Ok,i don't think you can get a termination unless you concent to it dear. If you got in 9 weeks ago and have had sex since then,yes you could be pregnant,but if your talking about being pregnant from when you had the teermination,i don't think so.Unless the doctor was a big fool and doesn't know what he's doing,your not pregnant.It's normal not to get a period after having a termination,but all the rest might just be your mind playing tricks on you.Have you taken a pregnancy test?

I'm really sorry - I guess she could mean someone blackmailed her into getting it done... That happens more often than you would think. I don't know.

Sometimes doctors screw up or if it was a multiple pregnancy it's not unheard of for one to survive... Rare but not unheard of. Get a test to put your mind at rest, I think the most probably thing here is that it is your mind playing tricks on you because you didn't want the termination. Sometimes if this happens your body can play along too. I'm really sorry for what ever happened, pm me if you need to.

Yeah my boyfriends mum blackmailed me into having it done, well thanks for ur replies cuz I dont know whats going on with my body. It mite b playing tricks on me,you know mind over matter... I had the early medicated abortion, when you have to insert the tampon thing inside yourself, ive always been totally rubbish at tampons n I dnt ever use em. So I mite of dun that wrong? Well I dunno, maybe im just gettin fat. My mums gettin me a pregnancy test today...So i'll keep it posted. Cheers.

It is possible to have an incomplete termination. Did you go to your follow up exam? I suggest that you go to your doctor and explain what's been going on. I'm sorry you regret it, i'm going to send you a private message

(and btw, coercion is quite common amongst those who abort, despite giving consent it's not that straight forward and I know of a few women who have been thorugh this kind of thing)

Hey... No didnt go to my follow up as I moved country staright afterwards, sounds real messed up I know. Went to my g.P and all he said was...That isnt my field. And to just wait I should b ok. I was like k...The fool

Hi did you test yet?

Hi beckster soz I only just wrote back, I went to the hospital on the 11th was there all day in a&e unfortunately....They didnt kno what was wrong with me and wanted to do an internal exam and keep me in overnight on the gynecology ward, but ive always hated hospitals and the whole stayin in overnight thing....And gettin an internal exam just scared me, they wanted to check theres nothing left cuz im not pregnant. But I left the hospital instead and now im going to pay to hav an ultrasound...Well thats about it. Soo.. Yeah.
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All the best cherry :) hope it works out

I hope I don't get scolded for posting on here, as this is a week old post!! (don't hurt me sandralynn! )

anyway, yes you can still have symptoms and not be pregnant. You should probably see a doctor about it though, as you might need a d&c (it'd be like having a surgical abortion without actually killing a baby).


My sis went through the same thing back in november (through early this year). She regreted her decision after she'd gone through with it. So she was sort of hoping they'd messed up and she was still pregnant. They had scheduled a d&c for the following week (her 'endometrial lining' was still thick, which means it was still showing she was pregnant, but without the baby) but her body sorted itself out and the d&c was cancelled (it was no longer needed).

Nah dnt worrycuz it is like a week old, I still appreciate the help cuz although the post miht b old my problem isnt, so thanks alot :d
thanks nadie :)

Shes a fake whore!

I dont understand y is she fake???

Go read the connor thread :wink: