I am here to write how I feel. I found this forum thru yahoo and just seeing if anyone here has a similar situation as me and how do you deal with it. Anyways yesterday I turned 28 and whats so heart broken of this is I never had a gf yet. Still today I never kissed a girl, never had a relationship, never held a girls hand. At this age I am starting to get very very worried now. I feel like I missed out on an important part of my life.
Why can't I get a gf? I really wish I knew..I always wanted to have a gf and have a relationship. I always wanted a girl whos outgoing, enjoys working out, sports and having fun. Its really heart breaking and lonely sometimes. It always been hard for me to get girls. I have never been to a hs dance or prom. I never been approaced by any girls during turnabout or anywhere. Girls never can look me into the eye if I look at them. They turn their head or they just don't look at me. I been out with a few but nothing serious at all. After going out with a few, they just lost interest in me, I call them I leave a message and never call me back. I also been ditched and hanged up on.
I just don't get why girls don't find me attractive at all or give me a chance. I think its my height and somewhat my appearance & my voice, I am only 5'4, I weigh 130lbs..My appearance is about average, on a scale of 1 to 10, I am about a 5. I have read many many profiles and the type of guy a girl wants is always within 5'9 and up. Many profiles says I want a man whos taller than me. Girls never want to get to know me or go out with me. I ve asked many and always theres an excuse or just no. I ask out average to some attractive girls, the ones I find attraction to.
I am an outgoing fun person, I always dress neatly, I am no messy person, I am in good shape, I workout all the time, I do play ice hockey and other sports. I can run the mile under 5 mins. I take good care of myself. I am not a big bar or club person at all. I can't stand the smoke.. I do drink but rarely, . I ve heard success stories of online dating. Ive tried several dating websites from cupid, match, plentyoffish, myspace, matchdoctor, eharmony, hotornot and no luck at all. Since I have been on of all of those dating websites my profiles has been viewed more than 1000 times and I have never gotten an email from one girl yet. Its so hard to believe of all of those girls who viewed my profile, I would think at least one girl would be interested and wanting to get to know me. I am the one who sends all of the emails to them.
I don't understand why I can't get a gf? They all say its easy to get a gf..Its not easy at all!! I have heard people say "don't look for them they will come to you". I don't buy that at all.. Ive been waiting for many many many years and nothing..Being 28 and never having a gf is really really hard to deal with..Everyday I think about it and its so dam hard not to think of it..Its also hard when you hear co-workers talking about their gf, dating etc, also going out seeing guys with their gf having a good time, laughing and enjoying each other..When I see a guy with a girl I sometimes wish I could be in his shoes just for a few minutes seeing what its like to have a girl by your side.
Whats wrong with me?? I don't really know what else to do. Its so hard to think I am already 28 and never had gf. Thats why I always go running or play hockey just to try to get my mind off of it but everyday its still stuck in me. I sometimes wonder and think if I will ever get a gf? The biggest question is when will I have my first kiss? Many guys have their first kiss in their early teens and me being 28 makes me feel so bad. Sometimes it seems like that I might not get a gf at all..Time flys by so dam fast and its hard to believe that I am already 28 and almost 30 yrs old and still no gf..I am probably the oldest guy here in the forum who never had a gf or kissed a girl yet. If theres anyone here like me (which I doubt it) with this similar situation, how do you deal with it? Have you been successfull?
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