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lamartine
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Sex On 2nd Date
Posted: 05-07-06 16:52pm
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Okay, y'all. So I did something stupid.
I've been out twice with a new guy that I
really like. Yesterday, we went to an
all-day event at which there was unlimited
food an alcohol. We spent an amazing day
together, and at the end of the night, I
had had a little too much to drink (as had
he), and I slept with him. I never do
that. The thing is, I really like this
guy. Do you think the fact that I did
that so early automatically dooms this?
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nightangel73
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Posted: 05-07-06 21:42pm
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That's difficult to tell, depends on the
guy. However I don't think it is a good
start of a relationship having sex the
first time under the influence of alcohol.
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beautiful
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Posted: 05-25-06 14:38pm
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The more you make them wait the more they
respct you and yes that is true and to
blast do not say it aint cus you a guya
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blast
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Posted: 05-25-06 14:39pm
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Yes because if u give it to him the first
couple of days then he got what he wanted
and now he gone so now the guy u really
like is gone and u just gave your goods to
him
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beautiful
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Posted: 05-25-06 14:43pm
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The more you make them wait the more they
respct you and yes that is true and to
blast do not say it aint cus you a guya
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dannyvela
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You Should Really Wait.
Posted: 05-29-06 02:21am
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Many people hear to wait until your
married to have sex. This statement goes
out to all the girls and guys who are
contimplating on whether to have sex for
the first time or not to. From
experiences of my own hear me out.
Girls:
you may be intimidated by the rise
of the controversy brought up by teens and
parents on whether to start having sex or
not to. Then again comes the push of peer
pressure put on by your boyfriend. Don't
be pressured. It's hard, oh so very hard
not to, but you must stand your grounds
and morals. They will tell you that sex
is not such a big deal. The ones who tell
you that have not been in the shoes of a
girl who has just seen the blue strip on
the hpt(home pregnancy test). When your
put in that situation you'll find out that
you should have waited. That you should
have said no. But it's too late. That
pit feeling in your stomach won't go away.
That comes back every time you look at
your parents in the eye. It only gets
worse until you decide to talk to them
about it. After that, they lose trust in
you. Your life that you had is over.
When your married you atleast know that
the person you have sex with is a person
that will stay with you even when that
blue line comes up. When you are married
and in love is the right time to have sex.
Guys:
sex is the one thing that you are
trying to get through when your a teen.
Your mind is set on losing your virginity
with the hottest girl in school. You'll
do anything. Tell them lies and reasons
about why to do it. You'll be happy and
acheive a large bravado feeling that you
will in turn brag about to your friends in
a sense of relief up untill about two
weeks when you meet back up with that girl
and she looks you straight in the eyes,
and you ask her "what's wrong?" she drips
a tear down her eye, and puts your hand on
her stomach. In that split second your
heart droops into your stomach, and your
there wondering why in the world didn't
you wait. You don't want that for you,
for her, or for your concious. I know
this from experience. It's the worst
feeling in the world, and I hope that
another teen boy never goes through that.
I am here not to preech about what
is wrong and right, but to only advise and
help. Do the right thing for yourself and
your significant other. Think then act.
If you need assistance go to a friend or
parent. I'm sure they can help you with
their personal experiences as well as
their good will.
I was fifteen.
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gbag
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Sex On First Date
Posted: 05-29-06 05:02am
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Sex with a partner you know little about
is dangerous. Dating is a ritual used to
learn more about the person and their
behaviors. They may have a "10"
(exterior) but during the dating process,
may actually be a "1". Guys can hide a
deviant behavior for a while, but they
will always show their true colors "in
time". Having raised a beautiful daughter
(20's) I have seen some real winners. I
have seen some shoveling their stories
with both hands. I can only shake my...
Yes, I have told or warned my daughter of
"our" men, tricks. Always be aware of the
stories that begin with, "you want believe
this..." maybe you shouldn't.
However, early sex is an individual
decision and can vary person to person
depending on age, gender and maturity. Be
safe and slow down a bit.
Last edited by gbag on 05-30-06 13:58pm; edited 1 time in total
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beautiful
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Posted: 05-30-06 09:39am
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Go talk to your doctor about what you hae
told us
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ka5
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Posted: 06-06-06 06:17am
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I wudn't be too worried - have you heard
from this guy since? Having sex when
drunk is actually not as bad as u moght
think - it removes all the inhibitions and
the awkwardness of the first time
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beautiful
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Posted: 06-06-06 23:00pm
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The first time should be special not with
a drunk
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hardcharger7
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Posted: 08-20-06 22:41pm
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I think there's too much emphasis on your
first time with someone to be "special".
If you're always looking for the first
time(with someone) to be special, then
you're placing too much importance on the
rigth mood, or it being perfect.
Whether it's special or not, it's always
memorable, at least for me.
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beautiful
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Posted: 08-20-06 23:34pm
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That is you not everybody else
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hardcharger7
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Posted: 08-21-06 02:02am
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Yes, that is me, and not everybody.
That's why I said at the end of my post
"at least for me"
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beautiful
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Posted: 08-23-06 19:23pm
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I apologize I did not see that
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bhabe
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Posted: 11-12-06 21:00pm
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Not a good situation.Sex on the drunk? He
might forgot and dont remember that he
had a good sex to you that night........
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diamondsz
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Posted: 11-29-06 09:54am
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Sex is completely natural, its not meant
just for procreation but also for "fun"!
The fact is that you were two consenting
adults, im assuming you enjoyed it as did
he and if he feels strongly about you he
will stay around. You could make a guy
wait 10 months and after he gets his booty
call he may still leave the thing is you
need to do what you feel comfortable with.
There is no special time/right time to
have sex it usually just happens!
Sex is also a natural stress reliever and
can work miracles in certain
circumstances, let your body tell you what
it wants!
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