Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
About Ms Chief Posted: 05-09-06 19:02pm
Hi everyone. I haven't been very active
on this forum since I had my baby last
november. My eldest daughter started
kindergarten recently, so i've had a
little more time to be on here!!
There's a bit of a situation that I became
aware of yesterday. I was going to post
some pictures under the "sharing" topic.
My friend, who was here at the time
freaked right out.
She has been using my computer to access
the ehealth forum -with my permission, in
fact, I recommended she check out the
miscarriage and hysterectomy forums.
She was on this forum instead. Here's her
story- what she told you guys was all
true, except, it happened in december,
about three weeks after I had my daughter.
She did lose twin girls, and also had to
have an emergency hysterectomy, just not
as recently as she made out.
Also, (this is the really messed up bit)
the picture she posted of "jemma" is
actually my daughter, maeve- we've had a
big row about the whole thing- I was
pretty upset that she posted photo's of my
child.
She does have a crazy sister in law, but
as far as I know, she has no children, and
was never pregnant.
Michelle (ms. Chief) says the feelings
she wrote about "jemma" were actually the
way she felt about maeve, and how she
fantasized about us not being able to care
for her any longer, and how she could step
in and bring her up. Not a very healthy
fantasy if you ask me.
She says the reason she pretended all this
was going on was because she kept
re-living it all over again herself.
Anyway- she started out on this forum, and
a couple of other ones, just having a bit
of fun, and then it became something else
for her I guess.
She won't be on this forum again (well,
not from my computer anyway) I have told
her she needs some help with dealing with
what happened to her, cos that kind of
caca is just not normal. She said she
already knew that, and she will get some
help. I hope she does.
We are still friends, but I will be a bit
wary of her from now on.
Sorry to anyone who got caught up in or
upset by her story- I feel a bit
responsible for that. She said she had
been feeling really guilty about
misleading paople here too.
I don't know if she'll access a computer
to read any pm's or if anyone regularly
pm'd her anyway. You could try getting in
touch with her that way if you want to.
Like I said though, I don't know if she'll
be checking her messages anymore, or using
someone else computer.
I tiold her I was going to out her - even
if it is a public forum, nobody deserves
to be lied to. So she knows i'm doing
this too.
Sorry guys, I honestly didn't know this
was going on- I thought she had made some
connections on the other forums, and I was
glad for her, gave her plenty of space to
"talk" to them.
I'm pretty pissed off actually.
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 05-09-06 19:41pm
Holy caca .El....That's some deep caca to
swallow, ya know?? It's insane that
.Jemma is actually your child!! I never
spoke with .Ms .Chief, but I did read her
posts and felt bad for her sitation...Now
that I know that 95 percent of it was
untrue, I take those sympathy feelings
back...
Thanks for clueing us in!!!
Sarah
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8016 Location: Florida, United States
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Posted: 05-09-06 19:54pm
Holy s*it thats messed up! I pm'd her and
even cried over her story and it was all
lies? I hate people.
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El
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posted: 05-09-06 19:57pm
Yeah tell me about it, here I was
wondering if posting pictures of my kids
was the right thing to do, and my baby's
photo had already been posted by someone
else !!-plus- she didn't post any of her
own kid's photo's either- that's a true
bit too, she has two kids.- just .M.Y
baby. Claiming she was this poor
abandoned "jemma"
i can get past the other stuff, I can see
how she maybe didn't get enough support
from her friends after she lost the
babies, and me with a newborn of the same
sex as the babies she lost, but posting
pictures of my baby is beyond the realms
of acceptable.
I'd feel sorry for her if it wasn't for
that- she went through my computer and
found a cute photo of my child, and went
ahead and posted it here and god knows
where else.
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Lalee
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 991 Location: South Carolina
Posted: 05-09-06 20:15pm
Wow, that's... Wow. I don't know you
cause I guess I wan't around here when you
were on a lot, but I do remember .Ms
.Chief. I felt so bad for her and what
she was going through. The sad part is
that she legitimately needed to be here
and get some support, but she screwed it
up.
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El
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posted: 05-09-06 20:28pm
Totally, and she needs her friends too,
but she's not going to have many left if
she behaves like tha.
Never saw that coming at all.
She usually seems really normal, funny and
normal.
I hope this was just some kind of crazy
"glitch" due to what she's been through,
and that she might snap oput of it and go
back to normal, cos i've known her a while
now, and you know, when you've got kids,
it's nice to hae friends with kids too,
and only one of my other friends does.
And her husband's funny and nice, and my
husband and I are both good friends with
him too.... caca, he's going to freak out
when he hears about this- I wonder if he
knows yet??? Wow. Never even thought of
that.
Ps, what kind of a crap name is jemma to
make up?????? She could have come up with
a better name that that to parade my child
under.
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Mabel
Supporter
Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 8963 Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
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Posted: 05-09-06 22:22pm
Hrm. My lie-dar went off but I didn't
think she was quite that unstable. I hope
she gets help.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:13am
That's totally weird. She needs the same
kind of help as fatfamily.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:23am
By the way el, I took it upon myself to
remove the pic of maeve. Be carefull,
the way your friend talks in that post is
scary.
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006 Posts: 559
Posted: 05-10-06 09:35am
Jeez. That's messed up! I felt really
bad for her... Terra you hit it in one,
people scare me sometimes.
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xashleex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 350 Location: winona,MN