cherry88
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Could I Still Be??help Pleaaase!!!
Posted: 05-09-06 07:08am
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Hello all! Sorry if this mite seem a bit
depressive but this is playing on my mind
hardcore! I had a termination against my
will 9 weeks ago.Which I totally regret.
But since then ive still had all my
symptoms, one real light period. This one
hasnt come. If I am I should be 4 months
and in the last 2 weeks ive put on lots of
weight just on my tummy, even thought ive
eaten pure health food. And the neusea
has come back. Plus urinating alot...
And 'feel' pregnant, cant sleep on my
tummy and stand like im pure pregnant...U
kno arched back. Does n e1 reckon I mite
still be pregnant???Or is my mind and body
playing ticks on me??Or am I just getting
fat quickly?!?Lol. Any help is some help
as im totally clueless right now?! Cheers
babes!!!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-09-06 10:27am
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Ok,i don't think you can get a termination
unless you concent to it dear. If you got
in 9 weeks ago and have had sex since
then,yes you could be pregnant,but if your
talking about being pregnant from when you
had the teermination,i don't think
so.Unless the doctor was a big fool and
doesn't know what he's doing,your not
pregnant.It's normal not to get a period
after having a termination,but all the
rest might just be your mind playing
tricks on you.Have you taken a pregnancy
test?
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-09-06 11:35am
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I'm really sorry - I guess she could mean
someone blackmailed her into getting it
done... That happens more often than you
would think. I don't know.
Sometimes doctors screw up or if it was a
multiple pregnancy it's not unheard of for
one to survive... Rare but not unheard
of. Get a test to put your mind at rest,
I think the most probably thing here is
that it is your mind playing tricks on you
because you didn't want the termination.
Sometimes if this happens your body can
play along too. I'm really sorry for what
ever happened, pm me if you need to.
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cherry88
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Posted: 05-09-06 17:10pm
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Yeah my boyfriends mum blackmailed me into
having it done, well thanks for ur replies
cuz I dont know whats going on with my
body. It mite b playing tricks on me,you
know mind over matter... I had the early
medicated abortion, when you have to
insert the tampon thing inside yourself,
ive always been totally rubbish at tampons
n I dnt ever use em. So I mite of dun
that wrong? Well I dunno, maybe im just
gettin fat. My mums gettin me a pregnancy
test today...So i'll keep it posted.
Cheers.
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Moo
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Posted: 05-09-06 17:19pm
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It is possible to have an incomplete
termination. Did you go to your follow
up exam? I suggest that you go to your
doctor and explain what's been going on.
I'm sorry you regret it, i'm going to
send you a private message
(and btw, coercion is quite common amongst
those who abort, despite giving consent
it's not that straight forward and I know
of a few women who have been thorugh this
kind of thing)
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cherry88
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Posted: 05-09-06 18:47pm
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Hey... No didnt go to my follow up as I
moved country staright afterwards, sounds
real messed up I know. Went to my g.P and
all he said was...That isnt my field. And
to just wait I should b ok. I was like
k...The fool
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cherry88
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Posted: 05-16-06 04:15am
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Hi beckster soz I only just wrote back, I
went to the hospital on the 11th was there
all day in a&e unfortunately....They
didnt kno what was wrong with me and
wanted to do an internal exam and keep me
in overnight on the gynecology ward, but
ive always hated hospitals and the whole
stayin in overnight thing....And gettin an
internal exam just scared me, they wanted
to check theres nothing left cuz im not
pregnant. But I left the hospital instead
and now im going to pay to hav an
ultrasound...Well thats about it. Soo..
Yeah.
Cherry88
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Nadine2006
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Posted: 05-16-06 04:17am
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All the best cherry :) hope it works out
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OaTmEaLfAiRy
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Posted: 05-16-06 17:09pm
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I hope I don't get scolded for posting on
here, as this is a week old post!!
(don't hurt me sandralynn!
</sarcasm>)
anyway, yes you can still have symptoms
and not be pregnant. You should probably
see a doctor about it though, as you might
need a d&c (it'd be like having a
surgical abortion without actually killing
a baby).
My sis went through the same thing back in
november (through early this year). She
regreted her decision after she'd gone
through with it. So she was sort of
hoping they'd messed up and she was still
pregnant. They had scheduled a d&c
for the following week (her 'endometrial
lining' was still thick, which means it
was still showing she was pregnant, but
without the baby) but her body sorted
itself out and the d&c was cancelled
(it was no longer needed).
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cherry88
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Posted: 05-16-06 19:44pm
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Nah dnt worrycuz it is like a week old, I
still appreciate the help cuz although the
post miht b old my problem isnt, so thanks
alot :d
thanks nadie :)
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cherry88
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Posted: 05-16-06 20:07pm
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I dont understand y is she fake???
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-16-06 20:10pm
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Go read the connor thread :wink:
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