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Q: Its Over From Today!! :(

asked by: Nadine2006 on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Its long sorry

i just need to get it out of my system ok today well this is my last week of school at the moment as im getting quiet big now and it starting to get hard to get up to go to school and everything so this friday coming my last day.

I go to school to be found people saying little things behind my back anyway my mate confronts me n tells me that jayden (babies father and boyfriend) had been seen with another girl on the weekend at the movies holding hands and things like that jayden is 18 so he dont go to school.

After I get home from school he is at my house to come see me anyway we sit down and talk and he seems all fine with me he acts like nothing is wrong I ask him if this is what he realy did he blaintly lied to me. He soon enough admitted it. All I knew was that he held hands with her and just went out I was pist of course yeh later on him telling me he stayed at her house that nite and had sex!!!!

.O.M.G. Im in so much shock right now I cant belive him how can he do this to me knowing dam right my baby is due in the next 9 weeks or so and he can go do this now! Right up until the point of this he was being quiet good but the nights he claims he goes to his mates I have totally no idea if he was really there or not

soon enough his mate come round to see if im ok (he also my good mate) he tells me she wasnt the only one and they didnt want to tell me to stress out the baby!!! Im so pist of and upset mostly I have been with jayden for 2 yrs I cant belive he wud finally just up and do this to me!!! Right at the end cant belive he did this to me at all to top it off we just got a unit we were moving in together.

I ended it with him and told him I dont think good idea if we were together knowing he doing it round behind my bak:( omg im so upset right now I dunno wat to do argh!:( also found out today I have brochitis coz I have been having really bad cough so I just feel all yuck and upset mostly!! 2 yrs.. Wat a waste

Last edited by Nadine2006 on May 10th, 2006 04:05 AM; edited 1 time in total

Replies(44)

kissofangel20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Aww hun I am sorry. And i'm not trying to be mean or judgemental at all...I just want to share my point of view. What makes you think that this last pert of your pg was the only time he has cheated on you? How do you even know he hasn't been going around behind your back the whole two years sleeping around? Hy who will be your main concern..He is 18......Not mature enough to want to settle down. But you know what....You are about to have a beautiful baby who will be you main concern, and I hope that now you know he has been sleeping around you go and have yourself checked for all std's. And keep monitering for them ...Just as a precaution. He helped you make this baby so make him help support it no matter what kind of douchbag he is. I wish you the very best of luck.

Nadine2006

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Thanks aye I know I have thought bout it I know he most likely done it all the way through but I didnt think of it as we were going really good!! And now it what just in a matter of a few stupid things he done of him being a immature jerk he has to end it all like this... Well I ended it but seriously what!! Argh I so angry with myself for being so gullable!! I didnt think he would cheat on me as we were so close and he was always with me but there is little times I look back at now and I do relise he probably was!!

To tell the truth I dont really know if I want him in the baby's life I know that might be a bad thing to say but seriously I dont want my baby and when he get older to be like him!!! He is quiet a lil deadsh*t and has doubled it more this time!! His mum told me not to be so stupid and stay with him he just letting his stress out somehow!!! How the f*ck is that letting stress out.. Well in one way it is !! But ew his mum is a lil terd and I hate her

seriously I dunno what to do he told me I can have the unit but f*ck!!! Argh! So pist right now and feeling icky I feel so tired and miserable on top of him doing this now!! I just want bubs out now so I got sumones to cuddle!!

*edit to fix spelling* anger rage here

DaliciaLynn

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

He's worthless girl, it's good you left him. You don't need anyone like that around you or you're baby.

If that was my man I would of cut his balls off!!

mum???

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Good reply there d,so would have i,infact I would have cut of his dick with a rusty spoon and made him eat it.Your better off without that scum bag and you and your baby are the most impotant people right now,he doesnt deserve iether of you.But take my advice,you get every penny (cent)you can out of him.All my love jadexxxx

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

He so does not deserve either you or the baby... You are so much better off without the person! You have a real right to be angry, vent as much as you like. Hell, I feel angry for you.

Hugs, me xx

ThriftyGal

replied on May 10th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

What is with guys doing this!!! You poor thing. Boys are real scum. This story made me cry because I really know what is like to deal with a liar who has an unfaithful heart. I'm really proud of you for breaking it off with him, you are a really strong girl! You'll find your prince one day k hun. : ( *hugs*

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Wow,thats 3 of us in a 1 week period!

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Says something about the majority of guys I feel!

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Why do the bad girls get all the good guys and we get the bottom of the barrel,all the scum and crust?

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

I don't now but it's a very good point. I've finally found a good one though so can't really comment any more. From past experience though....

So true!

yngdadof4

replied on May 10th, 2006

New User

Hey we're not all bad. Nadine most guys are scared, stupid ,and horny but there are more fish in the sea as they say. Trust me the good guys are out there. I agree with take him for every penny you can. It is the least he can do. It really really (insert favorite cuss word here) makes me mad that guys do this crap. I think for the baby's happiness the worse thing you can do is sleep around. I am not saying every guy should stay with the mother (for example if they really dont love her--makes for a bad bad thing trust me been there with my mom)but they need to keep a friendly relationship so their chlid will be able to know them. If they dont want that then they'll eventually they'll hurt and you'll have all their money.

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

yngdadof4 wrote:

hey we're not all bad. Nadine most guys are scared, stupid ,and horny but there are more fish in the sea as they say. Trust me the good guys are out there. I agree with take him for every penny you can. It is the least he can do. It really really (insert favorite cuss word here) makes me mad that guys do this crap. I think for the baby's happiness the worse thing you can do is sleep around. I am not saying every guy should stay with the mother (for example if they really dont love her--makes for a bad bad thing trust me been there with my mom)but they need to keep a friendly relationship so their chlid will be able to know them. If they dont want that then they'll eventually they'll hurt and you'll have all their money.

so you should read my post and tell me if it's ok if I take his playstation and pawn his games! I have a couple of yes' already but not from a guys point of view

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Brent's got great advice.

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Thats why I want him to read my post so I can get his op. Too,ya know,since he' a dude.I've never done anything mean like that before do I feel weiord doing it :?

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

I don't know... Do you? Was that a rhetorical question... :p

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

Lmao,i was thinking ahead and ruined it,lol.I mmeant I do feel weird doing it,lmao : )

DylanJacob

replied on May 10th, 2006

Experienced User

Lol - okaaay! Are you feeling alright mel?!? Not hot and bothered - no temperature? :wink:

yngdadof4

replied on May 10th, 2006

New User

I'll take the ps2 and video games. Lol hit him were it hurts.

Melissa_20

replied on May 10th, 2006

Especially eHealthy

dylanjacob wrote:

lol - okaaay! Are you feeling alright mel?!? Not hot and bothered - no temperature? :wink:

lol,no just thinking too much and getting ahead of myself but now that you ask. . .Lol

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