That's difficult to tell, depends on the guy. However I don't think it is a good start of a relationship having sex the first time under the influence of alcohol.

The more you make them wait the more they respct you and yes that is true and to blast do not say it aint cus you a guya

Yes because if u give it to him the first couple of days then he got what he wanted and now he gone so now the guy u really like is gone and u just gave your goods to him

The more you make them wait the more they respct you and yes that is true and to blast do not say it aint cus you a guya

Many people hear to wait until your married to have sex. This statement goes out to all the girls and guys who are contimplating on whether to have sex for the first time or not to. From experiences of my own hear me out.

Girls:

you may be intimidated by the rise of the controversy brought up by teens and parents on whether to start having sex or not to. Then again comes the push of peer pressure put on by your boyfriend. Don't be pressured. It's hard, oh so very hard not to, but you must stand your grounds and morals. They will tell you that sex is not such a big deal. The ones who tell you that have not been in the shoes of a girl who has just seen the blue strip on the hpt(home pregnancy test). When your put in that situation you'll find out that you should have waited. That you should have said no. But it's too late. That pit feeling in your stomach won't go away. That comes back every time you look at your parents in the eye. It only gets worse until you decide to talk to them about it. After that, they lose trust in you. Your life that you had is over. When your married you atleast know that the person you have sex with is a person that will stay with you even when that blue line comes up. When you are married and in love is the right time to have sex.


Guys:
sex is the one thing that you are trying to get through when your a teen. Your mind is set on losing your virginity with the hottest girl in school. You'll do anything. Tell them lies and reasons about why to do it. You'll be happy and acheive a large bravado feeling that you will in turn brag about to your friends in a sense of relief up untill about two weeks when you meet back up with that girl and she looks you straight in the eyes, and you ask her "what's wrong?" she drips a tear down her eye, and puts your hand on her stomach. In that split second your heart droops into your stomach, and your there wondering why in the world didn't you wait. You don't want that for you, for her, or for your concious. I know this from experience. It's the worst feeling in the world, and I hope that another teen boy never goes through that.

I am here not to preech about what is wrong and right, but to only advise and help. Do the right thing for yourself and your significant other. Think then act. If you need assistance go to a friend or parent. I'm sure they can help you with their personal experiences as well as their good will.


I was fifteen.

Sex with a partner you know little about is dangerous. Dating is a ritual used to learn more about the person and their behaviors. They may have a "10" (exterior) but during the dating process, may actually be a "1". Guys can hide a deviant behavior for a while, but they will always show their true colors "in time". Having raised a beautiful daughter (20's) I have seen some real winners. I have seen some shoveling their stories with both hands. I can only shake my... Yes, I have told or warned my daughter of "our" men, tricks. Always be aware of the stories that begin with, "you want believe this..." maybe you shouldn't.

However, early sex is an individual decision and can vary person to person depending on age, gender and maturity. Be safe and slow down a bit.

Go talk to your doctor about what you hae told us

I wudn't be too worried - have you heard from this guy since? Having sex when drunk is actually not as bad as u moght think - it removes all the inhibitions and the awkwardness of the first time

The first time should be special not with a drunk

I think there's too much emphasis on your first time with someone to be "special".
If you're always looking for the first time(with someone) to be special, then you're placing too much importance on the rigth mood, or it being perfect.

Whether it's special or not, it's always memorable, at least for me.

That is you not everybody else

Yes, that is me, and not everybody.

That's why I said at the end of my post "at least for me"

I apologize I did not see that

Not a good situation.Sex on the drunk? He might forgot and dont remember that he had a good sex to you that night........

Sex is completely natural, its not meant just for procreation but also for "fun"!

The fact is that you were two consenting adults, im assuming you enjoyed it as did he and if he feels strongly about you he will stay around. You could make a guy wait 10 months and after he gets his booty call he may still leave the thing is you need to do what you feel comfortable with.

There is no special time/right time to have sex it usually just happens!

Sex is also a natural stress reliever and can work miracles in certain circumstances, let your body tell you what it wants!