laura_friesen
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How Many In the Delivery Room??
Posted: 05-05-06 22:36pm
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Hey ladies, I was just wondering if more
than one person is allowed in the delivery
room during labour. Like my mom and my
fiance or like, just my fiance? Thanks!!!
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 05-06-06 13:17pm
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Maybe indiana is just wierd, but when my
sister had my nephew there were 6 people
in the room. My mom, my aunt, my grandma,
my mom's best friend, her boyfriend, and
his mom were all in the room. It could
just depend on the doctor also.
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 05-06-06 14:08pm
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It depends on your hospitals rules and
regualtions. I am only supposed to have
my boyfriend there, but if I get
permission from the doctors I can have my
mom there too.
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 05-06-06 14:15pm
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While I was in labor I was able to have my
mother and my husband there, but once they
decided I needed a c-section, only my
husband could come with me. Like sandra
said...And I was awake for my c-section.
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 05-06-06 14:57pm
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My sister delivered at the same hospital
that i'm going to, and the regulations say
that there are only 2 people allowed in
the room, but she had 6. They told her
that it didn't matter as long as they
weren't in the way and they didn't touch
crap. Hopefully it will be the same when
I deliver.
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laura_friesen
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Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 615 Location: , Canada
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sweetz05
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Posted: 05-07-06 15:44pm
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Actually in the delivery room where I was,
it was my fiance, my mom, and his mom.
They were all needed as well lol
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diamondsz
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Posted: 05-07-06 16:01pm
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I was allowed 2 people!!!
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Ms Chief
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Cheersquad In Delivery Room.
Posted: 05-07-06 19:00pm
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Most hospitals say no more then two, but,
really, you'll find most hospitals pretty
relaxed about that.
I don't know about c-section though, then
again, I don't know how attractive that is
in terms of spectators anyway.
With my first, I was just going to have my
husbandpresent at the actiual delivery,
but have my mum in the vicinity-y'know,
during the labour, and as soon as the baby
was born. But in the end, I had both of
the there the whole time (holding a leg
each)
after my baby was born, my mum went out to
give us a little time.
Not long afterwards, they let her, my dad,
my sisters, my sisters's friend (who gave
her a lift to the hospital!) in to visit
for a while.
My husband's mother (wio is a nut) wanted
to be at the birth- wanted to rub my back
for me or some caca (shudder) I can just
imagine what a pain in the arse she
would've been. Nice woman an' all, but
seriousy-small doses !!
I quoted the "two only" rule, so it was
easy to fob her off gently- I think that
is the main purpose of that rule to be
honest.
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Kimmeh
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Posted: 05-07-06 19:34pm
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My hospital had a 2 person rule. And they
were very strict about it because I was
hoping I could have 3 and they said no
way. It was kind of lame. But I had a
bit of complication later on while I was
pushing (her heartrate started dropping
dangerously low + she also pooped inside
me, as she was 5 days overdue) and so they
brought in a team of specialists just
incase something was wrong (thank goodness
nothing was) and the room filled up very
fast. I think that rule is there just
incase they need room for doctors. You
never know what will happen in labour, and
it's always good to be prepared.
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laura_friesen
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Posted: 05-07-06 19:35pm
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Oh alrighty, thanks ladies :)
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-08-06 04:42am
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I had three, lol. My mum and my two best
mates... I didn't ask for them to be
there but I had a really short labour and
they kind of got caught up in the rush!
They turned up with flowers just before I
went into the l&d room and had to come
with me. Poor boys, one of them's only
15. I think the doctors are ok as long
as you are and it's not an excessive
amount of people who are in the way.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 05-08-06 08:46am
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Yeah alot of hospitals here specify two
only because of what happened with sars so
they limited the visitors between certain
hours and sometimes if the baby is in the
nursery you have to wear a gown (yellow
nurse gown) so you dont bring anything in
to the other kids.
Just check with hospital policy!!
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DylanJacob
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Posted: 05-08-06 10:07am
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Was that really 'cos of sars? Geez, learn
a new thing every day :p
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 05-08-06 17:06pm
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I have decided I only want my husband in
the room. Of course now that I am having
another c-section I only get to have one
person in the delivery room anyway.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 05-09-06 06:48am
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Gen with my first I had my mom and husband
it was awesome with cam I just had my
husband because my mother was watching
elisa moms are usually awesome they know
what your going through and dont put you
under stress sometimes hubbys can do more
damage than good(they freak out when
giving birth.) now hubby was great but
when ur in pain and hes trying to talk to
you it got on my nerves lol!!!
Good luck guys
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-09-06 07:13am
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I'm not even in labor yet and I get
annoyed when hubby starts talking to me
when i'm having a contraction or that
crampy feeling. I want to bash him.
For the original poster i'm pretty sure
that it depends on your hospital. I
don't know how many are allowed but I know
I don't want my mum with me. We're very
close but not really cool about physical
things. I'd be really embarrassed to
have my mum see me like that and she's not
good with body fluids. She'd pass out.
So only hubby for me.
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