Attracted to Older Women? Posted: 05-08-06 21:41pm
For as long as I can remember I have
always - can't think of the right word -
admired? Older women. Since primary
school I guess. Women on tv, teachers...
I always thought I was weird as other
girls my age seemed to be interested in
only boy bands which bored me.
Anyway I dated guys in my teens and the
thought of dating girls never entered my
head. As i've gotten older I realise i'm
not attracted to men but question whether
I am attracted to women. As it seems
unless they're a good say 10 years older
there's no appeal. Am I looking for a
mother figure? I don't know. Is it just
admiration and wanting to be like these
women rather than being attracted?
Any advice? :oops:
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shelly27
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2005 Posts: 9
Posted: 05-09-06 21:20pm
Hey,
you sound exatly like me, I havent had
many boyfriends and I have always amired
older women and never really thought about
them sexually untill I realised I could be
gay or bi.
I now think it is just about two people
who love each other no matter what the sex
you both are.
Someone told me that your feelings and
body will tell you, meaning that
butterflys in your tummy when you see that
person,your whole being lighting up when
ypou are with them.
Regarding the mother thing that could be a
issue, I did have issues with mine which I
have and am looking at.
All the best love:0)
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nightangel73
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Posted: 05-09-06 22:29pm
shelly27
wrote:
someone told me that your feelings and
body will tell you, meaning that
butterflys in your tummy when you see that
person,your whole being lighting up when
ypou are with them.
All the best
love:0)
that of the butterflies in your tummy is
overrated. When I was younger I thought
that was it but after being ditched after
ditched with guys I felt butterflies for I
learned that true love was not defined by
butterflies but in their capabalities of
commitment, understanding and sacrifice.
Now that's how I fall in love.
But going to the topic a coworker of mine
is married to a woman 10 years older than
him. They are doing okay. I was told
they did had problems (of sexual nature)at
some point for her older age. She doesn't
want that he looks young because the
people at work make fun of them. In spite
all they have had a succesful marriage I
believe it is because he is a very good
man like few out there that loves her and
sacrifices for her no matter what.
