and turn it into where he
just yells about my flaws or my past.
And maybe there is a reason all his other
girlfriends screwed him over! Do it,
take his playstation because you've lost
too much and he should be paying! As
for pinning you down, who does he think he
is! I hate boys that do stuff like
that, their cowards! It doesn't take
much to pick on a female when you are like
5 times as strong as her. (in most
cases? I dunno maybe your a body
builder:p) what happened to gentlemen!
Guys that hold doors and never swear or
spit infront of ladies, and treat them
like gold, love and protect them. It's
disgusting. We do so much for them. :
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jerrid does the same thing,when I just
want to talk he starts yelling and asks me
why .I. Am making such a big deal out of
it.He thinks I do.He and erik both need
counseling badly.I thought about all his
x's screwing him over and that would be
the reason,and don't think I wont throw
that in his face.I feel bad talking sh*t
to him cause i'm not like that but he hurt
me so much and doesn't see it. . .
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ThriftyGal
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Joined: 21 Apr 2006
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:01am
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Don't feel bad. Sometimes you need to do
these things for yourself. Giving him
sh*t is going to give you the comfort he
never gave you. Do it for yourself, you
deserve it. Sell his games and
playstation and go pamper yourself with
the money. Don't feel bad. Being nice
is what makes guys pull this stuff in the
first place! I'm really sorry you are
having such a hard time with the dolt. I
really feel for you. : (
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:45am
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Thanks,i feel for you too especially since
you are pregnant,you must feel worss.
I think the reason I don't want to break
anything of his is bc somewhere in my mind
I still think maybe one day,maybe one day
he will change and we will be together
again,maybe one day he will be normal like
in the beginning of our relationship. .
.And if I break his things or take stuff
it would never happen.I guess I know what
I need to do but i'm still in denial. .
.I am so sad,i hate this.I would never
wish this feeling on anyone in the
world.Thsi should be you rpunishment if
you go to hell,not on earth,lol : (
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-10-06 10:50am
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{{{{huggs}}} first off.
Get your bed, and the rest of your stuff.
Don't you dare sleep on an air matress
because he is a friend to kick you out and
keep your stuff. Nah, girl I am very
strong when it comes to guys treating
their girls like sh*t. I wasn't that
strong at first when my husband started
being a friend but I stood up to him and
he straightened up. Don't take that sh*t
from him. There isnt' any reason for you
to feel bad because he is a jerk. I am
very sorry to hear about all the pain your
going thru right now and you don't need
this guy he isn't right for you. You
could be the biggest whale but a guy
doesn't date a gal for her looks, I love
your personallity and your person doesnt'
mean anything to me. And I think that if
you find the right guy he will see you for
you and not for anything else.
Again get your stuff...And then break
everything of his. (i would) I am a
little hormonal though.
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 10:55am
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I think revenge can be sweet... But then
- :twisted: <that's me... Mwah ha ha
ha ha!
Ok, *clears throat* serious advice
now...
Go get your stuff, break his and then
break contact too. He doesn't deserve
you... Mel you are one of the nicest,
kindest people I know (even though I only
know you over the web it still comes
through) and you do not deserve to be put
through this.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Location: to hell with this crap
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:15am
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Thanks guys.Did you read my other post,the
new one?Read it
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:50am
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I read it =.D and I replied and you know
my opinions anyways...
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:54am
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Thanks carrie.I hope things turn out good
this time cause its going to be a full
blown takl,not a half assed thing like he
makes it out to be in the end and I think
he knows that.
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-10-06 12:01pm
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Good good! No lame excuses from .Jerrid
now... And no pointing the finger at you
from him now either. I pm'd you.
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Melissa_20
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